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I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...
So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share!
(And remember everyone is different and that's good and ok and fine) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m probably not one in a great position to comment as I don’t have any on this profile, I has some a few years ago under another though.
Essentially I like it to read as an honest reflection of meeting someone and whether they would meet again. Some, as you say, don’t really read like a real event.
I will back away now and leave the floor open to those more qualified to say! |
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Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).
Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.
On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).
Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.
On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.
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That's interesting and I have noticed the same about contradictions. However I never read too much into them because we all have preferences but in the moment or with a specific person sometimes that can change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t send
Don’t want to get any more messages
Filters set at 98-99"
This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment. |
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This is all v interesting.
What about multi veris?
I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that.
But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they act as a way to show you are who you say you are, you're willing to turn up when a meet is arranged although this doesn't guarantee it happening in the future. I'm happy to say nice things about someone if they're true and I hope someone would do the same with me. If it was a bad experience I'd likely not bother with it at all. |
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"This is all v interesting.
What about multi veris?
I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that.
But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X"
Sometimes, if they haven't met for a while it is useful to have a current verification... just to prove that they're still active.
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"Not that interested in graphic veris (dont bother us, just not interested in them).
Anything that says they are real, sociable and what they claim.in the profile is good enough for us.
On the flip side, have seen numerous veris on people's accounts to that contradict what's written on the profile so they help us filter things out as well.
That's interesting and I have noticed the same about contradictions. However I never read too much into them because we all have preferences but in the moment or with a specific person sometimes that can change. "
Well in our case these where not "heat of the moment" things but rather something that should be mentioned before even arranging a meet. |
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I hate to read "suckable cock" or "I'd like to keep them for myself but..."
Like others have said a verification should tell you they are genuine people and not timewasters.
When verifying others I like to include a bit about thier personality so it gives others an idea on what to expect when they meet them. If they are fun, friendly chatty etc then I'll put that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t write reviews (verifications) for other people. I write them for the person and I.
I’m fine that others will read them.
I like to receive ones that explain how wonderful my cock is, I get lots of mail after they land.
I like to read others that are explicit like a horny college dude wrote it whilst tossing off… *you know the ones.  |
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We do like giving people verification but seems to be now really generic
-till the next time
- hope we gonna meet again
And usually is that it x
We are putting the effort in our messages,meets ect but we find out sometime people can’t be bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications are a mixture of the person(s) giving and the person(s) receiving. So when I read the light porn ones it says more about the verifier than the verified. Unless the verified has chosen to only share a few
(Confused. That's what happens when I talk!)
And I just give my truth. If I spent too much time thinking what to write, I'd end up procrastinating and other -atings.
If ppl don't wanna show them, that's cool. I wouldnt put every picture I painted up on my wall, so wouldn't expect others to be obliged to.
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I don't show any of the veris that go into detail of what happened or was enjoyed.
From the meets and fwbs ive had I've never verified anyone more than once. I don't see the point. I've seen many profiles where they have been verified by the same person or couple a few times which I find a bit odd/unnecessary and on some occasions can seem a bit possessive at times lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A verification is better than no verification! No? "
I think a lot of that depends on how much value you put in verifications. They can be useful however I would meet someone without one. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.
I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well. |
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I used to like to see verifications when I was meeting as part of my safety checks...I know it doesn't guarantee anything, but if several other ladies have had pleasant enough meets with someone to leave nice verifications then I figured that there was less chance of my skin being turned into a lampshade.
Aside from that, those received serve as a pleasant reminder of good meets, and it can be fun to read through old ones. I haven't displayed any for a long time though, I can't be arsed with people starting drama over them  |
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I think for male solo meets they are kind of a measure if trust and authenticity, or thats kind of the general feeling
However, with the huge male to female ratio I'm not sure they always count for that much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.
I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well. "
Where is my reverification?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't reverify someone. Actually that's a lie. I'm going to be because I've spent time with some brilliant people and want to.
I like ones where you can almost hear the person's voice, the genuine enthusiasm and delight they have for another. Personal ones where you can tell they think, yep. Awesome. Witty playful ones make me smile a lot as well.
Where is my reverification? "
I'll write it tomorrow. You know sometimes when you think you're worded out and just want to grunt at folk? I'm about two waffling posts away from that. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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All we're interested in seeing is that they were as portrayed on their profile and pics, turned up and a good time was had by all.
Gory details should be left between the participants, not plastered across veris for public consumption.
