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Was that supposed to be a compliment?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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‘I don’t usually like Black guys but you seem nice’… thanks? I guess?
And I’ve already said on a few threads ‘you’re really mature for your age ’ ‘thanks, mum/dad ’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?"
I excused you a long time ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?
I excused you a long time ago. "
Ooooo that one hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?
I excused you a long time ago.
Ooooo that one hurt."
Sorry, I've ran out of coffee!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour"
I get the “can I compare my tan to yours?” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour"
Ewwwww. Argh. That's ....there's nothing redeeming about that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour
I get the “can I compare my tan to yours?” "
‘We’re nearly the same colour’
- not a compliment but so funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?
I excused you a long time ago.
Ooooo that one hurt.
Sorry, I've ran out of coffee!!!"
Go get some and give me a backhanded compliment to make up for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour
I get the “can I compare my tan to yours?”
‘We’re nearly the same colour’
- not a compliment but so funny. "
I don’t get offended by any of that but it’s weird when you think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?
I excused you a long time ago.
Ooooo that one hurt.
Sorry, I've ran out of coffee!!!
Go get some and give me a backhanded compliment to make up for it "
Ok.
You're alright....for a Geordie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“You’re a lot nicer than I thought you’d be”
I get this quite a lot. I must look like a dickhead.
Well......
Excuse me?
I excused you a long time ago.
Ooooo that one hurt.
Sorry, I've ran out of coffee!!!
Go get some and give me a backhanded compliment to make up for it
Ok.
You're alright....for a Geordie. "
Thanks… I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People mean well and I don’t always mind it but ‘you’re a lovely colour’ just feels reserved for non white people and weird. Like- I know I’m a nice colour
I get the “can I compare my tan to yours?”
‘We’re nearly the same colour’
- not a compliment but so funny.
I don’t get offended by any of that but it’s weird when you think about it "
I find all the comments in this particular quote hilarious. Hilariously stupid but also so innocent sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"“You’d be perfect if you were taller”
Said multiple times by an ex
I dunno what that means. I’d still be a cunt at 6’2"
Oh how could I forget height comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
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I know! Older guy who volunteered in my work place years ago. He genuinely thought he was being complimentary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
I know! Older guy who volunteered in my work place years ago. He genuinely thought he was being complimentary. "
Classic older person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One that I LITERALLY just got right now:
"I like your confidence, you are a big girl and totally rocking your lifestyle".
Can't make this shit up. "
Idiots everywhere unfortunately |
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""You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
I know! Older guy who volunteered in my work place years ago. He genuinely thought he was being complimentary.
Classic older person"
Ageism....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""You're very clever, aren't you Nell? But what's really clever is that you hide it most of the time. Men don't like women to be more intelligent than them."
I know! Older guy who volunteered in my work place years ago. He genuinely thought he was being complimentary.
Classic older person
Ageism....... "
I apologise for how this has come across.
But don’t take me too seriously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You look better in real life
I used to get that a lot on here. I chose to take it as a criticism of my selfie skills …"
I get the opposite, I look better in photos... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘Compliments’ that don’t feel like compliments?
Please share?
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When you show someone your talent. ‘Wow, I didn’t know you were talented’ or that talented. Not sure how to take it. |
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"I get the opposite, I look better in photos..."
If someone tells you that it’s a straight up insult. Not even trying to be a compliment. 2/10 must make more of an effort.*
(*They’re only getting above 1/10 for not fucking up the spelling/grammar.) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""You're really cute"
Because so many women have wanted to rip the clothes off a guy they think is cute "
YES. When someone calls me cute I consider blocking because that’s a clear sign you’re not feeling me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""You're really cute"
Because so many women have wanted to rip the clothes off a guy they think is cute
YES. When someone calls me cute I consider blocking because that’s a clear sign you’re not feeling me "
Exactly, I mean, it's better than being called a right munter but still... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""You'd look really great, if you worked out"
God this one
And it was from a friend as well! "
One of my friends once said - you’ve got the perfect pre gym body and I didn’t know what to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""You'd look really great, if you worked out"
God this one
And it was from a friend as well!
One of my friends once said - you’ve got the perfect pre gym body and I didn’t know what to say "
That person is not your friend. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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""You're really cute"
Because so many women have wanted to rip the clothes off a guy they think is cute
YES. When someone calls me cute I consider blocking because that’s a clear sign you’re not feeling me "
I think you're cute and I would totally feel you! I like cute guys! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""You're really cute"
Because so many women have wanted to rip the clothes off a guy they think is cute
YES. When someone calls me cute I consider blocking because that’s a clear sign you’re not feeling me
I think you're cute and I would totally feel you! I like cute guys! "
You |
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"Don't you need viagra at your age?..replied 'NO, but if I was to go with you I'd need a whole box full '." you don't mess with the old folks,lol.but before anyone gets on their high horse, it's the common banter between two colleagues with similar humour.
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Going back maaaany years ago, this was their pre-game chat.
I'm so so attracted to freaks. Like it turns me on so much. Your size is really turning me on.
Sooo my then size 18 "freak sized" body walked out hahaha
Lord knows what he would make of my FREAKIER body now hahahaha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The “you look good for your age” crap. Usually delivered by a 20 something who thinks they’ll never get any older.
Patronised by a kid isn’t a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty for a black girl
You should reply to say "you're (not) pretty fly for a white guy"
^^^Assuming the sender is a white man. "
It generally is unsurprisingly! I don’t engage, just block and delete. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty for a black girl
You should reply to say "you're (not) pretty fly for a white guy"
^^^Assuming the sender is a white man. "
These days that message could just as easily have come from a Black guy unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty for a black girl "
At uni I did some interviews with some Black women who said that was common compliments they got. ‘You’re a 10/10 but you’re Black’ or ‘if you weren’t Black you’d be so much nicer’ to the obvious ‘I’ve never been with a Black girl before’
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