It's hard to say, as most of us just have our own experience, which isn't particularly representative of people here.
We each are different, because of the passage of time and the lockdowns. Our ages are higher too, which may take some outside of age preferences. Am I less attractive to people now? 
I think there's a lot going on. We got used to staying in, not having as many partners etc. We reevaluated our needs, priorities and more. The site was impacted by the pandemic too - there was perhaps an increase in the skills that many gained, in the deceit of others, to get them to give them wank fodder etc. Probably many of us are more clued up, in spotting chancers etc and we're expert at just dropping contracts who are unlikely to ever be right for us.
There's lots that's been going on. |
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So it's definitely not just myself then,I was beginning to think I was the only one,it's kind of strange to pin point why this is tho,when did it get some hard to find like minded people |
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Whilst it's anecdotal evidence at best, we know several freinds from pre lockdown that are all favouring the clubs and staying off Fab. Much of it to do with the
The amount of single guys on here now and the amount of fake couples accounts they had to deal with over the last year.
That's not a bash on single guys either. We are just really sausage heavy up here (though the whole site is) and some got a bit nefarious and / or nasty about it when lockdown ended so they have just let their accounts idle.
Hopefully the pendulum swings the other way and more couples return to the site (at least for our area) so give it another year I guess.
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"No idea. We only started using this for meets after lockdown.
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Ah, so you're sampling the scraps after lockdown? You missed out on the pre-Covid Smörgåsbord bonanza!  "
Haha yes I must be |
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"No idea. We only started using this for meets after lockdown.
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Ah, so you're sampling the scraps after lockdown? You missed out on the pre-Covid Smörgåsbord bonanza! "
We were late to the party. We were lead to believe clubs were the way forward. Thank goodness the advice has changed on here  |
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"I only joined literally a couple of weeks before lockdown. Are you telling me I missed out on sex on tap because I would not be happy if that was the case  "
Don't belive everything you read on the interwebs |
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I have been on and off again for over 10 years. Each time I come back it seams to have gone down more and more.
When I first joined it was all about swinging. Now it's full of more and more time wasters. X |
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I tend to dance on the edge of reason, having the body of a ballet dancer helps. It is not fab that has changed, as fab is just a reflection of society in a microcosm, it is society itself that has changed.
Patience and respect are lost in the envelope of “we are all special, have needs and deserve attention” whilst ignoring the simple fact that if we all believe ourselves a star, then we must recognise the distance between us.
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