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All I know is I don't want a relationship
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category."
Personally verification shows that your genuine and will meet when you say you will
Try looking at it from a females point of view
Happy fabbing
Missy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category.
Personally verification shows that your genuine and will meet when you say you will
Try looking at it from a females point of view
Happy fabbing
Missy x"
I agree but I need to get that first vefi from somewhere |
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"Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category.
Personally verification shows that your genuine and will meet when you say you will
Try looking at it from a females point of view
Happy fabbing
Missy x
I agree but I need to get that first vefi from somewhere "
Cam rooms are easy to get a verri |
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You want instant success without putting the effort in and fab doesn’t seem to meet your ‘shag and go’ needs OP
Perhaps you might find success elsewhere and not feel the need to disparage FAB so much because it hasn’t met your expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category."
Some guys have trouble getting that first verification, and those that post a thread about it all have 1 thing in common.
Think about that for a moment op. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Bee there,done that. And for the moment just don't want another one
Why do I have to be verified or this or that. I'm a single guy who knows what he is doing. Looking to explore . Where is that category."
You need to put more effort in to get rewards on here |
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"Maybe try putting out some positive energy, rather than, whinging?
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mate it's irrelevant if you're drop dead gorgeous you will get attention even if you're a complete arsehole and if you're ugly or even average you won't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't have to be verified.
There are plenty of women who will meet none verified guys. It might reduce your choices. But its also probably not the sole reason for not finding someone to explore with.
There could be other areas of your profile/approach you could focus in more than your verified status |
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"You could go to an organised social and get verified. "
I always feel verifying people you've not played with is dangerous. I know it's very common here, but just because someone is friendly and great to chat to in a social environment doesn't mean they respect No or limits when playing behind closed doors.
Verifications, in my opinion, should be reserved for people who you've played with. Or at least they should be split into different types of Verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could go to an organised social and get verified.
I always feel verifying people you've not played with is dangerous. I know it's very common here, but just because someone is friendly and great to chat to in a social environment doesn't mean they respect No or limits when playing behind closed doors.
Verifications, in my opinion, should be reserved for people who you've played with. Or at least they should be split into different types of Verifications"
Splitting makes sense.
But verifications in general need to be taken with a pinch of salt.
As you said being respectful in one environment doesn't guarantee doing so in the next.
Ita a useful tool but should be seen as one of many not the free pass some view it as |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's many people actively looking for a relationship on here."
Really? I read so many posts and profiles which mention needing a 'connection', why would you need that if not looking for a relationship? You don't need a connection for nsa sex; if the other person/people are a total turn off then you walk away. |
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"You could go to an organised social and get verified.
I always feel verifying people you've not played with is dangerous. I know it's very common here, but just because someone is friendly and great to chat to in a social environment doesn't mean they respect No or limits when playing behind closed doors.
Verifications, in my opinion, should be reserved for people who you've played with. Or at least they should be split into different types of Verifications"
Why? Verifications are to prove someone is genuine. I only ever display social ones. Who I “play” with as you put it is private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you are deciding on a meet of any kind you can't solely rely on other veris.
You have to follow your instincts and plan wisely for safety.
Lots of veris are years or months old or from a social where only brief hellos were exchanged. All that tells you is 'met human'. There's no name checking or surety there.
How someone behaved 5years ago is not really relevant to today.
A person's life can go tits up in a week and they become a risk.
Just be safe guys and trust your instincts  |
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Why? Verifications are to prove someone is genuine. I only ever display social ones. Who I “play” with as you put it is private. "
That's why splitting them makes sense.
It's irrelevant to us if you're great to talk to in a bar and have 100 Verifications if when you get into bed with us you become a total jerk.
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"I don't think there's many people actively looking for a relationship on here.
Really? I read so many posts and profiles which mention needing a 'connection', why would you need that if not looking for a relationship? You don't need a connection for nsa sex; if the other person/people are a total turn off then you walk away."
Because sex is better when you have a connection to someone, when you know and like a bit about their personality and are enjoying their presence. Wanting a connection does NOT mean you want a relationship.
True NSA sex (just exchanging a couple messages to meet, not much more, meeting up, fucking, then leaving and not communicating again after until the next time) just scratches an itch but can feel very unfulfilling and soulless. When women can have their pick of thousands of men that message them why would they want to choose to meet with someone like OP who clearly can't be arsed to put even minimal effort in? |
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Alot of people look at this site as just hook up and fuck.
As you can see people are let down alot so verification kind of eradicates the time wasters.
And yes it's a swing site not a pull in a bar site.
Good ways to get verified chatrooms on cam or start going to club nights.
And use the forums getting involved with the conversations people start noticing your name around so when you do at eventually message somebody will think oh that's that guy who said such and such.
It's not like other platforms remember that.
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