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Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
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Also, if she knows that's what you're trying to do, there's every chance her body is going "hell no" coz it can feel like you're under huge amounts of pressure and failing as a woman when your partner wants your body to do something and it doesn't do it. A mental block can easily ensue. |
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over a year ago
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"Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
Thank you ! "
Get a new girlfriend. What's the point in having a woman if she won't squirt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is the issue with most men, they make this a goal. Just enjoy focusing on each others bodies and if it's going to happen, believe me it will only happen naturally. If it doesnt, again just enjoy each other's bodies. Just because she isn't resembling a water pistol, doesn't mean she isn't enjoying sex. |
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"This is the issue with most men, they make this a goal. Just enjoy focusing on each others bodies and if it's going to happen, believe me it will only happen naturally. If it doesnt, again just enjoy each other's bodies. Just because she isn't resembling a water pistol, doesn't mean she isn't enjoying sex."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
Thank you !
Get a new girlfriend. What's the point in having a woman if she won't squirt?"
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It's not a problem.
It might be something you want,it might be something she wants but it's definitely not a problem.
As with many things stop trying and it might happen. It might not but does that matter?
I'm pretty sure there will be someone along soon with an expert guide but be careful some of the methods advised can be quite uncomfortable for the woman and even lead to uti. |
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Relaxing is key. I never knew I could squirt until a couple of years ago and found out when hubby bought me a vibrator called Tracy's Dog of all things! Now I've learnt to squirt literally at the drop of a hat by just using my fingers on my clit and if I use a wand it's explosive! I shake loads but you have to get past that and push through! |
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Never used to squirt or anything till met cuck. Now do it almost every time. Don't try to make it happen, just relax have fun and plenty of foreplay. You don't need to be pissed either, yep drinking water helps just as much. |
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"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort. "
On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV ! |
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"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /
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Thank you : D im new here"
I thought you might be. Welcome |
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"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.
On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV ! "
We were chatting to a guy who said his partner hit the top of the wardrobe  . Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe |
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"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.
On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV ! "
It's mad, I bet it is great fun to watch but I would lose my hard-on thinking about cleaning the mess or lose my desire prepping for it.
My new sofa would be out of bounds for the next 3-5 years. |
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"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /
If you use reply+quote under the post you're replying to we can tell who you're answering
Thank you : D im new here
I thought you might be. Welcome "
So did I. Wink Wink |
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quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?
Think you will find it's nothing really to do with peeing. I have a bladder problem and have to use bags to empty but can quite easily squirt for Britain lol |
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"Reading the thread on what people have to do to stop the house from getting damp, I am not sure it is worth going to all of that effort.
On a thread yesterday someone said his partner squirted on the sofa and it hit the TV !
We were chatting to a guy who said his partner hit the top of the wardrobe . Imagine being all sleepy and happy after sex and having to get up and wipe the top of the damn wardrobe "
Exactly, I wouldn't stop thinking about it. They claim it is involuntary (not refuting that) but surely sex becomes a lot of hassle, no more quickies or nightly sex. Once a week once Amazon has delivered new bedding and two lots of mattress protectors. |
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"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?
What does she want?
Pee
if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"
No I mean what does she want when it comes to squirting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
Thank you ! "
Why is it a problem???
Her body functioning the way it should is never a problem.....
Men thinking that the ability to make every woman squirt as an endgame is a problem
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"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?
What does she want?
Pee
if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"
Try keeping on going when she has that feeling, maybe she will tip over, I'd put a towel under the sheet for the first time though
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure. "
This is all you need to know. |
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"Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
Thank you ! "
I was late 40s before I squirted for the first time. But then was months after, wasn't for lack of trying, maybe to hard hahaha. Doesn't always work either. Forget about it. Not all women squirt. If she does one day then bingo. |
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"here is the problem because She don't like alcohol: /"
They meant water. Drink plenty of water, not alcohol. Nobody is suggesting you get her d*unk to make it happen, they're simply suggesting a healthy fluid intake. |
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As exciting as it is, there is the clean up afterwards and if you are going down on her there is a risk of drowning.
