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What winds you up the most in Fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the random friend requests without even communicating at all,
the persistence of people when you’ve said no and how pushy they can be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rudeness and lack of respect
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Surely it will always be the people, because without them fab would be nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you stressed op? You sound like you could be.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pubes. |
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I really get frustrated by the whole "Am I bi ?" crap.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! |
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All those women just throwing themselves at me. Gets tiring after a while  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really get frustrated by the whole "Am I bi ?" crap.
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Yes I don't know why but me as well |
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Nothing. I've been on the site long enough to let nothing or no one bother me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this a question for the ladies?….because that winds me up |
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! "
I drive a citroen, does that not get brownie points in your eyes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At times it feels not very inclusive at all with little pockets of people hanging out together like teens around a shop doorway, getting in the way, being rude and taking the piss out of people visiting that shop.
How closed minded people can be for such an apparently open minded environment.
How pleasant threads can be often ignored whilst threads that can be criticised are jumped on.
I guess, in short, I'm saying people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Older people that are condescending.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not so much here these days.
Life is tough and stressful enough as it is, without getting stupidly wound up by petty stuff from strangers on the internet. I TRY to move away from stuff that bugs me if I feel myself being triggered now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing live and let live everyone entitled to there opinion
Do laugh at some threads
That’s why it’s funny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending. "
Back in my day we had to walk 50 miles in the snow just to roll our eyes. |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
I don't let fab or the people in it wind me up. If I did it might be time to take a time out or leave. Life is too short to waste on futile wind ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending. "
Or Young people who don’t respect their elders… |
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Nothing really anymore. Once you figure out what you want and how fabs works it’s much more relaxed
Most frustration comes from not understanding. |
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"Older people that are condescending.
Or Young people who don’t respect their elders… "
Respect is earned Woody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending.
Back in my day we had to walk 50 miles in the snow just to roll our eyes."
Younger person: *breathes*
Older person: you’ll learn that there’s better ways to breathe when you get older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending.
Or Young people who don’t respect their elders…
Respect is earned Woody "
 … could someone pick me up from that bitch slap I didn’t see coming… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending.
Or Young people who don’t respect their elders… "
Probably me. Because I’m not in school anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending.
Back in my day we had to walk 50 miles in the snow just to roll our eyes.
Younger person: *breathes*
Older person: you’ll learn that there’s better ways to breathe when you get older. "
At least you’ve got high speed internet to Google how to breath the correct way. We had to work it out for ourselves and we all turned out alright |
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"Older people that are condescending.
Or Young people who don’t respect their elders…
Respect is earned Woody
… could someone pick me up from that bitch slap I didn’t see coming… "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woke Snowflakes |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
i agree i wouldnt let anything wind me up on here,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older people that are condescending.
Back in my day we had to walk 50 miles in the snow just to roll our eyes.
Younger person: *breathes*
Older person: you’ll learn that there’s better ways to breathe when you get older.
At least you’ve got high speed internet to Google how to breath the correct way. We had to work it out for ourselves and we all turned out alright "
You right. You right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The timewasters, fakes and fantasists who have no intention of meeting up,basically 90% on here. |
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"Woke Snowflakes"
But not anti woke snowflakes though, they get special protections  |
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No photos but they still ask for a meet |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
The only thing that annoys me at all on here are those who share other people's private information to others. That pisses me off as it shows a blatant disregard for others right to privacy.
Apart from that I don't let much get to me on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People taking things literally instead of recognising the intent behind the words.
Saying that, nothing winds me up, just disappointing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woke Snowflakes
But not anti woke snowflakes though, they get special protections "
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Nothing winds us up here op filter and blocking is your friend
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys who don’t read my profile or guys who know they don’t fit what I’m looking for but message anyway because they thought I’d make an exception. |
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Nothing. Quite a bit of eye rolling and wtf’s though. It’s all entertainment to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and people who call others woke as an insult! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!"
