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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually gravitate more towards pisstakers and jokers. Anyone who can make me laugh or be as offensive as possible towards me without overstepping and I’ll like them. |
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"Friend.
How do you choose and what qualities do you look for in a friend....   . Mine is honestly, trustworthy, and banter. "
I don't have a lot of close friends. That's because I have BPD/EUPD with possible ASD and sensory processing traits.
That and I'm too honest makes people uncomfortable. I have zero tact and because I can mask?/look unbothered, I think people think I don't care. Meanwhile I'm drowning in my emotions. When I finally do break code/form? and become extra emotional, that freaks people out even more because I've gone from aloof to a babbling wreck in 0 to 60 seconds.
Yeah no close friends or family for me. I have associates. I turn to professionals for help and to tell me the truth and to call me on my bullshit. Safer that way. |
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Have different friends with different qualities but my bestie we tell each other things we never tell anyone else! She has been a friend 45 ish years! I have a male bestie I've never actually met from here about 3 and half years we been chating he has told me things he has never spoken to anyone about not even his previous relationship partner! Trust is important I would say x |
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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago
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I don't really do friends, moved around too much in my younger years to bother with friends, and it just stayed that way when I settled down. There's people I know, that I'll say hello to and talk shit with for 10 and that's pretty much it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expect a lot of crap and cancelling of plans. I like my friends to be seen and not heard  "
That should be 'friend' I don't have the energy or attention span for more than one |
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"People have friends? 
It's not obligatory. Mine keep dying so I've given it up as a bad job...
I'm shit with houseplants too.."
My orchids are still alive....I've killed a few of the others. lol!..or rather some grew too big for my window sill and I never trimmed them back.  |
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