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Hello ladies and gents
Hope you’re all well and in the best of health
Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic 
I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings 
People seem to frustrate me   |
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"Hello ladies and gents
Hope you’re all well and in the best of health
Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic
I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings
People seem to frustrate me "
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I adore being a social butterfly in a known social setting, but abhor crowds of unknown people and yes it is a trust/control thing.
In this day and age the risk of harm puts me right off, so the caterpillar for me then, I'm always found on the edge or at the back if a group of unknown people, which is another reason why I don't go to festivals  |
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"I adore being a social butterfly in a known social setting, but abhor crowds of unknown people and yes it is a trust/control thing.
In this day and age the risk of harm puts me right off, so the caterpillar for me then, I'm always found on the edge or at the back if a group of unknown people, which is another reason why I don't go to festivals "
I’ve never been to a festival
I think I’d love it but only if it’s somewhere hot and sunny and I have my own tent  |
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I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too. |
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over a year ago
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I like to be out and about and mixing with people but I often find I get irritated by some people easily these days so probably better off in my own company most of the time |
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Like a social event and all covid did really is just show some people in their true light and how utterly stupid some people are ?? but Mrs4 is a very sociable person and enjoys a good natter and Mr4 is fairly sociable but does seem tht a fair few people are avoiding the larger gatherings but then some who say they are/do ..then bugger off to clubs lol |
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"I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too. "
Yes I agree .. It is annoying..
Get your arse out haha  |
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"Hello ladies and gents
Hope you’re all well and in the best of health
Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic
I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings
People seem to frustrate me
Oh "
I'm a little more of a caterpillar at present (a very hungry one, at that). I've been known to be a butterfly on occasion, just less so recently. |
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"I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too. "
I annoy myself too 
Such a dick
A handsome charming dick but still a dick |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I think I’m possibly less sociable. I don’t mind not go out and mixing and I’m happy in my own company.
I was never great in large groups but I just stand still and hope someone chats to me these days |
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"I think I’m possibly less sociable. I don’t mind not go out and mixing and I’m happy in my own company.
I was never great in large groups but I just stand still and hope someone chats to me these days "
I used to thrive in large groups but these days
I’m happy in my own company or small nearest and dearest friends 
The rest of the humans piss me off
Now put me in a pack of 12 dogs
Yes these are creatures I want to spend time with |
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I'm definitely a caterpillar especially in large groups if I don't know many but with friends i know well then I'm fine.
I am fine in my own company to as I do not socialise much now.
I'm probably better with animals and children.
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible. |
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"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible."
The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier |
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"I personally take each day as it comes
Oooo I try to come once a day 
I know you do
How the hell do you know pervert
You been spying
I have
How dare you "
You love it really |
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"I personally take each day as it comes
Oooo I try to come once a day
I know you do
How the hell do you know pervert
You been spying
I have
How dare you
You love it really "
I think you’ll find you love it |
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"Hello ladies and gents
Hope you’re all well and in the best of health
Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic
I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings
People seem to frustrate me "
I’ve done lots of things since things have gone pretty much back to normal. More than I did before. Spent so much time not being able to do stuff I think it’s made me think life is too short. I only have a small circle of friends and my social activities are nothing too crazy. |
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"I personally take each day as it comes
Oooo I try to come once a day
I know you do
How the hell do you know pervert
You been spying
I have
How dare you
You love it really
I think you’ll find you love it "
Nope you do and you know it  |
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"I personally take each day as it comes
Oooo I try to come once a day
I know you do
How the hell do you know pervert
You been spying
I have
How dare you
You love it really
I think you’ll find you love it
Nope you do and you know it "
Pipe down bab |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible.
The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier "
No, I think I’ve always been like this but just recognised it about myself more and accepted that it’s just how I am |
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"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible.
The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier
No, I think I’ve always been like this but just recognised it about myself more and accepted that it’s just how I am"
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