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually when you're chatting to someone and it's going great and then they become less frequent, and the replies get shorter and I find it's me carrying the conversation. Would rather they just say sorry, but not interested anymore and that would be that. |
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another"
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get stressed out over a site full of cocks/pussy and gaping assholes there is something seriously wrong in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another"
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
GATLEY |
Chatting to people for weeks then mysteriously their profile disappears and also when your verifications disappear too when people arent on the site anymore |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Nothing winds me up on fab, I might do the odd eye roll but that’s it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really. Been on here long enough to let it all go over my head. It takes a lot to rile me nowadays |
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I let 99 percent of it go over my head.
Can't be doing with the overt/covert racism tho.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another"
I don’t mind being called snowflake. Same with Karen and boomer it’s just an insult for someone’s actions or politics.
Woke as an insult however I take issue with because it is an anti racist term being used often as a synonym for black but mostly as an insult for left wing politics and I have no idea where that comes from  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them. "
Not back in your day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That il no matter how long im here and how many vaginas a cause to tingle il not get what i want out of it |
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People who think they know the ins and outs of every subject known to man |
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them.
Not back in your day?"
Sorry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm…..off the top of my head…..nothing but the dancing chimps playing the symbols around and around.
Nothing fab related though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This emoji too stop rolling your eyes people you only get one set of em someone might step on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I let 99 percent of it go over my head.
Can't be doing with the overt/covert racism tho.
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Agree with this! |
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Not very much really horrid people maybe but just ignore them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who think they know the ins and outs of every subject known to man"
You mean those that think that they have eaten an entire collection of encyclopaedias?
That’s definitely frustrating, and they think their always right on every single subject!
Yawn!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Moaning ninnies and fun suckers!! |
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"People who think they know the ins and outs of every subject known to man
You mean those that think that they have eaten an entire collection of encyclopaedias?
That’s definitely frustrating, and they think their always right on every single subject!
Yawn!!!"
Yup, can’t admit they are wrong because they never think they are |
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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago
DUMFRIES |
People that joined 5 minutes previously that demand whoever contacts them HAS to be fully verified, have a complete profile with face and body pics when their own profile has no pics and says "fill in later" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who think they know the ins and outs of every subject known to man
You mean those that think that they have eaten an entire collection of encyclopaedias?
That’s definitely frustrating, and they think their always right on every single subject!
Yawn!!!
Yup, can’t admit they are wrong because they never think they are "
Or they feel like they are loosing something inside of them by saying….yep, you got me. I’m wrong!
What is with that??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who dont get my humour it makes me do this |
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Meli.
She’s always at it.
Buys drinks and feeds them to her handbag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I let 99 percent of it go over my head.
Can't be doing with the overt/covert racism tho.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rimming listed on cpl profile but F half isn’t down for giving or receiving |
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The egos and attention seekers...
Though I don't let this place wind me up! I just log out for a while if it's getting a bit of a negative experience
Cherry x |
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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago
West Cork |
Fake profiles. Wasted half the morning organizing a meet with a man pretending to be a woman - he was masturbating thinking about her with strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This emoji too stop rolling your eyes people you only get one set of em someone might step on them "
You mean I need to roll them inside my head? Damnit, I've been doing it wrong the whole time.
Pxx |
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Nothing stresses me about the site but I do wonder at times about some people's level of investment and how that manifests itself in either dictating how others should act or failing that they have more interest in ghost writing other peoples experiences either real or fabricated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another"
Same.
Pxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure about wind me up but, mildly irritating:
The people ranting on status updates about "Read my profile ffs" etc
The creatures lurking under rocks waiting to pounce on a poster, and lead a baying pack of blood thirsty forumites intent on lynching the individual regardless of context. (There's a few who predictably pop up on certain topics).
And the cognitive dissonance of some when it comes to populist subjects.
Apart from that I indulge as I see fit and ignore or log off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This emoji too stop rolling your eyes people you only get one set of em someone might step on them
You mean I need to roll them inside my head? Damnit, I've been doing it wrong the whole time.
Pxx"
its a common mistake |
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Asking for a face pic in the first message even though there profile has zero pics on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only the lack of being inundated by messages from compatible people wanting to use my face as a merry-go-round horse.
-Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the random friend requests without even communicating at all,
the persistence of people when you’ve said no and how pushy they can be!"
Exactly this.. annoying to the core |
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! "
I had one in the 80's if that counts - a red one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! "
And the lack of fiat 500 drivers. |
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Asking to meet now or in a first message ,err no .
