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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My mind boggles…… Why do people keep messaging when I haven’t replied or I’ve just deleted the message and it also states on my profile why I haven’t replied….. I just wouldn’t waste mine or their time with constant messages ….. am I being wrong in not responding to them or should I reply with a ‘no thanks’ every time ???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probly forgot they messaged
Haha you can see if you’ve messaged someone previously 
Only if you are supporters "
Ooohhhhh didn’t know that ….. now it all makes sense….. (face palm emoji ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.
I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile "
I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.
I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile
I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t."
I read your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.
I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile
I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.
I read your profile. "
I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.
I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile
I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.
I read your profile.
I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter."
I must be tired as that word doesn't actually bother me. |
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By *obel42Couple
over a year ago
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Carry on as you are doing. We do the same now.
We used to reply with a ‘No thanks’, which some replied with ‘OK’. Others wanted to know why? Are you sure? Pleeeaaaaase? Etc etc and others became insulting!! All wasting our time!
We’ve been told that once you’ve messaged them it bypasses any filters you set.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your first mistake is thinking anyone actually reads profiles.
I’ve had a few messages saying they’ve read my profile
I fine the ones that say they have usually haven’t.
I read your profile.
I read yours. How about some flirty banter? Or as I like to call it…. Flanter.
I must be tired as that word doesn't actually bother me. "
You’ve changed. |
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Some will be thinking their previous attempts simply caught you at a bad time and if they try again there may be a different outcome.
Many won't have read your profile.
Some won't care what your profile says and until you block them, you're fair game.
Some will have forgotten they messaged as they bombard every woman within 200 miles the same message on a fortnightly basis and have no idea who they messaged or when.
Some will be thinking "she's gotta get so horny at some point and want penis, any penis, and I'm gonna be the penis in shining armour that lands in her box when that happens"
Yes. Some really think that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some will be thinking their previous attempts simply caught you at a bad time and if they try again there may be a different outcome.
Many won't have read your profile.
Some won't care what your profile says and until you block them, you're fair game.
Some will have forgotten they messaged as they bombard every woman within 200 miles the same message on a fortnightly basis and have no idea who they messaged or when.
Some will be thinking "she's gotta get so horny at some point and want penis, any penis, and I'm gonna be the penis in shining armour that lands in her box when that happens"
Yes. Some really think that happens."
What sad lives they live……it’s all about their penis ! with me I check out their profile first bit lame but it’s what I do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carry on as you are doing. We do the same now.
We used to reply with a ‘No thanks’, which some replied with ‘OK’. Others wanted to know why? Are you sure? Pleeeaaaaase? Etc etc and others became insulting!! All wasting our time!
We’ve been told that once you’ve messaged them it bypasses any filters you set.
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Yeah I’ve done that and they ask what is wrong with them so to carry on a convo and really I don’t need to explain the not reading or replying should be a big giveaway |
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"This is why I delete and block if I’m not interested. Hassle free fab life that way 
No delete and block for me so far. I’ll take that as you’re interested "
Hahaha. To be honest I never ever block forum people (perhaps a private note!). As if I’d block you Mr Sprout! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - just block and move on. Life is too short to get stressed or lose sleep over messages."
Oh I’m not getting stressed or losing sleep over it lol I’m just baffled as to why they do it and I do block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’ve made it clear you’re not interested by not replying. You’re not responsible for them not getting that message. Block them. You shouldn’t have to deal with it and sorry that you have to but it’s one we gotta charge to the game. |
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You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards |
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards "
Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards "
Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg |
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards
Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies "
Oi we're not all bad, good to see you again btw |
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards
Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg"
Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit |
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards
Hmmmm. Normal human being? I think this is where the problem lies
Oi we're not all bad, good to see you again btw "
You too. Hope you’re good xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards
Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg
Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit "
Jeez I best get sorting that out then |
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"You don't need to be a site supporter to see if you have already messaged as you get a nice fab friendly warning if they've not replied.
At this point as a normal human being you stop and carry on.
Block might be your best option moving forwards
Yeah but they don’t stop lol….. my block list is longgggggggggggg
Lmao you'll need storage in the cloud for exceeding your limit
Jeez I best get sorting that out then "
To be fair they have a point you're not playing fair having great boobies on show. Profile text can't see any  |
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You know men only bought the daily Star , the sun and daily sport for the pics...So how can you expect them to get past gorgeous lady pics
Maybe Fab can change the format of Fab so that the profile section is at the top of the page and the pics section at the bottom forcing blokes to read the profile before the pics?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know men only bought the daily Star , the sun and daily sport for the pics...So how can you expect them to get past gorgeous lady pics
Maybe Fab can change the format of Fab so that the profile section is at the top of the page and the pics section at the bottom forcing blokes to read the profile before the pics?
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Nah they would still scroll past that |
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