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Being overwhelmed when teased or edged
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
Recently I went for a 90 minute massage with my regular massage therapist. He always ends it with a handjob and we often run way over the allotted time.
I hadn’t had an orgasm for maybe 7-8 days by this point, just due to a busy life, and he spent a good 30-40minutes teasing me and edging me. I guess my senses were heightened from the relaxing massage. He used such light touches and strokes. I was honestly a squirming mess by the end.
It was getting so intense that my eyes were watering, my breathing was all over the place, and it felt like it could have been really overwhelming to the point where I’d have to tell him to stop.
I love being edged and teased but I’ve never felt this sexually exasperated and frustrated in my life. Afterward I felt like it could have become unpleasant if it went on for longer.
Has anyone else ever found the teasing is so intense that play has to take a pause or has to stop? I’m interested to hear about these experiences and why you think it can feel so overwhelming that it can cross from pleasure to something uncomfortable!
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I love getting to that point, it is an incredible emotion. A good massage is the key to getting to that place, I never feel embarrassed after, as the masseur wants you to go there and when they know you have, they are really pleased for me |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"I love getting to that point, it is an incredible emotion. A good massage is the key to getting to that place, I never feel embarrassed after, as the masseur wants you to go there and when they know you have, they are really pleased for me"
Yeah absolutely. I used to visit another massage therapist who would end with a prostate massage. Those were some magical experiences! |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve had loads of massages they’ve never ended like that.
I need the details  "
Me too! I’ve had many massages in the UK and abroad. Only had a happy ending in one country abroad. In the UK though I find a select one or two people and stick with them! |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"Me too!! I’d travel to that one!!!"
People do travel to him. His service is exclusively for men. He is a great massage therapist, maybe one of the best I’ve experienced, and I’ve been to a lot of spas. His prices are the same as high end spas too, so there is that |
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It is incredible to be edged and built up to that climax, but yes sometimes it can go too long. I'm not sure I've felt what you describe, but I've had it in the past where the tease goes too slowly after too long, and the erotic feeling starts to dissipate. It's a fine line to tread... |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"I love giving men massages (not paid ones!) and I absolutely love getting them to that point.
I’ve also had erotic massages. From a woman though, and it was amazing   "
Erotic massages are the best. Thats why I love my regular therapist. Starts of normal but ends erotic!
I think it would be hotter if some cuffs were added to the massage! |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"It is incredible to be edged and built up to that climax, but yes sometimes it can go too long. I'm not sure I've felt what you describe, but I've had it in the past where the tease goes too slowly after too long, and the erotic feeling starts to dissipate. It's a fine line to tread..."
I understand what you mean. It can become boring if, in my experience, the erotic massage starts off with heavy touching and squeezing. Nothing more to build up to. The light strokes and touches can build up so much intensity. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"Taking notes  "
There is some real hidden erotic massage talent on fab. I’ve only taken mental notes from the experiences I’ve had, otherwise I’d have sent you them in an email |
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over a year ago
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"Taking notes
There is some real hidden erotic massage talent on fab. I’ve only taken mental notes from the experiences I’ve had, otherwise I’d have sent you them in an email "
Edged a guy for the first time recently which I loved so now I just need to up my game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suddenly feel like all my massage experiences have been lacking on a serious note, I am not sure I'd appreciate it from paid massages, but from personal ones, sounds hot! I generally enjoy giving & receiving orgasm edging/ teasing/ denial. Sin xo
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"Taking notes
There is some real hidden erotic massage talent on fab. I’ve only taken mental notes from the experiences I’ve had, otherwise I’d have sent you them in an email
Edged a guy for the first time recently which I loved so now I just need to up my game "
Did you enjoy his squirming and writhing? I think edging is such a delicious torture.
I think one element which takes the massage to a new height for a man, is having an Aneros inserted. Every touch on their body which makes their body jerk, will be making the aneros press against their prostate! |
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"Taking notes
There is some real hidden erotic massage talent on fab. I’ve only taken mental notes from the experiences I’ve had, otherwise I’d have sent you them in an email
Edged a guy for the first time recently which I loved so now I just need to up my game
Did you enjoy his squirming and writhing? I think edging is such a delicious torture.
I think one element which takes the massage to a new height for a man, is having an Aneros inserted. Every touch on their body which makes their body jerk, will be making the aneros press against their prostate! "
I enjoyed having him at my mercy and of course when his cum went everywhere, the noises are the best part though |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"I suddenly feel like all my massage experiences have been lacking on a serious note, I am not sure I'd appreciate it from paid massages, but from personal ones, sounds hot! I generally enjoy giving & receiving orgasm edging/ teasing/ denial. Sin xo
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How come? I think ending a normal massage in such a way is great, just another form of relaxation.