As for re-veris ? No problem with that as long as it's relevant and not just lamp post pissing. Otherwise it just looks stalkerish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most put me off, repeat ones from the same people are just a bit too much. We don't need to know everytime you're fucking someone!!
In all honesty, I prefer none.
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Graphic veri’s are a no…we’ll be put off meeting someone if they displayed or wrote graphic veri’s.
Veri’s, for us, are a reminder of a good time with people we connect with.
But like a profile, pics or a message they can be a useful filtering tool too 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?
You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.
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Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.
I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.
A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?
You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.
Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.
I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.
A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...
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Oh these shots. Had to go a-hunting for them.
You're really asking for scab photos aren't you? I'll hook you up don't worry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is all v interesting.
What about multi veris?
I personally only give them out if I've done something substantially different so there's new stuff to veri for. Eg first veri after a group social, second after a private meet. Or a new veri when we do a club visit. Things like that.
But I'm super interested to hear peoples thoughts on verifying each team you meet someone. X"
I think I agree with this. Usually just the one verification will do. I don't really mind the content of the verifications as much as it's just how they viewed the experience even if they are graphic. Not everyone is only meeting up for a cup of tea and a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait, you guys are getting verifications?
You wanting one as well then? Finished with the gumming so have a bit of spare time.
Honestly, I'm not so sure that's a good idea.
I have a reputation I want to maintain and the 65 in my username is trouble enough causing people to think I'm over the hill.
A verification from you, will literally be the kiss of death...
Oh these shots. Had to go a-hunting for them.
You're really asking for scab photos aren't you? I'll hook you up don't worry."
Perfect date already planned, we'll attend a special FX workshop mimicking simple wounds and injuries for film and television.
Just let me know when you are going to ask how to make "those" special ones, I want to savour their disgust, then the subsequent removal from said workshop.
To celebrate, carbonara, milkshakes and vanilla ice cream. No napkins. DIY it. |
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By *_Mr.K_xMan
over a year ago
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Just the honesty of it really... no need to kiss and tell and go into graphic detail but leaves some to the imagination whilst highlighting a true reflection on confirming they're real, genuine and whether we'd want to see each other again etc |
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Not a fan of graphic ones, keep that between yourself.
Something along the lines of Great backing up the profile, looks, attitude etc
They certainly help to inform or build a picture if that person(s)… |
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"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...
So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share! "
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I always draft my verification offline and then send it via Private Message to the recipient for peer-review and approval.
Then I'll formally do it via their profile.
I know my method sounds somewhat 'banal' but it works for me. |
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"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun"
Yes agreed on repeat veris. Also like veris that talk about personality more than the graphic sex details like an Olympic commentary. Key works like respectful, considerate, reliable, etc. And veris from some people are worth more than others.
.....just been checking ours to see how we stack up after reading this thread |
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"I like repeat veris.. I like light and fun
Yes agreed on repeat veris. Also like veris that talk about personality more than the graphic sex details like an Olympic commentary. Key works like respectful, considerate, reliable, etc. And veris from some people are worth more than others.
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Agree with the above. I (Mr) like to see recent Meet veris when arranging a meet. key words, repeated by several meets are a great indication. I look more so for recent verifications. Ones from 5 years ago are irrelevant in my opinion. I am a different person to me 5 years ago, so I assume everyone and their circumstances could have changed too. To me, a recent few meet veris tell me they will likely turn up. Although this is not a guarantee. Webcam veris mean nothing to us as they don’t show the person actually gets up, gets ready and makes an effort to meet. |
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I just like to tell some pleasant little story about how the meet went, maybe something amusing that happened, or how they were lovely people. I never write anything explicit, I prefer to keep those type of details as a private matter. Essentially I see verifications just as being a way of telling that somebody is real, and that IMHO the experience of meeting them was good. And if I can't find something positive to say, then I don't say anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see a few as my theory is a few veris means they do actually meet, they are probably not a serial killer I don’t like to see graphic veris, or multi veris that sound possessive. Those are off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And contradictory to my above comment, I don’t show mine I find showing mine has just brought me grief also feels like I’m being reviewed like a product. I know makes no sense when I like to see other peoples |
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I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't.
I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.
Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. |
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On our couples account we’ve had some from people we’ve not spoken too at a club that make it sound like we’ve played with them. It’s a good thing you can choose whether you show them!
