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Do any of you know anyone this has happened to? It doesn't seem to happen often.
It happened to me recently. Came as quite a surprise. Sadly I've not been with a woman yet. Hopefully will soon though. |
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I know a gay guy who’s married another bloke but my wife’s absolutely convinced he’s actually straight. He’s actually an LGBT leader in his field but he’s had gfs in his past and my wife’s judgement is usually bang on on these matters. So he’s kind of gone in the opposite direction but possibly just hasn’t found who he is yet. To put it into context, he’s in a heavily gay community my wife and I know very well and he’s the only one my wife identifies as closet straight! |
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My mrs has a gay bff, who she’s known for years, when we as in me and mrs met. Her bff had absolutely got a liking to me.
We had a 3some together where we had all fun, including the bff having the opportunity to pound the mrs too, which opened his eyes to a whole new world lol.
We all got fucked to say the least that amazing night and the ones after that to this day.  |
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"Why oh why didn't I check the green arrow  You are the poster who has been asking this for some months now ?"
I asked this question quite a number of weeks ago and didn't really get a response. So decided to ask again. My other questions to my knowledge were different from this. They were asking to meet up. |
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"My mrs has a gay bff, who she’s known for years, when we as in me and mrs met. Her bff had absolutely got a liking to me.
We had a 3some together where we had all fun, including the bff having the opportunity to pound the mrs too, which opened his eyes to a whole new world lol.
We all got fucked to say the least that amazing night and the ones after that to this day. "
Sounds amazing. |
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"I know a gay guy who’s married another bloke but my wife’s absolutely convinced he’s actually straight. He’s actually an LGBT leader in his field but he’s had gfs in his past and my wife’s judgement is usually bang on on these matters. So he’s kind of gone in the opposite direction but possibly just hasn’t found who he is yet. To put it into context, he’s in a heavily gay community my wife and I know very well and he’s the only one my wife identifies as closet straight! "
I would be very surprised if anyone knew someone elses sexuality better than they did, especially if they are married and active in the queer community. Add to that the concept of sexuality being fluid and changeable, and there being a very big grey area between straight and gay and it feels a little silly to suggest someone is a closet straight (I also get annoyed about people saying someone is a closet gay for the same reason)
You cant tell what someones sexuality is by their behaviour (past or present), appearance, or demeanor. Just because a lot of queer people chose to present themself as queer doesnt mean that every queer person does.
From a straight presenting queer woman 
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I've received a few messages from 'gay' guys stating the want their first time with a woman... To be honest I just viewed it as another USP from straight guys hoping to tempt someone to shag them on a site of so many solo men perhaps?... Also chatted with a MM couple where one partner was bi, and he stated his partner was willing to explore with a fem. Didn't get much off the ground as I'm guessing it really wasn't his thing to be fair. To be honest I'd feel pretty much the same as I do towards cpls where the guy is clearly looking for a fmf, but then it turns out the lady is really not that keen after all  |
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I think it's natural to be curious at times. All these labels nowadays make it so much harder for people to know who they are. If all labels were removed, and people just met whoever they wished based on how they present: it would be a much easier way.  |
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"I think it's natural to be curious at times. All these labels nowadays make it so much harder for people to know who they are. If all labels were removed, and people just met whoever they wished based on how they present: it would be a much easier way. "
To a greater extent I do really agree with this. But I'll be honest and say I don't really fancy being a guinea pig for someone's first crack at trying something brand new either these days? I frankly feel I'm too old for that level of 'experimentation'. Especially, with someone who may feel its really not for them very quickly on?... Harsh, but in my case these days also true  |
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It's interesting reading some of your replies. Labels are something I don't like to use, but if you can have a bi curious male or female, then it's only obvious that you could have a straight curious male or female ?
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
I love this answer
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I don’t see anywhere in his post where he has labelled anyone myself
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"I think it's natural to be curious at times. All these labels nowadays make it so much harder for people to know who they are. If all labels were removed, and people just met whoever they wished based on how they present: it would be a much easier way. "
Agreed. |
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"Given the lack of genuine women in Fab, I doubt any gay guy is going to 'turn' in here lol..... 
there are loads of real women who meet."
I stand by my answer 48wks ago |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I know a gay guy who’s married another bloke but my wife’s absolutely convinced he’s actually straight. He’s actually an LGBT leader in his field but he’s had gfs in his past and my wife’s judgement is usually bang on on these matters. So he’s kind of gone in the opposite direction but possibly just hasn’t found who he is yet. To put it into context, he’s in a heavily gay community my wife and I know very well and he’s the only one my wife identifies as closet straight! "
So he’s heavily involved in a gay community but non of the people in that community can tell that he’s straight? He’s married but his husband can’t tell that he’s straight? But your wife can? Wow, that’s an incredible talent she has. Even he doesn’t know that he’s straight as you say he hasn’t found who he is yet….has your wife told him that he’s actually straight and not gay? If she hasn’t then she definitely should to help him in his quest to find himself. |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ? "
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences... |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences..."
