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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

No you can't name and shame, you will be blocked by admin as it's your word against theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

naming and shaming just does not work.

you just got unlucky and picked the wrong guys to meet.

one of those things that happens.move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No you can't name and shame!!

Just block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you want to i would....you'll only get a 48 hour ban from the forum!

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

We done all that lol

I was just venting my frustration lol 2 guys did turn up and they were nice and I got a bunch of flowers lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We done all that lol

I was just venting my frustration lol 2 guys did turn up and they were nice and I got a bunch of flowers lol "

sounds like you did ok to me.

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"If you want to i would....you'll only get a 48 hour ban from the forum!

"

That's a really good way of looking at it lol

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By *innamon!Woman  over a year ago

no matter

You do have the fone numbers of the ones that didnt turn up tho

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

I've got a loving partner who organises pervy things for me and I have my health lol

But just now and then we both want a little bit more. This morning we thought we had 8 confirmed to join us lol

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"You do have the fone numbers of the ones that didnt turn up tho "

Good thinking and you're evil lol we like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

"

You always have to invite far more than what you want, to allow for drop outs, at least your evening wasn't totally wasted and you had 2 nice gents turn up!

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

You always have to invite far more than what you want, to allow for drop outs, at least your evening wasn't totally wasted and you had 2 nice gents turn up! "

And 2 very nice polite guys too and we're thankful for their company

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can report them for not turning up by going to there profile and hitting the report button

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"You can report them for not turning up by going to there profile and hitting the report button "

Does that actually work though as its my word against theirs?

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

Just so everyone knows, I'm not a vindictive person lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

"

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people.

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people. "

My excuse is, I was hoping my partner would get to see me being used properly lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people.

My excuse is, I was hoping my partner would get to see me being used properly lol"

He can't if you stop arranging meets. In swinging one must realise that a lot of single men are merely larking about and have no intention of getting into the scene properly. Others think they can but when it gets to the crunch they bottle it. The two you got were good for their word so keep them on your list and add to it as and when you meet people. Tell each person you play with what you'd ultimately like to experience and when you've got enough who are up for it and you know they'll turn up, arrange it. Less haste, more speed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

"

We see that 2 turned up - we see that as good - sod the other beggars. Did u en joy the two that did?

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people.

My excuse is, I was hoping my partner would get to see me being used properly lol

He can't if you stop arranging meets. In swinging one must realise that a lot of single men are merely larking about and have no intention of getting into the scene properly. Others think they can but when it gets to the crunch they bottle it. The two you got were good for their word so keep them on your list and add to it as and when you meet people. Tell each person you play with what you'd ultimately like to experience and when you've got enough who are up for it and you know they'll turn up, arrange it. Less haste, more speed."

He? My partner is a her lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Apologies.

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

We see that 2 turned up - we see that as good - sod the other beggars. Did u en joy the two that did?"

Oh yes I did and have lots of pics to show for it lol

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"Apologies. "

Bit late now, you should have turned up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

We see that 2 turned up - we see that as good - sod the other beggars. Did u en joy the two that did?

Oh yes I did and have lots of pics to show for it lol "

Yay well that's two good single guys. Nice one xxx

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple  over a year ago

North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people.

My excuse is, I was hoping my partner would get to see me being used properly lol

He can't if you stop arranging meets. In swinging one must realise that a lot of single men are merely larking about and have no intention of getting into the scene properly. Others think they can but when it gets to the crunch they bottle it. The two you got were good for their word so keep them on your list and add to it as and when you meet people. Tell each person you play with what you'd ultimately like to experience and when you've got enough who are up for it and you know they'll turn up, arrange it. Less haste, more speed."

We've been arranging this for about 3 weeks and have been very clearly telling the guys that are interested what we are arranging and what we want to happen.....there was not speed involved and as we had accumulated 19 guys details we set a date and tried to organise it!

