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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
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How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
Look inwardly |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly "
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting? |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
You're not alone, its seems its becoming an endemic part of this (and other sites) lately |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting? "
Why not |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not"
if the issue was me, would we have got to the point of fixing up a meet, a little common sense please. |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
Welcome to my world! |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
They weren't interested in the first place they where just wasting your time brush it off and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I very much doubt it had anything to do with you. Maybe something in their personal life or even being recognised from someone they know. There’s an endless list of reasons people leave. It’s not nice when it happens but it’s best just to move on and not give it too much thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust me it's far worse when people you've known for ages suddenly keep cancelling on you. I've no idea if it's genuine or they just aren't that interested. Sometimes I wish I was a mind reader.  |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not if the issue was me, would we have got to the point of fixing up a meet, a little common sense please."
Haven't you posted recently about no shows and cancellations or ghosting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
People change their mind. Some people are just on here for validation or for boredom then when faced with meeting they bottle it. |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not if the issue was me, would we have got to the point of fixing up a meet, a little common sense please."
Are you certain |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not if the issue was me, would we have got to the point of fixing up a meet, a little common sense please.
Haven't you posted recently about no shows and cancellations or ghosting?"
hence why I think I am jinxed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly I think it's a human issue many people have atm. The world's on fire and nervous systems are triggered to a greater or lesser extent. Behaviour is on the wonk. If it helps, I keep stressing that I want a regular arrangement with no pressures. So far 3 guys have fucked and ghosted me, having chatted considerably, got on well....
I've given up all hope for the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not"
The only way the messages would disappear is if the person has removed their account from fab. This is very unlikely somebody would have just taken their are count away because they didn't want to meet this guy. |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not"
Also I think it's pretty shoddy to blame someone and say it's their fault when you have very little information. |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment"
It happens to us couples too |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
Look inwardly
No I actually doubt that it’s something to do with him, if that’s what you’re suggesting?
Why not if the issue was me, would we have got to the point of fixing up a meet, a little common sense please.
Haven't you posted recently about no shows and cancellations or ghosting? hence why I think I am jinxed"
Or maybe you just need to rethink how you go about things |
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"How annoying is it when you have been chatting with someone for a while, things are going really well to the point of fixing up a meet, then suddenly puuufff their messages vanish and they have done a runner.
Seems to be happening to me quite a bit at the moment
It happens to us couples too "
It happens to most of us to be honest. |
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