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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What a strange question.

Why do some people like certain foods and others don't? Why are some people gay when others are straight or bi? Why do some men enjoy anal when others don't?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

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"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

Preference?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

with the right person anything is possible,

trust is the thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman  over a year ago

Deviant City


"with the right person anything is possible,

trust is the thing."

this

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?"

why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"with the right person anything is possible,

trust is the thing.

this "

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

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"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?"
why is it? I dont get this at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?"

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?"

Obviously because some guys possibly can't see the irony of inferring that women 'should' like it, when they generally wouldn't like it themselves... Homosexuals/bi-guys do because their isn't another hole down there, so fair play - but with women it's different - and the anatomy of the rectum its the same between genders..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i dont mind a woman doing it.

as long as she doesnt forget to remove her watch first.

last one lost a ring!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask."

Spot on....I wonder if too many guys have been watching too many porn films, where women almost 'have' to have anal...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i dont mind a woman doing it.

as long as she doesnt forget to remove her watch first.

last one lost a ring! "

? You mean fisting or anal sex? Or did the woman have a dick (....!), which had a watch around it?lol

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask."

he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all."

Sorry, what I meant was it's perhaps more understandable for a guy who likes anal sex himself to wonder 'why' (!) women wouldn't liike it, but it still wouldn't be a relevant question for him to consider, as it's surely up to the individual woman

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask. Spot on....I wonder if too many guys have been watching too many porn films, where women almost 'have' to have anal..."

Again i disagree, i watch shit loads of porn but i dont think everyone will be into edgeplay but thats the kinda porn i like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance."

I think it's because he was referring to a section of anatomy that both men and women have, but he only referred to having sex with that part of the body when relating to/focussing on women, instead of all people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all."

If they don't enjoy it themselves, it should be easy for them to understand why some women don't like it.

However, even if they do enjoy it, I can't really understand how anyone could not realise and accept that people have their own tastes and preferences.

I actually find it quite offensive if a man expects all women to allow anal but is adamant that his arse is exit only. He, after all, is the one more likely to be able to physically enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

funny thing is i took that ring down to cash converters and they wouldnt take it

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all.

Sorry, what I meant was it's perhaps more understandable for a guy who likes anal sex himself to wonder 'why' (!) women wouldn't liike it, but it still wouldn't be a relevant question for him to consider, as it's surely up to the individual woman "

I agree its personal preference but i still fail to see why a few women jump on a guy for asking, it may just be hes curious, and lots of questions in the forum are not relevant but thats the fun of the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi femme, Sorry, it's actually Sean here!lol Wasn't jumping on him, just wondered why the question was focussed on women, when the anatomy's the same for both. Perhaps his question was just poorly worded. Think I'll leave it at that!lol Have a nice night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? Preference?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance."

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all.

If they don't enjoy it themselves, it should be easy for them to understand why some women don't like it.

However, even if they do enjoy it, I can't really understand how anyone could not realise and accept that people have their own tastes and preferences.

I actually find it quite offensive if a man expects all women to allow anal but is adamant that his arse is exit only. He, after all, is the one more likely to be able to physically enjoy it!"

You cannot be serious! So you are allowed a preference and they arent? Really? Not all guys expect all women to take one up the shitter, but they can ask cant they? I like all sorts of kinky stuff and there is no way that i would be offended if others didnt like it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi femme, Sorry, it's actually Sean here!lol Wasn't jumping on him, just wondered why the question was focussed on women, when the anatomy's the same for both. Perhaps his question was just poorly worded. Think I'll leave it at that!lol Have a nice night "

The anatomy isn't the same for both. Men have a prostate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi femme, Sorry, it's actually Sean here!lol Wasn't jumping on him, just wondered why the question was focussed on women, when the anatomy's the same for both. Perhaps his question was just poorly worded. Think I'll leave it at that!lol Have a nice night

The anatomy isn't the same for both. Men have a prostate."

If you read above, I was referring to the rectum....sigh! Good night!

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?"

