I’m just getting into kink myself and although my husband doesn’t have much interest himself, he doesn’t mind going along with things for my benefit.
I’ve got a few flogging toys that we take to clubs. But whenever I try them out on someone, I don’t quite get the right amount of power or stroke to my swing (hehe, stroke!) and the impact is quite pathetic.
I’ve got some expensive heavy floggers and some cheaper ones so wanted to practice on something for a while to get the hang of it. Any suggestions?
My husbands ass is an option but a few hours of practice might deter him from being a subject in the future! |
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"I’m just getting into kink myself and although my husband doesn’t have much interest himself, he doesn’t mind going along with things for my benefit.
I’ve got a few flogging toys that we take to clubs. But whenever I try them out on someone, I don’t quite get the right amount of power or stroke to my swing (hehe, stroke!) and the impact is quite pathetic.
I’ve got some expensive heavy floggers and some cheaper ones so wanted to practice on something for a while to get the hang of it. Any suggestions?
My husbands ass is an option but a few hours of practice might deter him from being a subject in the future!"
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
1. Find a local munch and see if you can meet local kinksters who can give you some guidance
2. There are some guides on youtube. Learning from youtube is better than nothing, but remember you are learning from mimicry not understanding.
https://youtu.be/AzJ26qcpiuw
3. Speak to people at the events and see if they can offer guidance. |
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It's always a good thing to try things out on yourself first to get a feel for force and impact etc.
At least those things it's physically possible to 
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over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"It's always a good thing to try things out on yourself first to get a feel for force and impact etc.
At least those things it's physically possible to
That goes for receivers also "
The problem with flogging is that you can only do it on your own wrists, hands or legs.
All of which do not allow you to actually practice your swing. Just get a feel for how the falls feel.
You can prop a pillow up and use that.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Google “Florentine Flogging, for Visual Learners, Plus Flame Whips and Poi!”
You should find a tumblr account for a guy called Tony.
He had some good instructional Videos on youtube about flogging |
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"It's always a good thing to try things out on yourself first to get a feel for force and impact etc.
At least those things it's physically possible to
That goes for receivers also
The problem with flogging is that you can only do it on your own wrists, hands or legs.
All of which do not allow you to actually practice your swing. Just get a feel for how the falls feel.
You can prop a pillow up and use that.
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Never done this i learnt my skill on willing sub's.
But tie a pillow or a cushion to the back of a chair and sort your distance out you get feel from the flow of the strokes and how the flogger falls . repeat until you build up a natural swing and. Rythem |
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Excellent, thank you for the guidance. Ya know I never thought of a pillow! I was thinking about what could simulate an arse and was thinking of something silicone or a lump of meat. I could if started flogging our Sunday roast! |
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"Excellent, thank you for the guidance. Ya know I never thought of a pillow! I was thinking about what could simulate an arse and was thinking of something silicone or a lump of meat. I could if started flogging our Sunday roast!"
Something to note - remember to look up body areas that can and cannot take impact. For example, a flogger should never wrap around a hip or land on the spine.
If you can do it safely that's brilliant and then build up from there.
I am not amazing at impact but I am adequate, can do it well enough. Luckily I had plenty of events to go to where I could ask people to show me (great idea to see if a House Dominant can show you, they are usually very experienced at impact) and also had a play partner who is fantastic at it and he was very willing to guide me and for me to practice on him.
So I would second the opinion to seek people who are willing to help you learn if you can get to munches and kink clubs. |
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We’re going to the after dark kink night at pandoras this Wednesday in Leeds. Hopefully there will be some there that can help and advise. (Is that a munch?)
Have previously been to a celestial studios event night and Birmingham bizarre bazaar and been to plenty of swingers clubs with dungeons.
Wanted to get some practice in before Wednesday so will pick my victim (a pillow) tonight and go to town on it with my different floggers. Hopefully the kids won’t come downstairs as this may take a little explaining.
Good advice on the impact areas. I pretty much aim for the ass anyway but is important to know where is safe. |
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