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too "
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted. |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted. "
Possibly in reality I could have? But maybe it's one of those things where even if you can?... Its probably far wiser for your own benefit you do not?
But by all means have away at your own cousin as the banjos play as much as you like |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted. "
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Possibly in reality I could have? But maybe it's one of those things where even if you can?... Its probably far wiser for your own benefit you do not?
But by all means have away at your own cousin as the banjos play as much as you like "
I’m stating that it is legal to marry your cousin, even if you weren’t adopted and you were blood relatives you could have married him. It’s legal to marry a cousin that you’re related to by blood so being adopted doesn’t make any difference in that regard.
I don’t know why you think it’s wiser for your own benefit not to, wiser in what way? In what benefits are you referring to? |
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By *ickD80Man
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint "
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women? |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women?"
What? My age at his first marriage was 9, so yes at that point thought he was straight, as did he. I mentioned I was adopted as my mum was being a weirdo regarding dating... And frankly not my only concern, as a cousin, and gay so... I may be crazy here, but feel my dating pool extends beyonds my cousins?  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women?
What? My age at his first marriage was 9, so yes at that point thought he was straight, as did he. I mentioned I was adopted as my mum was being a weirdo regarding dating... And frankly not my only concern, as a cousin, and gay so... I may be crazy here, but feel my dating pool extends beyonds my cousins? "
I meant that I assumed you didn’t know that he was gay at the point when your mom said you should go on a date with him as he’d just come out of a marriage with a woman and wasn’t yet in a gay relationship.
But you said that your mom said you should date him as you’re adopted and I’m saying that being adopted has no relevance on whether you can date him or not, if you weren’t adopted and you were cousins related by blood you could still date him.
It’s as meaningless as saying ‘my mom said I should date him because it’s a Wednesday’ |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women?
What? My age at his first marriage was 9, so yes at that point thought he was straight, as did he. I mentioned I was adopted as my mum was being a weirdo regarding dating... And frankly not my only concern, as a cousin, and gay so... I may be crazy here, but feel my dating pool extends beyonds my cousins?
I meant that I assumed you didn’t know that he was gay at the point when your mom said you should go on a date with him as he’d just come out of a marriage with a woman and wasn’t yet in a gay relationship.
But you said that your mom said you should date him as you’re adopted and I’m saying that being adopted has no relevance on whether you can date him or not, if you weren’t adopted and you were cousins related by blood you could still date him.
It’s as meaningless as saying ‘my mom said I should date him because it’s a Wednesday’ "
Or as not likely because we'd shared aunts since I was born?... My mother's a fruitcake. Don't buy into her level of crazy to make it sound normal |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women?
What? My age at his first marriage was 9, so yes at that point thought he was straight, as did he. I mentioned I was adopted as my mum was being a weirdo regarding dating... And frankly not my only concern, as a cousin, and gay so... I may be crazy here, but feel my dating pool extends beyonds my cousins?
I meant that I assumed you didn’t know that he was gay at the point when your mom said you should go on a date with him as he’d just come out of a marriage with a woman and wasn’t yet in a gay relationship.
But you said that your mom said you should date him as you’re adopted and I’m saying that being adopted has no relevance on whether you can date him or not, if you weren’t adopted and you were cousins related by blood you could still date him.
It’s as meaningless as saying ‘my mom said I should date him because it’s a Wednesday’
Or as not likely because we'd shared aunts since I was born?... My mother's a fruitcake. Don't buy into her level of crazy to make it sound normal "
How did you share aunts since you were born if you’re adopted? Were you adopted at birth? |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too "
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
It’s legal to marry your cousin so you could have gone on a date with him even if you weren’t adopted.
Also weird that you disregarded the fact he's into men vs women.. So pretty pointless date. But sure let's argue the legal standpoint
He was married to a woman, I assumed you didn’t know he was gay at that point. Why did you mention that you were adopted if your only concern is that he’s interested in men rather than women?
What? My age at his first marriage was 9, so yes at that point thought he was straight, as did he. I mentioned I was adopted as my mum was being a weirdo regarding dating... And frankly not my only concern, as a cousin, and gay so... I may be crazy here, but feel my dating pool extends beyonds my cousins?
I meant that I assumed you didn’t know that he was gay at the point when your mom said you should go on a date with him as he’d just come out of a marriage with a woman and wasn’t yet in a gay relationship.
But you said that your mom said you should date him as you’re adopted and I’m saying that being adopted has no relevance on whether you can date him or not, if you weren’t adopted and you were cousins related by blood you could still date him.