You interpret things very different to me, i like a guy who knows what a guy wants and isnt pussy whipped, you would find it offensive C'est la Vie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

men have piles.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"men have piles. "
you obviously dont look at some pics closely there are some right dangleberries on ere and they belong to women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all.

If they don't enjoy it themselves, it should be easy for them to understand why some women don't like it.

However, even if they do enjoy it, I can't really understand how anyone could not realise and accept that people have their own tastes and preferences.

I actually find it quite offensive if a man expects all women to allow anal but is adamant that his arse is exit only. He, after all, is the one more likely to be able to physically enjoy it!You cannot be serious! So you are allowed a preference and they arent? Really? Not all guys expect all women to take one up the shitter, but they can ask cant they? I like all sorts of kinky stuff and there is no way that i would be offended if others didnt like it."

I think you're misunderstanding me.

Some men expect women to allow anal, or pressure them to, even if they don't want to, under some idea that women should find it pleasurable. Some of those same men wouldn't even consider the idea of trying it themselves.

Men can like anal, yes. They can ask for anal, yes. If the woman doesn't want to that should be the end of it. No "but other women enjoy it", no "why not?"

I love strap-on play but if a bloke isn't into it, that's their choice.

Everyone is allowed a choice is my point. And if blokes can say "exit only" then they have to accept the same decision from women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"men have piles. you obviously dont look at some pics closely there are some right dangleberries on ere and they belong to women. "

oh my god.

im gonna be sick!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I reckon guys don't really want to have anal sex with their partners often, but they just like to know that they can.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"men have piles. you obviously dont look at some pics closely there are some right dangleberries on ere and they belong to women.

oh my god.

im gonna be sick! "

haven't got any sick left after the last bush tucker trial...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A hole is a hole. Just needs filling, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I reckon guys don't really want to have anal sex with their partners often, but they just like to know that they can."

not bothered meself... an arse is an arse is an arse... but a pussy is a feckin' good shag

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well i think if you trust a woman and she wants to use a strap on let her.

she will be gentle at first and you'll both enjoy it.

its when she chains you up and opens a draw full of toys you think.

bad idea this

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just like with men - the same anaotomy: Some like having an erect John Thomas rammed up their poop-shoots, whilst others don't. It's possibly easier to 'forgive' guys asking why women wouldn't like anal sex if the guys are into having their arses rammed or not. How about you?why is it? I dont get this at all.

If they don't enjoy it themselves, it should be easy for them to understand why some women don't like it.

However, even if they do enjoy it, I can't really understand how anyone could not realise and accept that people have their own tastes and preferences.

I actually find it quite offensive if a man expects all women to allow anal but is adamant that his arse is exit only. He, after all, is the one more likely to be able to physically enjoy it!You cannot be serious! So you are allowed a preference and they arent? Really? Not all guys expect all women to take one up the shitter, but they can ask cant they? I like all sorts of kinky stuff and there is no way that i would be offended if others didnt like it.

I think you're misunderstanding me.

Some men expect women to allow anal, or pressure them to, even if they don't want to, under some idea that women should find it pleasurable. Some of those same men wouldn't even consider the idea of trying it themselves.

Men can like anal, yes. They can ask for anal, yes. If the woman doesn't want to that should be the end of it. No "but other women enjoy it", no "why not?"

I love strap-on play but if a bloke isn't into it, that's their choice.

Everyone is allowed a choice is my point. And if blokes can say "exit only" then they have to accept the same decision from women."

I agree, but none of that was mentioned by the OP, i was questioning why women would be offended by a guy asking, personally i couldnt thing of anything worse than a guy letting me abuse his ass, but thats just not my thing...i like recieving only, but im a submissive kinda gal, to me.... fucking a guy up the arse is a submissive act on his part and a dominant one on the giver.....we see things from different prespectives ...but i still fail to see the relevance of asking in the first place.....let alone being offended by it. Hey Ho.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?You interpret things very different to me, i like a guy who knows what a guy wants and isnt pussy whipped, you would find it offensive C'est la Vie."

I think we do see things very differently, yes.

I don't mind guys knowing what they want, but women have a right to say no without all this "but why?" Men don't all like the same things as each other, and nor do women.

