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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She prefers men older than herself, I think it might be the same for the majority of couples to be honest to prefer men of similar age or older. You got to remember, a lot of older women have kids your age, so don't take it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s couples/women’s opinion on younger guys ages between 20-25? "
Some will live it others will hate it.
My wife's limit is anyone her sons age or younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best meet in recent years has been with a 25 year old. Attentive, unselfish, nice equipment, clean shaven.
The main putoff of that age is the comedy beards and tracksuits. I like someone who makes me laugh, but not because their facial hair tickles me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She prefers men older than herself, I think it might be the same for the majority of couples to be honest to prefer men of similar age or older. You got to remember, a lot of older women have kids your age, so don't take it personally. "
This! I don’t meet guys closer to my sons age than mine! |
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I have met some super sexy 18/21 year old gay / femboy type guys before , wouldn’t want to date one that age group but certainly we had enough physically connecting to enjoy fucking with no issues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve spoke to younger women that are mature enough to engage with me well enough to turn me on. I’ve also erm and spoke to very immature younger women who do nothing for my sexual craving. It’s not the number they carry but their personality that attracts me.
Big there is an bottom age where I’d say is in the back of my mind that won’t go away and is a definite no.
(sorry op, I know me replying is not what you wanted  ) |
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Absolutely fine as long as I'm not a trophy to aquire. I'm not going to be anyone's, milf, cougar or experienced teacher, so as with any other man that I fancy to get into my pants, long conversations are inevitable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely fine as long as I'm not a trophy to aquire. I'm not going to be anyone's, milf, cougar or experienced teacher, so as with any other man that I fancy to get into my pants, long conversations are inevitable "
I’m so in there when I see you next  |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not into meeting people who are of a similar age to my oldest child, I will meet younger than myself but I have a limit just like I have a limited upper age for similar reasons of not wanting to meet people who are old enough to be my parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not into meeting people who are of a similar age to my oldest child, I will meet younger than myself but I have a limit just like I have a limited upper age for similar reasons of not wanting to meet people who are old enough to be my parents "
Shame. I like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not into meeting people who are of a similar age to my oldest child, I will meet younger than myself but I have a limit just like I have a limited upper age for similar reasons of not wanting to meet people who are old enough to be my parents
Shame. I like you "
Our names go together like that Grease song |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seek out younger guys but maturity is a big part of it. If someone is younger but carries theirselves like an adult, age isn't an issue."
Fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
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Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee""
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then 
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "
THIS! When my filters were off I got called mummy a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee""
I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.
Let alone hold a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "
What I say to you in private is private  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "
I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.
Let alone hold a conversation. "
I know right, not like it all came from mummy's bank account either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'...
I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality."
Totally agree on the personality yes, but folk are always going to have their own natural preferences too. Hence the age range settings on here or we'd all just be using the 18-99 one Of course that doesn't mean it's always set in stone though |
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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.
Let alone hold a conversation. "
That’s really not the case at all.
However when I was in my 20’s I was pretty mature. I had a house and bills to pay, I had my son when I was 24. So of course I’m aware that many of you have a job and pay bills.
When I look back now I realise that I have changed a lot, and my maturity level is different to what it was in my 20’s. I have experienced much more, both good and bad. That changes people, you can’t shortcut life experience to gain maturity.
So embrace your youth, it’s an amazing time.
Why go looking for personal slights where there was none intended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.
Let alone hold a conversation.
That’s really not the case at all.
However when I was in my 20’s I was pretty mature. I had a house and bills to pay, I had my son when I was 24. So of course I’m aware that many of you have a job and pay bills.
When I look back now I realise that I have changed a lot, and my maturity level is different to what it was in my 20’s. I have experienced much more, both good and bad. That changes people, you can’t shortcut life experience to gain maturity.
So embrace your youth, it’s an amazing time.
Why go looking for personal slights where there was none intended "
I’m only joking. There’s enough older women into younger men to stop me crying myself to sleep at night. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Absolutely fine as long as I'm not a trophy to aquire. I'm not going to be anyone's, milf, cougar or experienced teacher, so as with any other man that I fancy to get into my pants, long conversations are inevitable "
Same for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The comments about maturity are really interesting.
Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.
Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"
You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then
It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'...
I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality."
It’s exclusively younger guys that say it to me, I’ve also found negative reactions from younger men to be much more prevalent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread really demonstrates that many women are still influenced by societal norms, attitudes, moral perceptions of a patriarchal, chauvinistic society. Older men seem to have no problem at all with this type of age gap, attracting younger women is seen as being successful
However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Immature. We had a hookup with a young 24 year old male. While he was so well endowed he was so erratic. Too much porn may also be a problem"
paying him a compliment in order to belittle after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We sometimes get messages and though we’re not interested we try to help with profile or club advice if asked but we find there’s a lot of misunderstanding and a general lack of respect.
Can’t speak for them all of course but we never bother now. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"Rachel finds younger guys rather immature and has always preferred sex with men of the same age - maybe slightly older."
Well Tom my man you better start searching for them older men for Rachel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread really demonstrates that many women are still influenced by societal norms, attitudes, moral perceptions of a patriarchal, chauvinistic society. Older men seem to have no problem at all with this type of age gap, attracting younger women is seen as being successful
However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.
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I've always preferred younger men but has to be older than my children. Nothing to do with society or norms, just find it cringeworthy for me and incredibly unattractive ... doesn't work
Also, a lot of younger men under 30 are just looking for that older "notch" from messages I have received and I really don't find being objectified attractive nor appealing on any level so I'll stick to younger over 40s!!!
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"This thread really demonstrates that many women are still influenced by societal norms, attitudes, moral perceptions of a patriarchal, chauvinistic society. Older men seem to have no problem at all with this type of age gap, attracting younger women is seen as being successful
However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.
I've always preferred younger men but has to be older than my children. Nothing to do with society or norms, just find it cringeworthy for me and incredibly unattractive ... doesn't work
Also, a lot of younger men under 30 are just looking for that older "notch" from messages I have received and I really don't find being objectified attractive nor appealing on any level so I'll stick to younger over 40s!!!
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That's good you come to that conclusion it's all about finding what works for you |
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"What’s couples/women’s opinion on younger guys ages between 20-25? "
We assume your question is actually what are peoples opinions on meeting with younger guys between 20-25?
As we only meet with young single men, our opinion is perfectly clear, we love it. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
My opinion is, they are all different so I don't like to judge them on others behaviour, if I can help if... I like younger men, just the sharp ones... Although it only matters if I fancy them, I suppose |
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