I personally love them. Especially ones that reflect the verifier and the verified’s personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents
Who gives a flying about veris anyway
Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't.
I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.
Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. "
What makes someone "genuine"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well what can I say…
She’s a genuine professional
I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!  "
The self promotion ones make me laugh.
Gave her 37 orgasms, made her squirt like Niagara Falls, she loved my 14" rock hard cock! |
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"Well what can I say…
She’s a genuine professional
I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains!
The self promotion ones make me laugh.
Gave her 37 orgasms, made her squirt like Niagara Falls, she loved my 14" rock hard cock! "
Some people just like blowing their own trumpet...no one else will.... |
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The ones that are displayed are social meets and even the hidden, naked social meets only confirm that I lie there and think of England
As long as they’re light hearted and not too graphic, it’s enough. I need to write some after the weekend - tricky remembering after 35 shots of sambuca  |
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Having got 1 or 3 veris  we feel in a good place to answer this. Too many veris, can put people off. They judge you as a walking sti time bomb.
We don't like grahic veris. If you want to know, you should of been there! We've been lucky and all but 1 of ours given is non graphic. We don't give graphic in return.
We don't like seeing repeate once a month or week veris from same people, veriy-ing each other. Feels like your interupt a relqtionship.
However, If its been a good while, and we've re meet someone, we will give a fresh veri.
Ones where they say, treat them with respect, or they won't bite, unles you ask. Hate those!
Accounts that are couples, and have a veri a few years old. And suddenly become active. Are they the male half reactivating the account after a break up? |
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I like to give veris to show people they are real and a bit about that person.. if they really good I tend to say I want to keep them and not share... but that's just me.. lol..
I like to read people's too,to make sure they not timewasters..I've given too many "newbies" chances and they've messed up for themselves (we was all new here once).
And if I do repeat a veri to the same person,its usually because we've done something different  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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Not keen on overtly sexual ones, funny ones I love, and general yes they're what they say on the tin ones.
Repeat veris everytime meeting the same person, saying the same thing pretty much do baffle me, and I'm on the fence about  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Not keen on overtly sexual ones, funny ones I love, and general yes they're what they say on the tin ones.
Repeat veris everytime meeting the same person, saying the same thing pretty much do baffle me, and I'm on the fence about "
I remember a few years ago there was a single fem on here who had about 30 verifications ....all from the same guy none from anyone else lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one…."
Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal
Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t send
Don’t want to get any more messages
Filters set at 98-99
This is Fab, not a radio station. No need to broadcast your inability to find willing partners on a status, your bio and now a forum comment."
filters have been changed, maybe he's waiting for messages |
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"I don't mind veri's but I do have a go to rule. If it's a social and no play then I state social only. It's very easy for some people to make it sound like play has taken place when it actually hasn't.
I normally mention if the person/people is/are chatty, laid back etc. I try not to be explicit.
Verifying if they are genuine or at least appear genuine is what I try to convey. "
Oh yes the hidden social veri is really annoying. You can kind of tell but much better if stated explicitly and we always do for others. Some people have got 30-40 veris especially from a club but have barely played with anyone else - not clear from veris but it is when you message. That is fine and up to them of course but it is a bit misleading for those of us that are more play focused. |
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"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents
Who gives a flying about veris anyway
Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site "
Don't think you are doing yourself any favours with the negative attitude. In answer to "who gives a flying....".....well clearly lots of people posting on this thread. |
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"A verification should verify the person on the profile not be the list of the meeter’s (if that a word) different sexual prowess "
There is something in between. Don't want a graphic run down of every detail but looking for more than just an ID check and this includes some sexual aspects. For example if a lady says that bi-curious was there a hint that she played with the other lady (as many don't really). If they went to a party did they join in and play with others or just socialise etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been notified that sometimes veris go out and people don't like them, or they're full of fab niceties that render them almost useless...
So. What, for you, makes a good veri? What do you like to put in ones you send? What are things you look for when you read veris on a new person's profile? Let's share!
(And remember everyone is different and that's good and ok and fine)"
We just like people to have verifications just so we no they have met people in real life as so many fakes on here |
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"Let’s face it on hear it’s all load bullshit learnt the hard way last night so many Nasty vicious lady’s and gents
Who gives a flying about veris anyway
Don’t wish to state the obvious hear it’s sex site "
Good morning to you too! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I go through phases with Veri’s. Sometimes I hide them to avoid people doing the veri trail, other times I take active pleasure in sharing them.
