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over a year ago
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Show her your profile I shour she be ecstatic that you been here over a year without her knowing
maybe it should have been something you sat down and talked about before you joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have told her a lot of times that I want to watch her be fucked by another man and she's never dismissed the idea. It's just actually getting her to do it "
If after telling her 'lots of times' she still hasn't done it, then take it as read that she doesn't want to do it. Or she would of done it by now....take the hint, she doesn't want to do it....
Have you actually asked her what she wants?? Maybe communicate with her properly and listen to her |
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"I have told her a lot of times that I want to watch her be fucked by another man and she's never dismissed the idea. It's just actually getting her to do it
If after telling her 'lots of times' she still hasn't done it, then take it as read that she doesn't want to do it. Or she would of done it by now....take the hint, she doesn't want to do it....
Have you actually asked her what she wants?? Maybe communicate with her properly and listen to her "
I have spoken to her about it and she does like the idea but she's very shy and hasn't built up the confidence to go through with it yet |
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You can't talk her into something,if she's not interested.
By all means sit down and discuss it,but if she doesn't want to she doesn't and that's it I'm afraid.
Nobody should be pushed into something that's not for them.
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
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Unless she tells "you" she wants to do it then drop the idea, you can't make someone be willing to partake in your fantasy.
She may be your Wife, but you don't own her body or her mind.  |
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"You can't talk her into something,if she's not interested.
By all means sit down and discuss it,but if she doesn't want to she doesn't and that's it I'm afraid.
Nobody should be pushed into something that's not for them.
Miss"
I totally get that and as I say she does like the idea and I'm positive once she's tried it she will love it. It's just getting that original one |
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"You can't talk her into something,if she's not interested.
By all means sit down and discuss it,but if she doesn't want to she doesn't and that's it I'm afraid.
Nobody should be pushed into something that's not for them.
Miss
I totally get that and as I say she does like the idea and I'm positive once she's tried it she will love it. It's just getting that original one "
It sounds like it's all what you want and would enjoy,not what she does
How about seeing if she'd go to a club with you and see what happens. |
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"You can't talk her into something,if she's not interested.
By all means sit down and discuss it,but if she doesn't want to she doesn't and that's it I'm afraid.
Nobody should be pushed into something that's not for them.
Miss
I totally get that and as I say she does like the idea and I'm positive once she's tried it she will love it. It's just getting that original one
It sounds like it's all what you want and would enjoy,not what she does
How about seeing if she'd go to a club with you and see what happens."
That could be a good idea and it's not about what I want as she is filthy when she has the confidence
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Does she know you've a profile on here? Maybe show her around the site a little.
Otherwise suggest a club you don't have to play with others just yourselves if your comfortable on your 1st visit, make it more of a look and see if you like it, rather than I want this this and this to happen.
There is no persuading her though, if she's not interested she's not interested.
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"Does she know you've a profile on here? Maybe show her around the site a little.
Otherwise suggest a club you don't have to play with others just yourselves if your comfortable on your 1st visit, make it more of a look and see if you like it, rather than I want this this and this to happen.
There is no persuading her though, if she's not interested she's not interested.
Mrs "
Hi yes she knows I'm on here and is interested I think a club is a good idea as she doesn't have the confidence in herself and think she would love the attention and then the confidence will flow |
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"I have told her a lot of times that I want to watch her be fucked by another man and she's never dismissed the idea. It's just actually getting her to do it
If after telling her 'lots of times' she still hasn't done it, then take it as read that she doesn't want to do it. Or she would of done it by now....take the hint, she doesn't want to do it....
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Alternatively she's waiting for the OP to arrange it. |
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"Talk to her and maybe show her a film"
Oh we watch loads of porn together and she gets so wet and horny watching it and always says she wishes she had there confidence. I've built her confidence up loads since meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't.
You can say you like the idea. If she does too then I'm sure she'll make that clear.