Or staying I know I'm too young/old/I smoke but.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really I can’t think of other than the countless Not getting any meets threads and not taking any advice you give them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the random friend requests without even communicating at all,
the persistence of people when you’ve said no and how pushy they can be! Exactly this.. annoying to the core "
Nice rack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Entitled people who can't take no thank you as a response to a request they have made.
If you can't take no thanks you as a response - swinging is clearly not for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get stressed out over a site full of cocks/pussy and gaping assholes there is something seriously wrong in my life. "
This. |
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As a single guy, carefully writing a specific message to someone that interests you but it doesn't get seen as women/couples are bombarded with turgid, rude posts that swamps their inbox. (Thi is aimed at the sender's of the turgid, rude posts not the recipients) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People in the forums who seem to have the answer to every issue posted in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! "
i prefered ford
F fuck
O off
C cos
U ur
S stupid
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy, carefully writing a specific message to someone that interests you but it doesn't get seen as women/couples are bombarded with turgid, rude posts that swamps their inbox. (Thi is aimed at the sender's of the turgid, rude posts not the recipients)"
I’d say most of us do see them, if it’s unread it could be because we’ve checked out the profile or just left it unread! I get a lot but never really miss a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them.
Not back in your day?
Sorry?"
No ridiculous made up words back in your day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rimming listed on cpl profile but F half isn’t down for giving or receiving "
SO specific |
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers !
I drive a citroen, does that not get brownie points in your eyes?"
Tom would of thought the Dr drives a Lada or a Trabant... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get wound up by misogyny and racism - sometimes the constant moaning threads make |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the random friend requests without even communicating at all,
the persistence of people when you’ve said no and how pushy they can be! Exactly this.. annoying to the core
Nice rack"
thankyou! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the random friend requests without even communicating at all,
the persistence of people when you’ve said no and how pushy they can be! Exactly this.. annoying to the core "
it’s the one thing that winds me up |
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Nothing as we use this site for fun.
We dip in and out of the forums so don’t get hung up on any drama and we chat to people that we look to build connections with and don’t get involved with people that don’t interest us.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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DM's that just say hi or how are you
Gah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get wound up by misogyny and racism - sometimes the constant moaning threads make "
The Lounge has taught me a lot about these things. |
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Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles. |
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"People who think they know the ins and outs of every subject known to man
You mean those that think that they have eaten an entire collection of encyclopaedias?
That’s definitely frustrating, and they think their always right on every single subject!
Yawn!!!
Yup, can’t admit they are wrong because they never think they are "
That's the ones and there are a few of these but you get to recognise them and ignore them. The 'know it all', those with extreme views, those who ignore people's posts but respond to the same post if it's from their 'friends' and those lacking compassion for the less fortunate. But there are lots of decent people who respect others and their opinion, have lots of useful information and offer genuine support for others. You ignore the former and enjoy the interaction with the latter. That's what I try to do. It is what it is and no point letting it bother you.  |
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them.
Not back in your day?
Sorry?
No ridiculous made up words back in your day? "
Wasn’t aware I had a day. Today is my day. As is tomorrow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles. "
Do you not see the irony? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things I love most about Fab ~ people
Things I hate most about Fab ~ people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex described as ‘playing’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and people who call others woke as an insult!
I dislike all those terms.
Woke, snowflake, Karen, Boomer etc etc.
It's just more and more divide and as bad as one another
Me too. So many ridiculous made up words these days . Never used any of them.
Not back in your day?
Sorry?
No ridiculous made up words back in your day?
Wasn’t aware I had a day. Today is my day. As is tomorrow. "
Ok, then I guess there’s lots. |
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles.
Do you not see the irony? "
Lol in me getting annoyed by people claiming to be uber chilled? Not until now, no 
My fave is when they have "fun couple looking for fun" as their headline. Cheers Janet and Simon, that really stands out and tells me what you're all about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attention seekers who have 'confidence issues' and egos bigger than the moon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers !
I drive a citroen, does that not get brownie points in your eyes?"
If it is you behind the wheel it does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers ! i prefered ford
F fuck
O off
C cos
U ur
S stupid
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you ain’t wrong there though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers !
