Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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P0rnhub has a lot to answer for. 
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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You could always talk to the lad while he's doing the fingering and tell him what youd prefer instead? |
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Porn.
Plus if a man orgasms, it's tangible.
If a woman orgasms, did she or didn't she, was she just being polite making all the right noises. If they make someone squirt they know they've done it.
If a woman squirts, great, visually very exciting, but shouldn't be the aim. |
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One of my friends is a heavy squirter.Alot of men seem to like the idea because of porn,but then quickly change their mind when she's squatting over their face 
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"Guys that are obsessed with squirting are generally just shit at any of the other sex stuff so just focus on this.
There *other* sex stuff?  "
So they say |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Do guys even know that if a woman squirts, she's not necessarily had an orgasm? I don't. "
I've never had an orgasm when I've soaked someone's bed.
It's more like the feeling of hitting the funny bone; which isn't nice at all.
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"Do guys even know that if a woman squirts, she's not necessarily had an orgasm? I don't. "
Right
It's a totally different feeling for me. Feels good, but not as good & satisfying as an orgasm. |
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It's not about a lack of communication, it's a badge of ho or for men rather than a mutual and desirable connections and experience. If they're asking that and concerned about it before you meet then they dont come across like they're interested on your pleasure outside of their achievement |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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I think because when they ejaculate they have an orgasm so they think when we do the same we are also having an orgasm. Porn with it all it’s fakeness has a lot to answer for. |
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Love the feeling however it becoming the main focus isn't appealing.
Some men are a little obsessed & when told 'no more' they see it as a challenge
Please concentrate on all of me not just the waterfall |
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"Do guys even know that if a woman squirts, she's not necessarily had an orgasm? I don't.
I've never had an orgasm when I've soaked someone's bed.
It's more like the feeling of hitting the funny bone; which isn't nice at all.
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Nor have I and any new partner would be told nope to the finger blasting! |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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Has this come about since the hosepipe bans? |
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We didn’t think it was a thing until wife gushed one day. Was nice but not be all and end all. Has to right position, right mood and she says it feels different. Not necessarily better but different. So if it happens it happens |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
Has this come about since the hosepipe bans? "
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Research carried out on the nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality by Samuel Salama et al. J Sex Med. 2015 Mar. Concluded the present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. |
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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago
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"Do guys even know that if a woman squirts, she's not necessarily had an orgasm? I don't.
Right
It's a totally different feeling for me. Feels good, but not as good & satisfying as an orgasm. "
Exactly this x |
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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago
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"Research carried out on the nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality by Samuel Salama et al. J Sex Med. 2015 Mar. Concluded the present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. "
I read that paper too. Bravo to the participants being interrupted for sonography! |
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"Research carried out on the nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality by Samuel Salama et al. J Sex Med. 2015 Mar. Concluded the present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. "
I think most Women know this.. |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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I find it really strange.
I have no desire to squirt and when I tell men that it's implied that the only reason I don't want to do it is because I haven't done it before and if I try it I might like it
I usually end the conversation when the topic of squirting comes up cause I already know I'm not going to enjoy sexy time with that person |
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"I don’t even like the sensation of squirting, hard no from me!
Just say "Oh...I'm going to squirt, I'm ready, please, open your mouth so you can taste it..."
Then just piss in their mouth."
Doubt my body would even let me! |
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"I hear Duggee has got his Squirt Badge! 
Now I have put that into words I wish it had stayed in my head  "
Fuck Sake!
You’ve forever tainted that delightful doggy for me now.
In my head, I’m just gonna keep on hearing….
“We’ll done squirrels…..you’ve earned your…….squirting badge”
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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Yes I get messages like this all the time it really puts me off arranging a meet . I’m nearly 52 and have never squirted |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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Yes absolutely this. It's definitely a goal for lots of men. It turns me off and I'll ignore the message if this is how it starts. |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
I find it really strange.
I have no desire to squirt and when I tell men that it's implied that the only reason I don't want to do it is because I haven't done it before and if I try it I might like it
I usually end the conversation when the topic of squirting comes up cause I already know I'm not going to enjoy sexy time with that person "
Any mention at all and I stop chatting to them. |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
Yes absolutely this. It's definitely a goal for lots of men. It turns me off and I'll ignore the message if this is how it starts. "
I can safely say its most definitely not a goal for me anyway. Certainly if im accommodating the last thing i want is loads of bodily fluids making a mess of sheets/furniture. Even if im not accommodating, its a turn off to be honest |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
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Thank goodness no recived abuse on several occasions from lady’s but obviously nothing like you’re getting report block |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. "
As nobody has mentioned this yet... I can make you orgasm, FAF? |
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Fortunately when I was a little fella I had a little rubber elephant to play with in the bath, when you squeezed his belly (whilst he was underwater) he would take in water (through a little hole around his erm…. Well come to think of it
Then when you lifted him out of the water and squeezed his belly again, water would squirt out his trunk. I think therefore all little fellas should be given a similar toy, so that they can exorcise any nascent squirting obsessions that may be developing |
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"Afternoon,
After the 12th message today asking if I squirt, and then subsequently telling me that they can make me (whether I want them to or not, or whether I even reply to said question), I wonder what the seeming fascination is with making women squirt as opposed to showing willing and desire of achieving orgasm?
It’s a real bug bear of mine, as it implies that their main focus isn’t to turn me on enough to orgasm, which is instantly off putting and not at all attractive to me. I’ve had many encounters where I’m “finger fucked” for the sole purpose of squirt, and then end up using a vibrator after they’ve blown their load and think they’ve done a grand job.
Do you experience the same kinds of messages and/or experiences? Thoughts?
Thank goodness no recived abuse on several occasions from lady’s but obviously nothing like you’re getting report block "
not abuse as such, more complete ignorance and oblivion |
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"Fact is, that a number of the guys that profess to being able to make you squirt, couldn't tell if you'd cum or pissed on them. I concur "
Piss on them and they'll go away thinking "I never fail to make them squirt" |
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