If the OP answers "no" to the question of whether he likes things shoved up his bum, well, that should help answer his question. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive just analled myself with my cock and now am onto a bj...ridiculous that I never even washed inbetween the session..oh and strike me down...I went bareback

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?You interpret things very different to me, i like a guy who knows what a guy wants and isnt pussy whipped, you would find it offensive C'est la Vie.

I think we do see things very differently, yes.

I don't mind guys knowing what they want, but women have a right to say no without all this "but why?" Men don't all like the same things as each other, and nor do women.

If the OP answers "no" to the question of whether he likes things shoved up his bum, well, that should help answer his question. Simples."

Everyone has a right to say no to whatever they want....but why does the fact a guy may say no to anal sex if you say yes you like it offend you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

Looks like nobody wants to give you a proper answer lol.

A lot of anal is not pleasure but dom sub control stuff and that is why the do it or not.

Ok some love the power others love the penetration and some are scared. So lots of reasons why some like and some not but I wouldnt worry concentrate on drillin pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?You interpret things very different to me, i like a guy who knows what a guy wants and isnt pussy whipped, you would find it offensive C'est la Vie.

I think we do see things very differently, yes.

I don't mind guys knowing what they want, but women have a right to say no without all this "but why?" Men don't all like the same things as each other, and nor do women.

If the OP answers "no" to the question of whether he likes things shoved up his bum, well, that should help answer his question. Simples.Everyone has a right to say no to whatever they want....but why does the fact a guy may say no to anal sex if you say yes you like it offend you?"

Oh, I see the confusion. No, that's no what offends me.

If I like anal and agree to it, and he doesn't like it, that's fine.

It's when he pushes for something the other party doesn't want, on the grounds he believes they *should* enjoy it, even though it's something he won't try or doesn't enjoy himself. That's what pisses me off. If he doesn't enjoy it, it seems clear cut that the other party may not enjoy it either.

I hope that's clearer?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so?

Out of interest, OP, do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?why do women always ask that when a guy posts about anal sex?

Because I want to know if he's willing to take as well as expecting to give.

Anal can be uncomfortable but some men seem determined to believe all women should find it pleasurable.

Since men have a prostate, and women don't, men have a greater chance of finding it physically pleasurable.

If a man doesn't enjoy it himself then I fail to see why he would question why not all women want to do it.

That's why I ask.he didnt say he thought all women should find it pleasurable though,i dont like licking fanny but i like mine licked, i still dont see the relevance.

It looks like that's what he's asking to me. Why do some women like it and some women don't? i.e. why don't all women like it?

If not all men like it, why would all women like it?You interpret things very different to me, i like a guy who knows what a guy wants and isnt pussy whipped, you would find it offensive C'est la Vie.

I think we do see things very differently, yes.

I don't mind guys knowing what they want, but women have a right to say no without all this "but why?" Men don't all like the same things as each other, and nor do women.

If the OP answers "no" to the question of whether he likes things shoved up his bum, well, that should help answer his question. Simples.Everyone has a right to say no to whatever they want....but why does the fact a guy may say no to anal sex if you say yes you like it offend you?

Oh, I see the confusion. No, that's no what offends me.

If I like anal and agree to it, and he doesn't like it, that's fine.

It's when he pushes for something the other party doesn't want, on the grounds he believes they *should* enjoy it, even though it's something he won't try or doesn't enjoy himself. That's what pisses me off. If he doesn't enjoy it, it seems clear cut that the other party may not enjoy it either.

I hope that's clearer?"

I didnt see the OP say that all women should enjoy it, we interpreted differently....tbh it wouldnt bother me if he did think we all should...but then again if a guy says can i fuck you, i would laugh n giggle, if a guy said i am going to fuck you its a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really cant see what is wrong with a guy asking questions. 100yrs ago he wouldnt he would wam bam and fuck off to sleep. I thought women would appreciate guys asking what a woman or women in general like or not so he can give a bit more or avoid giving if its not her thing.

Sometimes you are fucked if you ask and fucked if you dont with some women. I really get the feeling some just like to hate on guys what ever they do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, we interpreted differently. To me the OP was asking why not every woman enjoys it. Maybe he was asking why some do enjoy it (because he can't understand how they could)? Maybe he wonders the same about men. I doubt it, but it's possible.