And the lack of fiat 500 drivers. "
I am with you there ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of Ford Fiesta drivers !
I had one in the 80's if that counts - a red one "
Ok I’ll do you then |
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"Rudeness and lack of respect
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Add to that self righteous /arrogant / up themselves persons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles.
Do you not see the irony?
Lol in me getting annoyed by people claiming to be uber chilled? Not until now, no
My fave is when they have "fun couple looking for fun" as their headline. Cheers Janet and Simon, that really stands out and tells me what you're all about "
Your username? Lol! |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
'quality over quantity'
With like 500 veris |
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No profile pic, no verification then sending friend requests off the bat with nk prior communication.
Single guys pretending to be someone or something else.
Being ghosted.
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"At times it feels not very inclusive at all with little pockets of people hanging out together like teens around a shop doorway, getting in the way, being rude and taking the piss out of people visiting that shop.
How closed minded people can be for such an apparently open minded environment.
How pleasant threads can be often ignored whilst threads that can be criticised are jumped on.
I guess, in short, I'm saying people "
Are you referring to the Fab Gestapo or should I say In crowd ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another one is people that breadcrumb you |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Nothing here winds me up, I love the comedy and the occasional interesting post . It’s not a difficult site to get what you want out of it , I think the frustration often vented is unrealistic expectations of how others should behave here. |
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you "
Like Hansel and Gretel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Like Hansel and Gretel?"
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Women with little whispy beards! |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
People who write detailed lists on their profiles of what people should or should not do or say when contacting them.
Why would you do that?
What possible advantage is there to handing a list of instructions to a dickhead to tell them how to fly under your dickhead radar? |
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Tom is not wound up by them but fascinated by those conversational experts that list what not to ask and give a breakdown of answers ....
I am fine
Doing Well thanks
Etc
Tom wonders how they greet friends in supermarkets .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom is not wound up by them but fascinated by those conversational experts that list what not to ask and give a breakdown of answers ....
I am fine
Doing Well thanks
Etc
Tom wonders how they greet friends in supermarkets .."
In the third person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not enough pussy pics in our inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you "
Is that following veris? |
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"Nothing here winds me up, I love the comedy and the occasional interesting post . It’s not a difficult site to get what you want out of it , I think the frustration often vented is unrealistic expectations of how others should behave here. "
This . Exactly.
Certain people take this shit far too seriously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?"
Lol I do this! |
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles.
Do you not see the irony?
Lol in me getting annoyed by people claiming to be uber chilled? Not until now, no
My fave is when they have "fun couple looking for fun" as their headline. Cheers Janet and Simon, that really stands out and tells me what you're all about
Your username? Lol! "
You almost got me, but I said "overuse" - once is ok. So chill out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles.
Do you not see the irony?
Lol in me getting annoyed by people claiming to be uber chilled? Not until now, no
My fave is when they have "fun couple looking for fun" as their headline. Cheers Janet and Simon, that really stands out and tells me what you're all about
Your username? Lol!
You almost got me, but I said "overuse" - once is ok. So chill out "
Haha I don’t use any of those |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this! "
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. |
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"Overuse of the words "fun", "relaxed" and "chilled" on profiles.
Do you not see the irony?
Lol in me getting annoyed by people claiming to be uber chilled? Not until now, no
My fave is when they have "fun couple looking for fun" as their headline. Cheers Janet and Simon, that really stands out and tells me what you're all about
Your username? Lol!
You almost got me, but I said "overuse" - once is ok. So chill out
Haha I don’t use any of those "
Well that's good to hear, you've gone up a notch in my opinion. You're now at notch 1  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. "
Ohhhhhh lol |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. "
Had this recently, I wondered whether there was a word for that... Now I know, breadcrumbing  |
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. "
Ahhhh! That’s definitely something that needed a word! |
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. "
This exactly. It happens way too often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you "
im kind of guilty of this but i make no arrangements or promises to meet up in general its kind of a defence thing iv developped iv only booked time off for one person it recent times it takes a lot for me to get to that point these days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just the wank buses in chat really. |
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People saying don’t ask me to be friends whiteout prior conversation then they immediately ask for friend request |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the words of José Mourinho “If I speak, I am in big trouble”, so with respect I will decline to answer this question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting. "
Ah. It's a word I associate with designing websites. Do you think people breadcrumb purposefully? I've never been sure about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one is people that breadcrumb you
Is that following veris?
