Hey guys,
Me and my wife are wondering how many people who go to clubs split up and do there own thing while there there?
It’s something we’re looking into.
Me(male) wants to meet up with other bi/gay guys.
My wife wants a non pushy guy.
And someone who can respect our rules too haha
I really don’t know how to put things into words so I hope you al can interpret what I’m trying to get at 
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"Sounds like a good plan.
Also applicable when you go shopping with the opposite sex."
True. At least you won't be sitting on a chair holding your partners bags in a club. |
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I've done it with my partner- most of the time, we were both playing in open play areas so we could see each other, but we did it a couple of times as well when he went to a private room with another lady.
My advice: make sure you set up rules beforehand and arrange how you're going to get back together- how soon, where etc. So communication is the key. |
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"I've done it with my partner- most of the time, we were both playing in open play areas so we could see each other, but we did it a couple of times as well when he went to a private room with another lady.
My advice: make sure you set up rules beforehand and arrange how you're going to get back together- how soon, where etc. So communication is the key. "
Thankyou for the advice me(male) want to play with other guys because I think I would be more confident by myself, but all options will be explored
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"We have done though mostly attend separately because we tend to like different events. "
Yes, attending separately is another option, OP. I go to bi nights on my own, for example, because my partner is not bi but I enjoy watching some hot male on male action. |
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"We have done though mostly attend separately because we tend to like different events.
Yes, attending separately is another option, OP. I go to bi nights on my own, for example, because my partner is not bi but I enjoy watching some hot male on male action. "
We like to go together but I want to try more things with a guy haha |
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"We have done though mostly attend separately because we tend to like different events.
Yes, attending separately is another option, OP. I go to bi nights on my own, for example, because my partner is not bi but I enjoy watching some hot male on male action.
We like to go together but I want to try more things with a guy haha"
She might like to watch? |
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"We go and generally play together but clubs allow you to wander off and play separately in a safe environment which we have done on occasions. "
It’s something we have never tried but pretty keen to explore x |
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"We go and generally play together but clubs allow you to wander off and play separately in a safe environment which we have done on occasions.
It’s something we have never tried but pretty keen to explore x"
Just keep checking in with each other for reassurance and take in slowly. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"We have done though mostly attend separately because we tend to like different events.
Yes, attending separately is another option, OP. I go to bi nights on my own, for example, because my partner is not bi but I enjoy watching some hot male on male action.
We like to go together but I want to try more things with a guy haha"
Maybe the solution is to go to bi nights together, get chatting and then pop into separate rooms for a while before meeting up again back at the bar?
There's no need to go together and separate immediately. Odds are if you do she may find herself surrounded and attracting more interest leaving you alone and left out. Why not advertise what you're looking for via a post on here/status update/details in your profile, try to engage with other men visiting the club beforehand and then meet people onsite that you've already chatted with on here, giving you a head start?
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