We are very experienced swingers and are well aware of the pitfalls involving meeting single guys.....we just hoped a few more were as good as their word.

We still had a good night and got some great pics

But we won't be organising anything else with single guys as dogging and club meets work far better for us.

Mrs Dirty (& Angel)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Apologies.

Bit late now, you should have turned up "

I was washing my hair. Then the cat got out. Then the kids got out. Then I got out. I'm back now though so where do you want me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we name and shame?

My partner & I tried to arrange a gangbang for me tonight.

We asked people if they wanted to be on our list to message us. We got 19 messages and we saw this to be good.

When we actually had a date in mind and notified the 19 in our list. 8 replied and said they could make it and they confirmed sending us their mobile numbers so we could give directions and share our details. And we saw this to be good.

The gangbang was meant to be for tonight and only 2 actually turned up.

I think we are officially finished with organising things with single guys sadly. We just can't be arsed with their childish unpredictabity.

So you got 2 plus your partner. there's no pleasing some people.

My excuse is, I was hoping my partner would get to see me being used properly lol

He can't if you stop arranging meets. In swinging one must realise that a lot of single men are merely larking about and have no intention of getting into the scene properly. Others think they can but when it gets to the crunch they bottle it. The two you got were good for their word so keep them on your list and add to it as and when you meet people. Tell each person you play with what you'd ultimately like to experience and when you've got enough who are up for it and you know they'll turn up, arrange it. Less haste, more speed.

We've been arranging this for about 3 weeks and have been very clearly telling the guys that are interested what we are arranging and what we want to happen.....there was not speed involved and as we had accumulated 19 guys details we set a date and tried to organise it!

We are very experienced swingers and are well aware of the pitfalls involving meeting single guys.....we just hoped a few more were as good as their word.

We still had a good night and got some great pics

But we won't be organising anything else with single guys as dogging and club meets work far better for us.

Mrs Dirty (& Angel) "

Tbh, if you wanted 20 you should have invited 200. If more than 20 turned up you'd have had a fucking brilliant night lol

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple  over a year ago

North Wales

We were actually only aiming for about 5/6 lol

My rant is that single guys moan in the forum on this site and others that they can't get meets and when it's handed to them on a plate they mess about! we knew this was likely to happen but hey ho you live and learn!

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

glad it hit you

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

It's when they insist on meeting with 1/2 hours warning. As if I spend all day like this lol

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple  over a year ago

North Wales


"It's when they insist on meeting with 1/2 hours warning. As if I spend all day like this lol"

Well you would if I had my way darling lol

Mrs Dirty x

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"glad it hit you "
bitter n twisted is attractive.....if you dislike the site so much why stay....?

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"glad it hit you "

Hit who?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's when they insist on meeting with 1/2 hours warning. As if I spend all day like this lol"

I know, takes me ages to take all this theatre makeup off! never mind slap it on.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"Can we name and shame?

"

You know you can't

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"If you want to i would....you'll only get a 48 hour ban from the forum!

"

That depends, if a person has had bans before , the ban could be a lot bigger...ie permanent...maybe not worth the risk.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple  over a year ago

North Wales


"Can we name and shame?

You know you can't"

We know and we won't.....just having a little rant!

*goes off to sit in the naughty corner* lol

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm planning a similar thing for January. I fully expect to be let down just as badly to be honest. Only had a few replies so far and most have been along the lines of "oh shame you're not doing it on this night, I could make that" or words to that effect.

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By *ngelbiTV OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

We got a few like that but this was our third attempt and each time we've had at least 7 confirmed at lunchtime but then they start dropping like flies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It sucks doesn't it. On any given week day I get probably 5 unsolicited messages asking if I'm free to meet then and there.

But give them 6 weeks notice of me being available and being able to accommodate, then suddenly everyone has a diary conflict!

I'll have one go at doing this and if it falls apart I can truly whinge that Inverness is shit for meeting.

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