The intent of verifications is to prove that a person is real and to share a bit of your experience so others can get an idea of who you’re meeting. In that vein, I like them, especially the smart or funny ones.
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I like repeat verifications. For me it shows that the first “nice guy/couple, had a laugh” type veri was genuine, and actually the person was nice/reliable enough to want to meet again.
I like repeat meets so it shows me that the person saying they do actually does (obvs no guarantee it would click the same, but does show an interest in it). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An honest one in my opinion.
Not divulging to much detail as being a gentleman and being respectful costs nothing.
Yet it seems that some feel it costs the earth sadly. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Something that shows they actually know that person - beyond fucking them or saying hello in a club. Love reading what others say about people when they actually know them.
I wont display or write anything sex related but I get that some people like all that and I’ve no issue if people write that about me it’s actually nice to read , but it stays private for me. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"I really like the silly ones. Where people obviously have some fondness for each other. Not necessarily sexual. Just a little silly and they clearly like the person. "
This! And nice ones that show a persons personality too. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one….
Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal
Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling
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Humiliation type kink perhaps?
Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one….
Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal
Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling
Humiliation type kink perhaps?
Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a DYSON "
Stupid spell check  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one….
Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal
Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling
Humiliation type kink perhaps?
Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain "
I want to suck like a stain. Sounds more visceral than a Dyson, Dyson is overrated anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the ones where I’m told to treat her with respect.
Or her house is clean because her Dyson sucks well.
Oh so you not treat women with respect?"
Do respectful people need to be reminded to behave as such? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a bad one….
Oh yes sometimes I read some and I wonder how on earth they thought it was okay to display. Like: his cock is lacking girth but it is good for anal
Her excess of weight makes her the perfect partner for cuddling
Humiliation type kink perhaps?
Though I’d proudly display one that said I sucked like a stain
I want to suck like a stain. Sounds more visceral than a Dyson, Dyson is overrated anyway."
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"I think they’re more useful for single men.
Not sure women need them at all really.
They do for us for much the same reason as the men. "
Exactly, given the number of males posing as single females ob Fab it's vital that any single females we consider to have a decent, genuine verification trail.
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Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.
If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.
Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.
Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
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Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.
If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.
Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.
Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
KJ"
Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment |
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Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
KJ"
That’s so important.
There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified…
Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners. |
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"l
Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
KJ
That’s so important.
There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified…
Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners. "
Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc.
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Just to add cam only veris are not for us to often we have found the fantasisits, dreamers and those into online only have these. For us we want real life meets and experiences.
If there's a mix of cam and face to face meet veris then that's fine as it's clear that they explore and act on thier fantasies in the real world.
Ultimately thought verifications are only as good as the veri trail.
Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
KJ
Yep that is all good advice. Just checked and like your veris although after reading comments above did find one "treat them with respect" comment "
LOL its impossible not to end up with at least 1 treat them with respect veri |
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"Well what can I say…
She’s a genuine professional
I don’t like to give too much away, but we screwed for 45hours then a spunked on her curtains! "
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I gain more when I read the veris written by someone than their subject.
Also learn a lot by seeing the veris that peeps are happy to publish. I have previously unhotlisted someone because of something they published. No judgement, just not my type of thing. |
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Always check for closed loops I.e 4 accounts all verifying each other other only = huge red flag.
Every person who has verified the account your looking at should have thier own set of different independent veris from seperate / different users. If they include veris from clubs and party hosts even better.
KJ
That’s so important.
There was one guy from a couple who did and said all the right things, but something just bugged me. Went diving around the verifications trail and discovered that he had one webcam veri from someone well verified…
Then his couples profile, singles profile, the supposed females profile, a second couples profile and that female profile all had roundabout veris. Clearly the webcam veri had been the catalyst to allow him to repeatedly verify himself and his multiple made-up partners.
Exactly there really should be a guide on this somewhere on the site. It would save a lot of people been messed about, been played, stood up etc.
KJ "
Fab isn't a baby sitting service. If people believe that verifications 'prove' anything, it's on them. |
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.
Good to go. "
Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?
Leave me with a memento  |
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.
Good to go.
Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?
Leave me with a memento "
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"All I need to know is that she gets wetter than an otters pocket, loves the D, and fancies my cock snot blasted all over her bazingas.
Good to go.
Will you then wipe your cock on my curtains…?
Leave me with a memento
Naturally "
When did you say you were available again? |
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