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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
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"Totally agree, build up a trust and friendship , and of course get to know each others likes etc. Sam has been seeing one guy for quite some time now. And they can get quite passionate."
Yeah I agree with you.
I even have toys and outfits just for use with the bull now as the trust and confidence has grown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to have a long term playmate. Would ideally like a regular long term, but that is proving to be a bit more difficult.  "
Same. It's hard to crack here X |
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Do prefer regular / long term fun. Can build a rapport and try new and exciting things together over time. Ones off or one nighters feels too rushed and impersonal doesn't really appeal or interest me x |
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We're not looking for guys, but with couples and ladies yes we we'd much rather see select people again and again than keep finding new people. The sex is much better when we know people well and finding new people all the time sounds exhausting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a playmate too, the more I trust someone, the more kinkier side comes out and the better fun you have exploring!
Just from personal experience though.
People have a habit of saying they want that and doing the complete opposite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "
why is that? Due to maybe someone developing feelings etc? X
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"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis why is that? Due to maybe someone developing feelings etc? X"
No, quite simply, I think negotiating the needs/wants of 1 other person is enough for single folks to contend with |
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"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "
Not unrealistic but very real, me and some couples my friends we been meeting for a year now. Meetings don't hapen in a dayly or every week basis , due work commitments family, distance, etc, but we meet twice a month minimum  |
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"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "
Is it ? That's not our experience. The couple we were with previously were very good friends and had known them for something like 15 or so years. Alas, due to circumstance it drew to a close. We'd be very happy to continue a similar arrangement again. Friends first and foremost. The other side of things just came naturally and organically. 'Twas a beautiful thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think based on what we actually do we prefer one offs.
We have enjoyed a couple of repeats but we’d be concerned about having someone else becoming more involved in our relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if there are many out there, who like us, prefer a long term thing with a guy. Rather than one offs ? One offs can be fun too of course. But we prefer long term. "
Yes longterm.
Gets better with time,trust longevity etc many pluses.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree, build up a trust and friendship , and of course get to know each others likes etc. Sam has been seeing one guy for quite some time now. And they can get quite passionate.
Yeah I agree with you.
I even have toys and outfits just for use with the bull now as the trust and confidence has grown."
Spot on! Many dont understand the deeper Dynamic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Difficult to find, I think it depends what you are looking for within that. People are too flaky and hard to trust these days."
Yes fully agree. Diff cut nowadays tbh |
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, but would really like to find long term play partner (s)... 
Glad I have a bike. 