Is it me?
Seen lots of people request meets and such for this evening or weekend.
You go to the effort of sending messages pics and such and never hear back!
I get that you’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but surely if you look at the sent message and it hasn’t been read. Then what’s going on? Are they just out to tease and boost there own egos? |
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over a year ago
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"Is it me?
Seen lots of people request meets and such for this evening or weekend.
You go to the effort of sending messages pics and such and never hear back!
I get that you’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but surely if you look at the sent message and it hasn’t been read. Then what’s going on? Are they just out to tease and boost there own egos?"
They will probably get a lot of messages in response to a post like that and too many to read so will go to the profiles that stand out and meet their requirements or they could choose someone from their friends list or someone they’ve already met. |
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Most people before reading the messages will look at the profile
It’s a shop window
The sad truth is when you indate with messages it can be like a candy shop take your pic
If a profile dose not stand out what’s going to make me pick that person over one that dose
There’s a saying on fab the effort you put in is the effort you get back
If you put no effort in you get none back
Put the effort in and the rewards will come
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In short, most people will look at a profile before the message attached.
If the profile is tempting to them, they're likely to open the message.
If not, they're likely to leave be and look at another profile attached to another message and again and again until hopefully they find one that catches their attention.
If you're finding this to be the norm to you, maybe look at updating your profile.
That's the general advice in the FAQ's |
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