Lol I do this!
That’s not breadcrumbing…
Breadcrumbing is when someone gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention to give you hope. They want to keep you interested, even when they have no real plans of meeting.
Ah. It's a word I associate with designing websites. Do you think people breadcrumb purposefully? I've never been sure about that. "
Could be a shitty internet connection or personality
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here? "
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A"
Ah yes. Doesn't wind me up but just save people (me) the hassle of remembering your previous username. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A"
People don't necessarily want to be recognised? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 'dont be shy' when you ignore or delete messages. Makes me unreasonably angry hahaha. I'm not freaking shy, just deeply uninterested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
Ah yes. Doesn't wind me up but just save people (me) the hassle of remembering your previous username. Thank you "
Totally agree and people are always recognised even if they try to pretend they are someone different. |
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here? "
Can only really comment re the fora.
How nasty many people are. Hypocrisy and prejudices are rife for a group professing to be open minded and welcoming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Can only really comment re the fora.
How nasty many people are. Hypocrisy and prejudices are rife for a group professing to be open minded and welcoming. "
That's the thing though who has decided that swingers should be open minded and welcoming? No different from any other group or scene where it is made up of a vast array of people with very different mindsets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People not reading profiles "
Yes! Thank you!! |
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Nothing. Because when the fun stops, stop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People bragging about all the meets they’ve had and their sexual prowess. Click on their profile, zero veris and been on over a year.
Sure you have buddy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A"
I hate those people ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ..."
You are one of those people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people "
You don't say |
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People who don't read profiles
People who just say stuff they know will cause a row |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say"
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something?"
You do realise I'm now gonna change my name to one that can be shortened to HAG. |
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We struggle to be nice to people who fail to read our profile properly and ask for things we clearly state we aren't interested in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who don't read profiles
People who just say stuff they know will cause a row "
Stupid is as stupid does. Top film |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something?
You do realise I'm now gonna change my name to one that can be shortened to HAG. "
Hairy Ankle Girl? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something?
You do realise I'm now gonna change my name to one that can be shortened to HAG.
Hairy Ankle Girl?"
I was gonna go with hairy ass girl but yours might be better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something?
You do realise I'm now gonna change my name to one that can be shortened to HAG.
Hairy Ankle Girl?
I was gonna go with hairy ass girl but yours might be better. "
Your ass is hairy? I’m out. |
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Nothing really, though I groan with the clueless who message. 15 years here and I've grown used to everything really.
I hate others being stood up. It's upsetting |
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Nothing life's to short to get bothered by others. |
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Nothing really. You can just close the browser window and everyone here disappears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can’t really complain since it’s all part and parcel of a swinging site, and in fairness it’s better than most the others I used to be on...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rimming listed on cpl profile but F half isn’t down for giving or receiving
SO specific"
When the fun stops stop |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Nothing life's to short to get bothered by others. "
Exactly this ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed lots of stressed people in here in for various reasons. But what winds you up the most about either Fab or the people in here?
Probably just one thing.
When people leave and either come straight back (having already created a new 'alter ego') or return a week or so later.
Just hide your profile. It's simpler and it stops people having to try and work out who you are.
A
I hate those people ...
You are one of those people
You don't say
Wait a minute… weren’t you that other account? HAG or something?
You do realise I'm now gonna change my name to one that can be shortened to HAG.
Hairy Ankle Girl?
I was gonna go with hairy ass girl but yours might be better.
Your ass is hairy? I’m out."
Is the nice kinda hair though, very soft. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those people that like to be 175th reply to close a thread .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those people that continue to post after a thread has reached 175 replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stupidity "
Next to you, a lot of us are stupid.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those people that continue the “posting after a thread has closed” joke way after it ceases to be amusing any more .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Those people that continue to post after a thread has reached 175 replies "
I hate those guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Those people that continue to post after a thread has reached 175 replies
I hate those guys. "
I know, right!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good wun |
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