It’s as meaningless as saying ‘my mom said I should date him because it’s a Wednesday’
Or as not likely because we'd shared aunts since I was born?... My mother's a fruitcake. Don't buy into her level of crazy to make it sound normal
How did you share aunts since you were born if you’re adopted? Were you adopted at birth?"
Yes, adopted at birth. Yes, my family is my family... Urgh... This has just got weirder than when I first commented |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
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Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment "
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment "
Haha, sorry, I get wound up by the ridiculous posts some people put on here (I include the OP of this thread as one of them) and it caused me to completely miss your point, I was focusing on the adopted part and thought you were saying that it’s ok to date your cousin as you’re not related by blood. I understand what you meant now and I apologise for being so aggressive and questioning you. |
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Katt Williams the comedian nailed it .. I'm not homophobic I'm just pro pussy.. I'm just saying if you've tried some vagina that lead you to a life of asshole maybe you tried the wrong one I love vagina they are delicious . Hahaha legend |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe."
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding. |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding. "
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental  |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental "
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental "
Hahaha what the hell why are you discussing your mum on here |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental "
We all have mental moments lol this coming from someone who is bi polar x |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental
I can't be the judge of that, and like I said we're all far from perfect...!"
Your mom on was probably just doing what she felt was right in her head at the time (maybe it was simply a shock to her system, the whole gay affair thing)...!
She has her reasons, doesn't make her mental. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental
I can't be the judge of that, and like I said we're all far from perfect...!
Your mom on was probably just doing what she felt was right in her head at the time (maybe it was simply a shock to her system, the whole gay affair thing)...!
She has her reasons, doesn't make her mental."
Mums know best |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
it's the way it should be ("one love"). Chemistry between consenting adults, achieving blissful experiences...
I dunno? My cousin is gay (now married to a guy), was married to a woman. And in between my mum tried to get me to go on a date with them because I'm 'adopted, and she's clearly fucking mental!'... So, there is that too
If they're happy and enjoying life, then it's all good. We live in beautiful World shared with batshit crazy peeps; and let's face it, none of us are really perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
As long as we are all enjoying the experience(s) without hurting anyone else in the process then it's all good...!
Tbf I think my point was my mum was trying to get me to hook up with my clearly gay cousin. But yep, I was/am very happy for them. It was just odd that she was being weird at the time.... You know when you just wished you'd never even opened your mouth to comment
We never stop to learn is what I believe.
Btw, I'm not agreeing with you saying your mom's mental, just for the record. Everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do (& we all make mistakes in life). What is important is we be kind and understanding.
Right, you don't agree my mum is mental for suggesting I shag my cousin?... Yes, we can all be kind and understanding about the fact she's clearly mental
I can't be the judge of that, and like I said we're all far from perfect...!
Your mom on was probably just doing what she felt was right in her head at the time (maybe it was simply a shock to her system, the whole gay affair thing)...!
She has her reasons, doesn't make her mental.
Mums know best "
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ? "
It's mainly about how a label is looked at. Either to scrutinise or with clarity and it's society that created them so individuals are not to be blamed for going ahead with them xxx |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
It's mainly about how a label is looked at. Either to scrutinise or with clarity and it's society that created them so individuals are not to be blamed for going ahead with them xxx"
What point are you trying to make here? I actually can’t tell if you’re saying you’re pro or anti labels. Different people look at labels differently so if you’re saying that labels are ok as long as they’re looked at in the right way then that will never be the case so it’s a meaningless point to make.
Just because something’s created by society doesn’t mean individuals have to use it if it’s not the right thing to do, everyone is capable of making their own decisions about what’s right and what isn’t rather than just going with what society does. Society created racism, society created a class system that oppresses the poor and benefits the rich, there was a time when society stopped women from voting…. And as it ok for individuals to go ahead with all of them as well? |
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"I don't see why we need labels. Can't sexuality be fluid depending on who tickles our fancy at the time ?
It's mainly about how a label is looked at. Either to scrutinise or with clarity and it's society that created them so individuals are not to be blamed for going ahead with them xxx
What point are you trying to make here? I actually can’t tell if you’re saying you’re pro or anti labels. Different people look at labels differently so if you’re saying that labels are ok as long as they’re looked at in the right way then that will never be the case so it’s a meaningless point to make.
Just because something’s created by society doesn’t mean individuals have to use it if it’s not the right thing to do, everyone is capable of making their own decisions about what’s right and what isn’t rather than just going with what society does. Society created racism, society created a class system that oppresses the poor and benefits the rich, there was a time when society stopped women from voting…. And as it ok for individuals to go ahead with all of them as well?"
As long as we are all consenting adults whatever floats your boat.
It's the kids that are screwed up with labels and their own identity I feel sorry for x |
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