I'd suggest conducting this discussion next to an open door and wearing a pair of running spikes incase it does not have the desired outcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I go about talking my partner into swinging "
Respect her decision that she’s not into it. If she doesn’t want to try it then leave it at that. You wouldn’t like to be coerced into something you don’t want to do would you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These posts are almost invariably started by men with profiles more than a year old.
It’s like “these easy shags I heard about on a fab ain’t working out so I’d best try again with her”. |
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"If you want to talk someone into something the best way is to list the benefits to them of doing it. What do you think they are?"
More trust
More fun
Boost her body confidence
Better sex life
She fantasises about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe her interest is to keep her partner happy . And not interest in the activity itself ?
I find important find the woman happiness then find how u can make her happy . |
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"If you want to talk someone into something the best way is to list the benefits to them of doing it. What do you think they are?
More trust
More fun
Boost her body confidence
Better sex life
She fantasises about it"
I'd disagree with more trust.
To be more fun it has to be something she enjoys
It might boost her body confidence
Has she expressed dissatisfaction with your sex life?
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"If you want to talk someone into something the best way is to list the benefits to them of doing it. What do you think they are?
More trust
More fun
Boost her body confidence
Better sex life
She fantasises about it
I'd disagree with more trust.
To be more fun it has to be something she enjoys
It might boost her body confidence
Has she expressed dissatisfaction with your sex life?
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No she loves our sex life but she does want to fulfil certain things and she wishes she had the confidence I do with sex |
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"If you want to talk someone into something the best way is to list the benefits to them of doing it. What do you think they are?
More trust
More fun
Boost her body confidence
Better sex life
She fantasises about it
I'd disagree with more trust.
To be more fun it has to be something she enjoys
It might boost her body confidence
Has she expressed dissatisfaction with your sex life?
No she loves our sex life but she does want to fulfil certain things and she wishes she had the confidence I do with sex"
Right. So where does talking her into it come in? |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft"
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ? |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ?"
Yeah suppose that's what I should have put |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ?
Yeah suppose that's what I should have put"
Have you taken some flattering photos of her so she can see for herself |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ?
Yeah suppose that's what I should have put
Have you taken some flattering photos of her so she can see for herself "
Yes and videos which she loves watching back |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ?
Yeah suppose that's what I should have put
Have you taken some flattering photos of her so she can see for herself
Yes and videos which she loves watching back "
Well good luck to you both |
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over a year ago
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I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally? |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally? "
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean |
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"Exactly she thinks that other men won't find her attractive which is daft
So what you really meant to say was
"My partner really wants to try swinging but lacks body confidence. How can I help improve that!" ?
Yeah suppose that's what I should have put
Have you taken some flattering photos of her so she can see for herself
Yes and videos which she loves watching back
Well good luck to you both"
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean"
What about her? |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean
What about her?"
Well that would be her choice that we would have to talk about |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean
What about her?
Well that would be her choice that we would have to talk about"
Yeah I think it’s clear you should talk to her but sounds like you’re possibly seeking a non monogamous set up. Maybe it might be worth finding that elsewhere if your partner can’t provide it. You can’t suppress who you are.  |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean
What about her?
Well that would be her choice that we would have to talk about
Yeah I think it’s clear you should talk to her but sounds like you’re possibly seeking a non monogamous set up. Maybe it might be worth finding that elsewhere if your partner can’t provide it. You can’t suppress who you are. "
I think you can be in a relationship and enjoy extra company |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean
What about her?
Well that would be her choice that we would have to talk about"
yes you would. That's your next step then... |
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"I don’t think monogamous people can do non monogamous relationships so I guess probably start by talking to her about the implications of swinging on relationships and see how she feels about it generally?
Yeah but I ain't the jealous type it's just sex but get what you mean
What about her?
Well that would be her choice that we would have to talk about
yes you would. That's your next step then..."
Thank you your the most welcoming and helpful |
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