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Can safely say I’m done with dating
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aww hugs never give up they be someone out there
Honestly i don’t choose well . They turn up and I just think oh ffs might as well just go home 
Stick to fab. Come to a social  x"
Where are the socials x |
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"Aww hugs never give up they be someone out there
Honestly i don’t choose well . They turn up and I just think oh ffs might as well just go home
Stick to fab. Come to a social x
Where are the socials x "
Pm sent |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"You have to go through a lot of folk before you find the right one 
I’m finding that "
Also, have you considered that guy no2 is complaining that you were rubbish at competitive loud yawning and were no challenge to beat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies. "
I have 2 cats already , is that enough or do I need more to quality as a crazy cat lady |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have to go through a lot of folk before you find the right one
I’m finding that
Also, have you considered that guy no2 is complaining that you were rubbish at competitive loud yawning and were no challenge to beat "
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I have 2 cats already , is that enough or do I need more to quality as a crazy cat lady "
Social in Derby coming up in November. I’m only on the short list though unfortunately xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I have 2 cats already , is that enough or do I need more to quality as a crazy cat lady "
You need at least 5.
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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This is why I stopped trying  last date I went on, it went really well (in my head it did anyway) but messaged after and nothing.. so unless I'm giving off the wrong vibe or I did something wrong unintentionally, who knows. But to be fair, I rather be told upfront rather than being ghosted at least then I'm not lft pondering but that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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Try a different app. Bumble is better for women I think as you match, the man cannot talk to you until you have spoken first. So accidentally matching someone is easily rectified for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
Try a different app. Bumble is better for women I think as you match, the man cannot talk to you until you have spoken first. So accidentally matching someone is easily rectified for you "
Hmmm might have a look but cba with dating at the moment x |
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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You give up dating over that?
Dunno if your heart was ever in it if you hung up that easy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
You give up dating over that?
Dunno if your heart was ever in it if you hung up that easy "
No lol
These are just recent ones , I’ve had a lot of first date disasters . These just happen to be the most recent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep loving yourself... being a single parent is very difficult in so many ways. It makes dating harder too.
I raised my daughter by myself. She's 30 now. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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Sucked on his gnashers!  No class. Lucky escape op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww hugs never give up they be someone out there
Honestly i don’t choose well . They turn up and I just think oh ffs might as well just go home "
The right person will come along at the time you least expect it |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
You give up dating over that?
Dunno if your heart was ever in it if you hung up that easy
No lol
These are just recent ones , I’ve had a lot of first date disasters . These just happen to be the most recent "
There's a lot of frogs out there, and very few princes. (Or princesses)
Don't be disheartened. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some medications make you yawn a lot. I know this because I’m on some that do!
Hanging around boring people will too. Who knows the reason "
Don’t know we were only walking and talking I don’t think I was that boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've decided I'm not dating ever. I tried it and it's just not for me. Mostly as I'm selfish and don't like sharing my actual life or bed "
You needn't concern yourself with sharing your bed all night. I'll be no more than three minutes. |
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"I've decided I'm not dating ever. I tried it and it's just not for me. Mostly as I'm selfish and don't like sharing my actual life or bed
You needn't concern yourself with sharing your bed all night. I'll be no more than three minutes. "
thing is my bed would only fit 2.... and I don't do 121 so single and happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve not had a proper date in well over a year now. I miss it but can’t be arsed to get to know someone again after it goes wrong, every time not the dates they are usually ok but something goes wrong a long the way and it doesn’t work out. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
When you Don’t like someone, the smallest of "flaws" or the most insignificant of things become a huge problem...such as their accent, the way they walk, the way they breath. Dating is all about compatibility |
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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Badoo can be good !, we met thanks to that site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve not had a proper date in well over a year now. I miss it but can’t be arsed to get to know someone again after it goes wrong, every time not the dates they are usually ok but something goes wrong a long the way and it doesn’t work out. "
I feel like this too.
I just cba getting to know someone new again only to find out something that's a deal breaker at some inevitable point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just go dogging love, you'll find mature men with combe overs, dry skin on there scalp, diamond pattern tank tops and fawn trousers with a huge piss stain down one leg. Isn't that a better option than your latest date? Atleast they have a hobby !
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Badoo isn’t good
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I thought Badoo was for kids. It used to be ok when you could upload images to messages. It's been a few years since I tried it, but all I remember were lots of live streams from jokers. |
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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Sounds like you’ve been unlucky. I’m sure there plenty of good guys out there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m done with trying to date a stranger. People pop up that look nice and friendly enough. But it never goes anywhere.