Being told by a man he's going to fuck me would probably make me refuse to let him!

Then again, the time I tried to sub I wouldn't (couldn't, actually, my brain just wouldn't let me) cum as the Dom was trying to make me.

I'm really, really bad at being told what to do, even if I'm being told to do something I'd enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really cant see what is wrong with a guy asking questions. 100yrs ago he wouldnt he would wam bam and fuck off to sleep. I thought women would appreciate guys asking what a woman or women in general like or not so he can give a bit more or avoid giving if its not her thing.

Sometimes you are fucked if you ask and fucked if you dont with some women. I really get the feeling some just like to hate on guys what ever they do. "

Do all men enjoy receiving anal sex? No. So why should all women?

If it's taken as read that not all men enjoy it, why even question why some women do and some don't?

The OP already knows some women like it and some don't so how does asking why help? It's not going to make the ones who don't like it change their mind. How would he be "fucked" by not asking?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really cant see what is wrong with a guy asking questions. 100yrs ago he wouldnt he would wam bam and fuck off to sleep. I thought women would appreciate guys asking what a woman or women in general like or not so he can give a bit more or avoid giving if its not her thing.

Sometimes you are fucked if you ask and fucked if you dont with some women. I really get the feeling some just like to hate on guys what ever they do.

Do all men enjoy receiving anal sex? No. So why should all women?

If it's taken as read that not all men enjoy it, why even question why some women do and some don't?

The OP already knows some women like it and some don't so how does asking why help? It's not going to make the ones who don't like it change their mind. How would he be "fucked" by not asking?

"

The guy never said SHOULD the guy asked a question he has a right to ask. You sound as though you dont have a clue about guys and its sad when you come across people who are not open minded and understand people like to ask questions. We all learn by asking questions. If you have kids that is how it starts and you continue learning by asking more questions. I really dont see any point in being aggressive with people asking things and if you cant help you ignore and let people who have knowledge tell.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

Dunno

Sometimes I've loved it, sometimes I've not.It depends on the guy for me. If they take their time and it doesn't hurt then it's great. If they're a bit impatient about it and it hurts then they can fuck off!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really cant see what is wrong with a guy asking questions. 100yrs ago he wouldnt he would wam bam and fuck off to sleep. I thought women would appreciate guys asking what a woman or women in general like or not so he can give a bit more or avoid giving if its not her thing.

Sometimes you are fucked if you ask and fucked if you dont with some women. I really get the feeling some just like to hate on guys what ever they do.

Do all men enjoy receiving anal sex? No. So why should all women?

If it's taken as read that not all men enjoy it, why even question why some women do and some don't?

The OP already knows some women like it and some don't so how does asking why help? It's not going to make the ones who don't like it change their mind. How would he be "fucked" by not asking?

The guy never said SHOULD the guy asked a question he has a right to ask. You sound as though you dont have a clue about guys and its sad when you come across people who are not open minded and understand people like to ask questions. We all learn by asking questions. If you have kids that is how it starts and you continue learning by asking more questions. I really dont see any point in being aggressive with people asking things and if you cant help you ignore and let people who have knowledge tell."

He asked why some women don't like it. He already knows that some don't, so how does asking why change anything?

It's like asking why some people like sprouts and some don't. They just do. It's personal taste.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bends over and wiggles bum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum "

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?"

Well I don't mind them myself but hate the name Brussel due to it being one of the stupid kiddy nicknames I had

So how about yourself my furry footed feline

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?

Well I don't mind them myself but hate the name Brussel due to it being one of the stupid kiddy nicknames I had

So how about yourself my furry footed feline "

I like sprouts as long as they're cooked right. Too hard is bad, but boiled to mush is bad too.

They do make me a bit gassy though, so I need a dog, cat or man around to blame for any leakages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?

Well I don't mind them myself but hate the name Brussel due to it being one of the stupid kiddy nicknames I had

So how about yourself my furry footed feline

I like sprouts as long as they're cooked right. Too hard is bad, but boiled to mush is bad too.

