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So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me "
We can all identify how we want, even if you disagree. Personally I think you can be straight and still want to suck a dick. Others will disagree. It’s our lives, our choice to identify in a way we want |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me "
I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi
Or they are concerned by the possibility of their fab life and real life crossing over. And being bi perhaps not being received well.
There are a hundred reasons.
But it's just another label, outdated too, so not worth sweating over |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me "
Does it help?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they want to find out what all the other bi/woman/gay people are enjoying.
Did someone ask you op?
What did you say? 
I told them to fuck off and blocked them "
Cute reply……..  . I usually just say no thanks, stops my angst.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And by 'outdated' I simply meant the word doesn't really cater to the wide variations in the reality of people's likes and preferences and how they would choose to identify or engage as far as sexual preferences go. |
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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago
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I've always considered myself straight, even when dressing in sexy lingerie and fucking my ass with a dildo. But have become a lot more curious recently.
Labels are maybe a bit too limiting to categorise desires
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"Take is as a compliment
If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you "
I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.
I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all! |
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I think you can have sexual fantasies about the same sex or be sexually fluid and still identify as straight if you only have relationships with the opposite sex or have the stronger preference for the opposite sex but it’s a bit pointless messaging someone who says on their profile they’re looking for women and you’re a dude. Maybe just pot luck hoping you’ll play along into their fantasies. Who reads profiles anyways  |
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"Take is as a compliment
If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you
I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.
I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!"
Oh, right, it’s just your original post seemed more angry about straight guys messaging you and you saying they aren’t straight
Now it’s them overstepping their mark |
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"If a man offers to suck your cock does it matter if their profile says they're bi or straight?
You're either interested or you're not?"
In my opinion, yes it does.
If someone is straight, I wouldn't expect them to have any desire for another man to suck them off. That makes them Bi curious for thinking about it and Bi if they proceed with it.
Thats my logic but everyone sees the World and judges it through their own beliefs I guess |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me
I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi
Or they are concerned by the possibility of their fab life and real life crossing over. And being bi perhaps not being received well.
There are a hundred reasons.
But it's just another label, outdated too, so not worth sweating over"
Best logical response I've read so far. Hadn't thought about it like that before  |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me "
Does your ire extend to other inaccuracies in profiles... Height, single, body type, location, smoker etc or is it just the straight bit? Surely profiles are taken at a pinch... Its just a bit of fun isn't it.? |
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"Take is as a compliment
If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you
I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.
I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!"
I’m with you OP on this, I do get tired on so called straight guys offering sex to me, when it is clear from my profile that I am straight. It would be like me randomly contacting a lesbian and saying “hey darling how about sucking this dick for me” ! It’s not acceptable |
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"Take is as a compliment
If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you
I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.
I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!
I’m with you OP on this, I do get tired on so called straight guys offering sex to me, when it is clear from my profile that I am straight. It would be like me randomly contacting a lesbian and saying “hey darling how about sucking this dick for me” ! It’s not acceptable "
Glad it's not just me. Thank you |
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I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.
But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it? |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
Yep!!!
It annoys me "
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It's highly likely that they are thinking along the lines of how they won't be the only bi/gay/etc guy to have straight on their profile so take a chance on getting a yes.
If you have veris from mfm that would increase the chances of hete ex
Enough yes'es will keep it worth their while |
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Focus on yourself and how you identify. Anyone else, it's their thing.
Sexual activity can be very different to sexual attraction, as you'll see in the many forum posts. It can be hard for many who have led a restricted lifestyle and mindset, to grasp this. There's a whole, other big world out there. |
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"It's highly likely that they are thinking along the lines of how they won't be the only bi/gay/etc guy to have straight on their profile so take a chance on getting a yes.
If you have veris from mfm that would increase the chances of heteex
Enough yes'es will keep it worth their while"
Lol fab editing my spelling
* hetero-flex
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I think labelling your sexuality is stupid. We like what we like and that can change on a daily basis.
But what difference would it make if they said they were bi or gay? Would you have been interested then? |
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"Focus on yourself and how you identify. Anyone else, it's their thing.
Sexual activity can be very different to sexual attraction, as you'll see in the many forum posts. It can be hard for many who have led a restricted lifestyle and mindset, to grasp this. There's a whole, other big world out there. "
This is exactly it. You hit the nail on the head.
My sexual activity doesn't exactly reflect my sexual attraction and explaining that to less experienced people or closed minded people is like talking to a brick wall. Not everyone gets it |
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"I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.
But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it?"
Yes it is up to them and also up to me to have mine respected surely!! |
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"Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.
Good lord man. Priorities in life "
Getting annoyed over something on the internet is like choosing to step in dogshit rather than walk round it |
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Straight guys message me all the time, my profile quite clearly states ‘no straight guys’ but they still message.
Conclusion, very few people read the text within a profile or will ignore it. C’est La Vie |
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I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi
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But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?
I would think that would put more leoe off! |
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"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?
WTF..... that's not normal.
Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.
It annoys me "
One word; desperation.
It was ‘Heads’ - give in to having a guy suck him off;
And ‘Tails’ - visit an escort |
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I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi
But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?
I would think that would put more leoe off!"
I suppose they imagine it wouldn't be discovered unless they themselves tell |
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"I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.
But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it?
Yes it is up to them and also up to me to have mine respected surely!!"
I don't see it as any different to men messaging me to ask me to fuck their  . Some people don't respect others' boundaries here and IRL. |
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I think a lot of not out gay/bi guys think straight guy are more discreet too. Feels like a safer meet.
Shoot your shot I guess. If their filters are open and as long as you are respectful in your messages I see no harm |
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I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi
But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?
I would think that would put more leoe off!
I suppose they imagine it wouldn't be discovered unless they themselves tell"
Happens loads on the Forums. |
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