Denial can be a lot of fun. I once had someone tease me and deny me for nearly a full week. I was in a lot of pain though (blue balls!). I don’t know how some people are in chastity for months or years! |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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I enjoyed having him at my mercy and of course when his cum went everywhere, the noises are the best part though "
You could have probably had him promise all sorts in that moment
It sounds like you really enjoy the sensual side to things? |
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I enjoyed having him at my mercy and of course when his cum went everywhere, the noises are the best part though
You could have probably had him promise all sorts in that moment
It sounds like you really enjoy the sensual side to things?"
It’s the headline of my profile lol he’s reading this thread lol he tells me my edging game is already epic haha I tell you though kissing him passionately and stroking him harder and faster when he was close to cumming was massively erotic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would not want or choose any sexual activity that involves the exchange of money, goods, etc
I'm not simply a job, ever.
Besides the obvious reasons, I'd never want to wonder if they were internally cringing or judging or worse.
My pleasure comes from giving as much, if not more than, receiving.
And the only thing I want to give or receive would be pleasure for us both  |
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"I love giving men massages (not paid ones!) and I absolutely love getting them to that point.
I’ve also had erotic massages. From a woman though, and it was amazing "
Is there an orderly queue outside your house yet? |
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"Recently I went for a 90 minute massage with my regular massage therapist. He always ends it with a handjob and we often run way over the allotted time.
I hadn’t had an orgasm for maybe 7-8 days by this point, just due to a busy life, and he spent a good 30-40minutes teasing me and edging me. I guess my senses were heightened from the relaxing massage. He used such light touches and strokes. I was honestly a squirming mess by the end.
It was getting so intense that my eyes were watering, my breathing was all over the place, and it felt like it could have been really overwhelming to the point where I’d have to tell him to stop.
I love being edged and teased but I’ve never felt this sexually exasperated and frustrated in my life. Afterward I felt like it could have become unpleasant if it went on for longer.
Has anyone else ever found the teasing is so intense that play has to take a pause or has to stop? I’m interested to hear about these experiences and why you think it can feel so overwhelming that it can cross from pleasure to something uncomfortable!
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I had something similar. Basically spent a day being edged and horny. Eventually when I came I had such a dull ache in my balls it was painful. It almost felt like I had been kicked in the balls. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"I would not want or choose any sexual activity that involves the exchange of money, goods, etc
I'm not simply a job, ever.
Besides the obvious reasons, I'd never want to wonder if they were internally cringing or judging or worse.
My pleasure comes from giving as much, if not more than, receiving.
And the only thing I want to give or receive would be pleasure for us both "
I agree with you about worrying what’s going through their mind, however this is someone who I would visit for a normal massage and over time it’s something we talked about and built up to. Sometimes he is naked from the waist down and judging from his erection I don’t think he is cringing on the inside |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s the headline of my profile lol he’s reading this thread lol he tells me my edging game is already epic haha I tell you though kissing him passionately and stroking him harder and faster when he was close to cumming was massively erotic! "
It sounds very erotic indeed! He’s a lucky man!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the headline of my profile lol he’s reading this thread lol he tells me my edging game is already epic haha I tell you though kissing him passionately and stroking him harder and faster when he was close to cumming was massively erotic!
It sounds very erotic indeed! He’s a lucky man!!"
Haha we are both lucky, he did amazing things to me too |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"I love giving men massages (not paid ones!) and I absolutely love getting them to that point.
I’ve also had erotic massages. From a woman though, and it was amazing
Where does One sign up Nora "
I’m sure many are following for an update |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"It’s the headline of my profile lol he’s reading this thread lol he tells me my edging game is already epic haha I tell you though kissing him passionately and stroking him harder and faster when he was close to cumming was massively erotic!
It sounds very erotic indeed! He’s a lucky man!!
Haha we are both lucky, he did amazing things to me too "
Feel free to share details of your teasing adventures if you wish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the headline of my profile lol he’s reading this thread lol he tells me my edging game is already epic haha I tell you though kissing him passionately and stroking him harder and faster when he was close to cumming was massively erotic!
It sounds very erotic indeed! He’s a lucky man!!
Haha we are both lucky, he did amazing things to me too
Feel free to share details of your teasing adventures if you wish "
I’m going to tie him up and blindfold him next time…..sensory overload |
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"I love giving men massages (not paid ones!) and I absolutely love getting them to that point.
I’ve also had erotic massages. From a woman though, and it was amazing
Is there an orderly queue outside your house yet? "
Haha. Unfortunately not |
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"I love giving men massages (not paid ones!) and I absolutely love getting them to that point.
I’ve also had erotic massages. From a woman though, and it was amazing
Is there an orderly queue outside your house yet?
Haha. Unfortunately not "
OK so whose house have we been standing outside for a day now??!  |
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