They do make me a bit gassy though, so I need a dog, cat or man around to blame for any leakages."

leakages?...change those pants ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?

Well I don't mind them myself but hate the name Brussel due to it being one of the stupid kiddy nicknames I had

So how about yourself my furry footed feline

I like sprouts as long as they're cooked right. Too hard is bad, but boiled to mush is bad too.

They do make me a bit gassy though, so I need a dog, cat or man around to blame for any leakages."

See I'm buggered this Xmas for sprout leakage, as I'm back north to look after my mum and she can't fart so there's my blame partner gone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bends over and wiggles bum

What's your view on sprouts, Rusticles?

Well I don't mind them myself but hate the name Brussel due to it being one of the stupid kiddy nicknames I had

So how about yourself my furry footed feline

I like sprouts as long as they're cooked right. Too hard is bad, but boiled to mush is bad too.

They do make me a bit gassy though, so I need a dog, cat or man around to blame for any leakages.

leakages?...change those pants ffs"

What pants?

Oh. Ohhhhhhhh.

Maybe that's the problem!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alan who?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No politics, we love anal. Can't explain why i love fucking em's arse and she loves having it fucked. Job done.

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hi femme, Sorry, it's actually Sean here!lol Wasn't jumping on him, just wondered why the question was focussed on women, when the anatomy's the same for both. Perhaps his question was just poorly worded. Think I'll leave it at that!lol Have a nice night

The anatomy isn't the same for both. Men have a prostate. If you read above, I was referring to the rectum....sigh! Good night!

The nerve endings around the prostate are often termed the male G spot and vastly add to men's enjoyment of anal play. This spot is just a couple of inches inside the rectum and can be reached by a finger (covered with a condom if you prefer or have nails) and massaged by rubbing the rectal wall towards the penis when you feel a bump.

Women do not have a prostate so the female experience of anal play is not the same. However some women love anal play, some like it occasionally, some don't like it at all."

Oops, edit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes , there is a typical reaction to the op asking a perfectly reasonable question .

If he had asked why do some women love giving a blow job and some not - the reaction would be totally different !

Perhaps the reaction is negative by reversing the scenario because some women feel that anal is something they really do not enjoy , which is fine and is their right - but still it seems unnecessary to play the well would you like it card .

All of us on here have our own preferences , and that's what makes fab , swinging and sex so much fun - but one thing is for sure , we will never all enjoy exactly the same things .

Surely that doesn't mean we should defend the things we don't like by asking why others do like them , and how would they like it it if it were done to them ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes , there is a typical reaction to the op asking a perfectly reasonable question .

If he had asked why do some women love giving a blow job and some not - the reaction would be totally different !

Perhaps the reaction is negative by reversing the scenario because some women feel that anal is something they really do not enjoy , which is fine and is their right - but still it seems unnecessary to play the well would you like it card .

All of us on here have our own preferences , and that's what makes fab , swinging and sex so much fun - but one thing is for sure , we will never all enjoy exactly the same things .

Surely that doesn't mean we should defend the things we don't like by asking why others do like them , and how would they like it it if it were done to them ??? "

Except for the fact, as explained, it's often leads to an answer in itself. If the man asking does not enjoy anal play, then he should easily understand why some women don't like it either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

same reason some guys will suck another guy and some won't........... personal choice?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I need to find a woman from bristol who likes it!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"I need to find a woman from bristol who likes it!! "

Nope. You WANT to find a woman from Bristol who likes it.

And you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ? "

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do."

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wonder if its worth introducing the idea that, although anal sex is still considered a bit taboo for everyone, straight men would be less likely to try it because of the 'stigma' of being gay. Thousands of years of most cultures thinking homosexuality is wrong, or buggery of men being used as a method of control might make a guy think 'well a cock up my bum would make me a bit less of a man wouldn't it?', whereas shagging a womans bum is considered powerful and, even with all the porn flying around of it, a bit naughty.

I enjoy anal, with the right people, but I wouldn't enjoy using a strap on on anyone at all, so it is a personal preference for me. But I can see how social expectations would make it harder for men to admit to want to trying it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !"