Relax. Sex is meant to be fun. No matter what technique you guys try, if it isn't fun it will not happen. |
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"Its just piss
Well if that's true need to tell scientists and doctors as she can't pee unaided but can squirt perfectly freely, break through in medical science "
Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ? |
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure. "
Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.
It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.
These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners |
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.
Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.
It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.
These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners "
Exactly this, imagine pumping their dick with the same velocity as a bicycle pump while squealing 'start ya bastard' then asking on Fab forum if anyone else has the same 'problem' with their man
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"Why is it so important to you? Why do you see her lack of squirting as a problem?"
That's what I thought. Some girls do, some girls don't. Why does it matter? |
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.
Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.
It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.
These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners
Exactly this, imagine pumping their dick with the same velocity as a bicycle pump while squealing 'start ya bastard' then asking on Fab forum if anyone else has the same 'problem' with their man
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Ha ha - I would never do that I like dominant guys, not ones who let you lead |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Here's my advice.
Get her to drink lots of water then you lay on the floor, she stands astride you and pisses over you.
Same outcome with no stress on her body.
Admittedly it won't be you who makes me piss but you can stick a finger in her vagina as she empties her bladder over you and pretend it was all your doing.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.
Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.
It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.
These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners "
The first time a man did it to me-when it was all new and not widely heard of-I got a uti that turned into a kidney infection that took 6 weeks to clear.
No one has been allowed to do that to me since, as my bladder never recovered.
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone
I am writing to you for advice on female squirt .. I have been having sex with my girlfriend for several months and I can never make her squirt … I tried with a massage many times (point G) but she is not able to continue as soon as she gets the body shivers .. also tried through a vibrator, double penetration and to no avail ..
Does anyone have a same problem?
Thank you ! "
Why do men strive to achieve this, when a majority of women I've spoken to don't give a stuff??
It's like guys see it as some kind of accolade- a badge of honour to brag about. It isn't!!
If your partner is enjoying sex & doesn't need more, why be so obsessed with it?? |
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For a start, you're obsessing over something that will most likely only happen if you don't make it an issue.
Secondly, you say you've been with your girlfriend (who is your number 1) for several months, but your profile says differently. If you do have a girlfriend and she doesn't know you're on here or does know, but doesn't approve, then I think you need to take a look at yourself and your choices. |
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"Several of my female friends have said they roll their eyes when a man is 'determined' to 'make' them do it. DON'T!!! Just let it happen if it's going to - forcing it creates pressure.
Couldn’t agree more - one of my former fwb’s from here used to want to make me squirt continually.
It just made me sore and after one of these occasions I got really bad cystitis that lasted a week.
These men and their egos- I like men to be repeaters but I would never dream of asking them to - just bad sexual manners "
Why didn't you tell him you didn't enjoy the way he was touching you? |
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"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?
What does she want?
Pee
if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P"
She says she wants to pee so the sex will stop? |
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"Its just piss
Well if that's true need to tell scientists and doctors as she can't pee unaided but can squirt perfectly freely, break through in medical science
Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ?"
Honestly no idea as not medically trained but is the honest truth. |
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Where is squirt stored in the body before it is expelled ?
Honestly no idea as not medically trained but is the honest truth. "
I am not doubting you. It was a genuine question if anyone can answer. Where in the body is squirt stored ? |
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"quite often after sex she wants to pee terribly .. maybe ccontinue sex until she "pisses"?
What does she want?
Pee
if the sex lasts more than a few minutes, she always wants pee so hard: P
She says she wants to pee so the sex will stop? "
Yes |
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"Also, if she knows that's what you're trying to do, there's every chance her body is going "hell no" coz it can feel like you're under huge amounts of pressure and failing as a woman when your partner wants your body to do something and it doesn't do it. A mental block can easily ensue."
Absolutely this. |
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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago
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"Can someone please give the definition of squirting as I'm intrigued to know.
A female expelling quantities of clear liquid at orgasm ?"
Thanks. So it's different to peeing? How does the body store it and know what to release. |
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