Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help |
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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help "
Sorry if this maybe sounds harsh but seems like you’re better off leaving them to their own dramas  |
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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help
Sorry if this maybe sounds harsh but seems like you’re better off leaving them to their own dramas "
Thanks for the help I just didn no what way to process it |
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Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.
Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur. |
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"Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.
Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur."
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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help "
It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available. |
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"Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.
Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur."
Fukin brill!!   |
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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help
It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available."
Thanks for the advice much appreciated |
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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…
We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help
It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available.
Thanks for the advice much appreciated "
You're the same age as our kids,it's what I'd tell them.
You will do what you want to do though and I suspect she will keep giving you tiny bits of hope that will keep you interested while making you feel sorry for her because her boyfriend treats her badly. |
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