My point, simply put, is if a man doesn't enjoy something, it should be easy to understand why a woman might not enjoy it.

The OP is asking why some women enjoy anal when others do not. I maintain that if he doesn't enjoy receiving anal play, or he accepts that some men don't enjoy it, he should have no need to question why some women enjoy it and others don't.

I don't even really understand the original question. Imagine the OP was asking why some women like vodka and some hate it, or some women like parsnips and others don't. The answer is really straightforward; we all have different likes and dislikes. I can't see why it would be necessary to explain that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

this thread still going?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"this thread still going? "

Looks like it. Unless you're hallucinating!

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By *toneblueMan  over a year ago

Southampton


"this thread still going?

Looks like it. Unless you're hallucinating!"

Hampshire gals like a long anal session

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan  over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'm not overly fussed about a journey down 'the old dirt road'...

In fact, if anything, I'm put off by pics appearing on here, of young ladies' splayed cornhole's, looking distinctly like they haven't been wiped properly..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !

My point, simply put, is if a man doesn't enjoy something, it should be easy to understand why a woman might not enjoy it.

The OP is asking why some women enjoy anal when others do not. I maintain that if he doesn't enjoy receiving anal play, or he accepts that some men don't enjoy it, he should have no need to question why some women enjoy it and others don't.

I don't even really understand the original question. Imagine the OP was asking why some women like vodka and some hate it, or some women like parsnips and others don't. The answer is really straightforward; we all have different likes and dislikes. I can't see why it would be necessary to explain that."

You are making a huge huge assumption every man has tried anal play. Shocking as it may be to you there are a huge number of men out there who have never indulged or been offered anal play. Do you offer anal play to every man you meet, for that matter does every man or woman offer it. I think you are hammering a bent nail with no point darling here but that's your choice on an open forum.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !

My point, simply put, is if a man doesn't enjoy something, it should be easy to understand why a woman might not enjoy it.

The OP is asking why some women enjoy anal when others do not. I maintain that if he doesn't enjoy receiving anal play, or he accepts that some men don't enjoy it, he should have no need to question why some women enjoy it and others don't.

I don't even really understand the original question. Imagine the OP was asking why some women like vodka and some hate it, or some women like parsnips and others don't. The answer is really straightforward; we all have different likes and dislikes. I can't see why it would be necessary to explain that.

You are making a huge huge assumption every man has tried anal play. Shocking as it may be to you there are a huge number of men out there who have never indulged or been offered anal play. Do you offer anal play to every man you meet, for that matter does every man or woman offer it. I think you are hammering a bent nail with no point darling here but that's your choice on an open forum. "

I'm not making that assumption at all.

What I am assuming is that the OP wouldn't think to question why some men don't like, or wouldn't try, being on the receiving end of anal sex.

I can't see why he would, therefore, need to question why also have a variety of different preferences when it comes to the same act.

If men have various preferences, why would women not?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

Some women love it.

Some like it.

Some hate it.

Some pretend to like it.

Some cry afterwards.

Some crave it again.

Some feel abused during and after.

Some get physically injured by it.

Some feel bruised for days.

Some don't suffer any effects.

Some think it's filthy.

Some don't think.

Some are emotionally damaged afterwards.

Some think it was a bloody good laugh.

Some did it cos they were d*unk.

Some can only come through anal sex.

Some do it cos they find it arousing to be dominated and do things against their will.

Some do it cos they are on a period.

Some do it to 'find out'

Some do it to 'damn' a partner who wouldn't do it for them.

Some do it for a dare.

The list is endless just like the number of women or men on the planet.

Incidentally O.P. Do you like giving anal sex ?

Do you like receiving anal sex ?

Yes or no and why or why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anal sex is like going to the dentist.

It takes a lot of courage to try it the first time, if you have a rough dentist carry out a bad job you wont be going back for a return visit.

If you have a kind and considerate dentist that takes his time and makes things as painless as possible, then most patients will return freely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !

My point, simply put, is if a man doesn't enjoy something, it should be easy to understand why a woman might not enjoy it.

