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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.
Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.
so hard getting my head around it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one."
Oi!
I resemb………I mean resent that remark.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because Women are the minority and so some will accept that as they're hard to find.
Where as Men are the majority and therefore a more suitable one is easier to find. I imagine.
Plus, it's always the man's fault, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one.
Oi!
I resemb………I mean resent that remark. "
Sorry I forgot you don’t require the pulse |
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them   "
I did. 
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "
You did?!
*faints* |
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"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.
Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.
so hard getting my head around it. "
Not all women think like that. I’d meet a man whose wife didn’t know, if I liked him. I wouldn’t meet a man whose wife did know. That’s not really my thing. Everyone is different. I don’t understand how people think it’s cheating though if you have permission. That’s an odd one! |
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "
I've always liked you |
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.
You did?!
*faints*"
I know I don't get a lot of your references Steve. I'm bold, what can I say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.
You did?!
*faints*
I know I don't get a lot of your references Steve. I'm bold, what can I say "
You’re alright for a non 25 year old. You’re alright. |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Northwich (just visiting) |
"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.
Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.
so hard getting my head around it. "
They aren't by us!
Cheating is cheating, we aren't looking to get tangled up in other people's drama, we stick to singles or people making ENM work.
 K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "
It’s true! When a guy cheats it’s the guys fault and when a woman cheats, it’s the guys fault. I have spoken out before about this but I’ve been in the minority. Even other women seem to speak up for women cheating while vilifying men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... ...so hard getting my head around it.
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Don't overtly concern yourself about getting your head around it.
Just enjoy your Fab journey."
I see what you did there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.
Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.
so hard getting my head around it.
Not all women think like that. **I’d meet a man whose wife didn’t know, if I liked him. I wouldn’t meet a man whose wife did know. That’s not really my thing.**
Everyone is different. I don’t understand how people think it’s cheating though if you have permission. That’s an odd one! "
** Me same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man cheating = man's fault
Woman cheating = man's fault
Men are [redacted]
According to fab
If you like men so much maybe you should marry them
I did.
I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.
It’s true! When a guy cheats it’s the guys fault and when a woman cheats, it’s the guys fault. I have spoken out before about this but I’ve been in the minority. Even other women seem to speak up for women cheating while vilifying men."
I’ve even been called out for pointing out the double standard. Apparently pointing this out also makes the man a dickhead |
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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.
Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.
so hard getting my head around it.
Not all women think like that. I’d meet a man whose wife didn’t know, if I liked him. I wouldn’t meet a man whose wife did know. That’s not really my thing. Everyone is different. I don’t understand how people think it’s cheating though if you have permission. That’s an odd one! "
She doesn’t want to know as such. She likes the fact I could being naughty also. I don’t have to tell her all details. She says when I’m away the thought that I could be is a rousing |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Northwich (just visiting) |
"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.
#NotAllMen amirite  "
You certainly are, my man is amazing!
I've been chatting to a very nice one on here recently too, though I'm not gonna lie, he was a rare find
K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.
#NotAllMen amirite "
#Totally x
Just always seems to be a man that starts these threads
All that I've seen at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.
#NotAllMen amirite
#Totally x
Just always seems to be a man that starts these threads
All that I've seen at least "
How funny is that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because there's more married men looking and posting about it than there is women, we wouldn't meet anyone cheating man or woman. I don't care for reasons it's not my place."
This for me too! This is also really clearly stated on my profile, still get some approaching me though  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Many men won't care if a woman is married if they get sex & won't spoil their chance slating a married woman in a thread.
I see your frustration though if you're allowed to play with others,my partner has my consent to meet alone & I happily verify this with anyone who wants me to.
Would your wife do that ?
I think the men who lie about being attached or say their Mrs knows when she doesn't, probably make it harder for those who aren't cheating .
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I think there are men and women who find it a turn on to meet with a married people and then there are people who wouldn’t meet with someone attached.
I wouldn’t knowingly meet someone who is attached - male or female, but I’m not going to take the moral high ground and get all judgemental about it. |
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The thing that puts me off the married guys on here that are playing without permission is that 99% of the time they either slag off their wife, which is disrespectful, or they bang on and on and on about how honest they are (with an air of “aren’t I great and unusual”) and, to be blunt, it’s really unattractive.
I don’t find that women (the ones I’ve chatted with) do that. |
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Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"
I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"
I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x"
If they have “permission” then people that meet them still have ‘morals’ and are not ‘destroying someone’s life’  |
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"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"
I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x
If they have “permission” then people that meet them still have ‘morals’ and are not ‘destroying someone’s life’ "
That second part was for those who don't have "permission" |
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In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.
It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.
It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway"
I agree with this last bit
Many forum regulars over the years who are married or attached ,have been very popular. |
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"Because there's more married men looking and posting about it than there is women, we wouldn't meet anyone cheating man or woman. I don't care for reasons it's not my place.
This for me too! This is also really clearly stated on my profile, still get some approaching me though "
We've had a few approach us, actually mainly woman but I think that's probably because we're not looking for men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.
It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway"
Couldn't agree more.Same as a lot of things,the more attractive/popular you are the less unacceptable said thing is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing that puts me off the married guys on here that are playing without permission is that 99% of the time they either slag off their wife, which is disrespectful, or they bang on and on and on about how honest they are (with an air of “aren’t I great and unusual”) and, to be blunt, it’s really unattractive.
I don’t find that women (the ones I’ve chatted with) do that."
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