I’m still open to dating, just not be swiping left/right. |
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
Serendipity |
I went on a date, we had a meal. He kept randomly singing really loudly with the music being played (not loudly) in the restaurant. Other diners kept looking over and I sat there, thinking I can’t wait for this to be over and get outta here. |
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I went on a date, we had a meal. He kept randomly singing really loudly with the music being played (not loudly) in the restaurant. Other diners kept looking over and I sat there, thinking I can’t wait for this to be over and get outta here. "
What are these people thinking when they behave like that? Im sure lots of them are mentally ill!! It’s the attention seeking- just don’t get it at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last 2 have been disasters!
The first one sucked his teeth when he ate and made the most astonishing annoying noise ever , big no no for me
Had a social walk with another just , and he did nothing but yawn, like really really loud and just talked about himself
Badoo isn’t good
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The description of the first one Makes the second one sound almost appealing |
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If you think that it is difficult at 49 Just wait until you get to my age.
You will be looking for more boxes for them to tick. I kid you not.
You will find that they do not even tick one box.
A fussy person goes without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a very, very smart guy called Professor Scott Galloway and he recently did a talk on how the digitisation of dating apps is ruining the real life experiences, just the way online shopping has destroyed high streets and social media has pretty much destroyed everything! Basically taking a physical experience online ruins it in some way, shape or form.
It's a really intelligent view on the whole rise of dating apps and services....it's on Twitter of you fancy a quick watch! X |
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Trying to form meaningful relationships is extremely difficult and has been corrupted by our instant gratification culture/social media.
I've been single for 4 years nearly- okay my 'otherness' doesn't help - I've been on countless dates and tried to initiate relationships and failed, like many others I've pretty much given up on the idea of finding a significant other half too.
Better single than with someone who isn't genuine or what you really want. |
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By *immyGGMan
over a year ago
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I went on a date, we had a meal. He kept randomly singing really loudly with the music being played (not loudly) in the restaurant. Other diners kept looking over and I sat there, thinking I can’t wait for this to be over and get outta here. "
Maybe he had a gig after and was just getting some last minute rehearsing in, unlikely but you never know! |
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies. "
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise |
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"Aww hugs never give up they be someone out there
Honestly i don’t choose well . They turn up and I just think oh ffs might as well just go home
The right person will come along at the time you least expect it "
Stop patronising the woman. Her girlfriends will do enough of that for her. She doesnt need you doing it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise "
I am well aware of this.
I've planned, don't worry. |
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise
I am well aware of this.
I've planned, don't worry. "
Hmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise
I am well aware of this.
I've planned, don't worry.
Hmmmmmm"
Got sledge on order and everything.
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise
I am well aware of this.
I've planned, don't worry.
Hmmmmmm
Got sledge on order and everything.
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And what about for the dogs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was done with dating a couple of years ago.
Embrace the single life and become a crazy dog lady. Or cats, your choice.
I'm getting huskies.
I hope you have a lot of space and a lot of time free. Huskies are working dogs and require lots of exercise
I am well aware of this.
I've planned, don't worry.
Hmmmmmm
Got sledge on order and everything.
And what about for the dogs? "
Matching harnesses.
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"Trying to form meaningful relationships is extremely difficult and has been corrupted by our instant gratification culture/social media.
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I think that nicely sums up that it's not always 'them', but sometimes 'us' in terms of expectations |
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"Trying to form meaningful relationships is extremely difficult and has been corrupted by our instant gratification culture/social media.
I think that nicely sums up that it's not always 'them', but sometimes 'us' in terms of expectations "
It's definitely me. I'm a weirdo. People say they like my weirdness but they really don't and they don't know how to deal with it. For example, my manager has to remind me to do things at work all the time because my brain doesn't pick up new changes quickly. In a relationship, that can get irritating if I'm always forgetting things. When I burnout, I move really slowly and that can be irritating for people also. I also have emotional shutdowns when people think I don't care. I do care but my brain has been overloaded so I need time to offload, re-ground myself and then communicate. It's a burden to have to do almost daily.
Most people haven't got the skill or the capacity to deal with my brain/traits/weaknesses/flaws/quirks.
All I can do is be upfront about these things and work through them. People have bad habits....some are harmful and some are just irritating... I had a former husband who kicked his dirty socks under the bed. I just stopped looking for dirty socks under the bed and only washed what was in the laundry hamper. I never complained about his socks and he never complained about me not washing his socks. Problem solved. I wonder if that broke the marriage...over dirty socks. lol! |
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