The OP is asking why some women enjoy anal when others do not. I maintain that if he doesn't enjoy receiving anal play, or he accepts that some men don't enjoy it, he should have no need to question why some women enjoy it and others don't.

I don't even really understand the original question. Imagine the OP was asking why some women like vodka and some hate it, or some women like parsnips and others don't. The answer is really straightforward; we all have different likes and dislikes. I can't see why it would be necessary to explain that.

You are making a huge huge assumption every man has tried anal play. Shocking as it may be to you there are a huge number of men out there who have never indulged or been offered anal play. Do you offer anal play to every man you meet, for that matter does every man or woman offer it. I think you are hammering a bent nail with no point darling here but that's your choice on an open forum.

I'm not making that assumption at all.

"

Yes you are you say in your second post "do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?" To ask that question you assume he has experienced it which he has not previously stated. Its a classic case of assumption.

As for your other points well I am not sure if you realise or not but men ans women are wired slightly differently. Anal sex is a submissive act and it is viewed differently by males and females with regard to reverencing it. In the main men see it primarily as a submissive homosexual act, not in every case but society has led men in the main for this to be the case. Fro a woman the same is not seen on receiving anal sex it is more of a submissive act and that along with the pain over pleasure equation is in act.

I think you need to accept sexuality, gay, bi, straight and gender male or female have a huge part to play in why people have preferences. You seem to be turning a simple thread into a negative one with saying that a man should know what I is like for woman if he receives it as its clearly not the case and that's without taking into account the physical differences in the male and females lower body cavity affecting pain and pleasure sensations.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some women love it some don't!

But why is that so? "

lol that really is a silly question....do you really nee an answer to that?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I really love those Tiger Feet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But surely if the man doesn't like sucking cock , you wouldn't be asking him why he dislikes that ?

Or that he shouldn't expect the lady to do it if he won't do it too ?

It wouldn't be me asking why he doesn't enjoy it. I realise we all like different things and I accept that.

I would expect him to understand why some women don't enjoy doing it, if it's something he doesn't enjoy himself.

And anyway, no, he shouldn't expect anyone to do it if it's something they don't want to do.

I hope you understand my point here - I strongly believe all of us should exercise our freedom of choice - who we meet , what we do and never judge those that do or don't do this that or anything else ( as long as it's legal and consensual ) .

But because one person enjoys something and another doesn't - I would never expect to tell someone that I don't like it so why don't you you do it ! See how you like it ! That's the point of my argument - it's not a case if tit for tat - it's simply enjoying what we like , and not expecting others to feel the need to justify why they don't like certain things by suggesting we do it then !

My point, simply put, is if a man doesn't enjoy something, it should be easy to understand why a woman might not enjoy it.

The OP is asking why some women enjoy anal when others do not. I maintain that if he doesn't enjoy receiving anal play, or he accepts that some men don't enjoy it, he should have no need to question why some women enjoy it and others don't.

I don't even really understand the original question. Imagine the OP was asking why some women like vodka and some hate it, or some women like parsnips and others don't. The answer is really straightforward; we all have different likes and dislikes. I can't see why it would be necessary to explain that.

You are making a huge huge assumption every man has tried anal play. Shocking as it may be to you there are a huge number of men out there who have never indulged or been offered anal play. Do you offer anal play to every man you meet, for that matter does every man or woman offer it. I think you are hammering a bent nail with no point darling here but that's your choice on an open forum.

I'm not making that assumption at all.

Yes you are you say in your second post "do you enjoy having things shoved up your bum?" To ask that question you assume he has experienced it which he has not previously stated. Its a classic case of assumption.

As for your other points well I am not sure if you realise or not but men ans women are wired slightly differently. Anal sex is a submissive act and it is viewed differently by males and females with regard to reverencing it. In the main men see it primarily as a submissive homosexual act, not in every case but society has led men in the main for this to be the case. Fro a woman the same is not seen on receiving anal sex it is more of a submissive act and that along with the pain over pleasure equation is in act.

