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over a year ago
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"to meet new and different people regularly or find a person/couple that they are compatible with and stick with them ?"
Personally - a bit of both!
I don't have a rule about how often/regularly I see people. But I do a balance between enjoying new company and repeat meets with those I've had good times with before.  |
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We have only met one couple that we met a second time and it was so much better 2nd time round, no nerves just got in there and had some fun.
Trouble is finding a couple that you ate both compatible with, with all the rest of the meets we have always had a problem for some reason with one of us, might be something small (no pun intended) but it is hard (still no pun intended)
We would love to meet a couple we where we were all compatible and meet them again and again  |
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i think a god balance of both. Repeat meets are great as you feel more comfortable with them and get to learn what works between you both, but new meets have an element of excitement and sadly sometimes disappointment 
i never had a limit on the amount of times i would meet someone, as long as i was enjoying it i met them. |
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I would prefer regular meets tbh, it gets better the more you see each other, knowing what buttons to press, but in order to find that regular friend you need to meet different people, so best of both really  |
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"dont u think the sex just gets better and better with regular guys though ?? "
Oh yes
We much prefer regular playmates as things just get better and better.
Yes it can be fun to meet someone new but I find it do much more relaxing 2nd meet and you get to know what really turns them on and them you  |
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We have have couple that we see regularly, have been seeing them for more than 3 years.
But we make sure we don't see them 2 meets in a row, we always make sure we see someone in between.
Regular is good as you get to know what each other likes, you can have a good time before the fun begins and you all feel comfortable around each other.
One nighters are good as the nerves are part of the overall excitement and you get to try new things with new people.
We like both to be honest. |
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"to meet new and different people regularly or find a person/couple that they are compatible with and stick with them ?"
We like to meet people regularly but also like to meet new people as older ones drift away. I think the reason we got into swinging was variety so new people are always to have lots of fun with. |
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