I think you need to accept sexuality, gay, bi, straight and gender male or female have a huge part to play in why people have preferences. You seem to be turning a simple thread into a negative one with saying that a man should know what I is like for woman if he receives it as its clearly not the case and that's without taking into account the physical differences in the male and females lower body cavity affecting pain and pleasure sensations."

Point 1. "I don't know" is a possible answer to my question. I didn't assume he'd tried it.

Point 2. I've not said it should, or does, feel the same for men and women. My point, again, is that if a man accepts that some men enjoy receiving anal and some don't, why question why the case is exactly the same for women. It should be perfectly obvious that it's a matter of personal preferences.

Point 3. You are entitled to your opinion, but I disagree with most of what you've said. For example, plenty of Dominant men and women enjoy receiving anal sex because they enjoy the sensation. It's not necessarily an act of submission.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really love those Tiger Feet.

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So do I

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Point 1. "I don't know" is a possible answer to my question. I didn't assume he'd tried it.

"

Grammatically you did assume as you said "do you enjoy having things up your bum?" Not have you ever had things put up your bum and do you enjoy it. The words and the way you typed them implied he had relieved anal play. I will put it down to your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul next time.


" Point 2. I've not said it should, or does, feel the same for men and women. My point, again, is that if a man accepts that some men enjoy receiving anal and some don't, why question why the case is exactly the same for women."
But its not exactly the same you are contradicting yourself here
" It should be perfectly obvious that it's a matter of personal preferences.

"

It is a matter of personal preferences I agree but that isn't what the OP was asking and I am pretty sure he would already realise people have preferences.


"Point 3. You are entitled to your opinion, but I disagree with most of what you've said. For example, plenty of Dominant men and women enjoy receiving anal sex because they enjoy the sensation. It's not necessarily an act of submission.

"

You are entitled to your opinion even though as I see it it’s misguided or appears that way in the manner you presented it. I find it incredibly strange you can give so many reasons why a man would like or dislike anal play yet for a woman you put it down to personal preference.

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By *arnayguyMan  over a year ago

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"the way you typed them implied he had relieved anal play. I will put it down to your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul next time.

"

'he had relieved anal play....'your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul'

I hate to be anal but as grammatical criticism goes.....probably not your best effort.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"the way you typed them implied he had relieved anal play. I will put it down to your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul next time.

'he had relieved anal play....'your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul'

I hate to be anal but as grammatical criticism goes.....probably not your best effort. "

Aww bless but I think you will find he didn't say "he had relieved anal play" in this thread so a little red face of embarrassment for you there. Apart from is first comment you has failed to add to the thread. Dreaming is a noble art but its not really the place to do it here you know.

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By *arnayguyMan  over a year ago

Durham Tees


"the way you typed them implied he had relieved anal play. I will put it down to your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul next time.

'he had relieved anal play....'your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul'

I hate to be anal but as grammatical criticism goes.....probably not your best effort.

Aww bless but I think you will find he didn't say "he had relieved anal play" in this thread so a little red face of embarrassment for you there. Apart from is first comment you has failed to add to the thread. Dreaming is a noble art but its not really the place to do it here you know. "

If you scroll up to your last post, you'll see I am just repeating what is written in bold, which would appear to be what you wrote.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"the way you typed them implied he had relieved anal play. I will put it down to your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul next time.

'he had relieved anal play....'your confusion over expression and grammar and am sure you won't foul foul'

I hate to be anal but as grammatical criticism goes.....probably not your best effort.

Aww bless but I think you will find he didn't say "he had relieved anal play" in this thread so a little red face of embarrassment for you there. Apart from is first comment you has failed to add to the thread. Dreaming is a noble art but its not really the place to do it here you know.

If you scroll up to your last post, you'll see I am just repeating what is written in bold, which would appear to be what you wrote."

Bless you I will put it down to nativity rather than anything else. But if you can quote where the thread starter admitted to receiving anal play I am all ears.

I will however ensure my spelling is just right for you though so I don't tax you too much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Looks painful. I wouldn't fancy it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Looks painful. I wouldn't fancy it! "

You are not wrong there.

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By *arnayguyMan  over a year ago

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"I will put it down to nativity"

Well you picked the right time of year. Happy Christmas

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