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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You post photos too? Does that mean you're desperate for attention?
It's not friends, it's getting added to hotlists. And that happens when you produce consistent, regular photos that appeal to your audience. |
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"You post photos too? Does that mean you're desperate for attention?
It's not friends, it's getting added to hotlists. And that happens when you produce consistent, regular photos that appeal to your audience. "
No it definitely is friends, I’ve seen a couple of them (although I think one of the serial ones has now left) actively seeking friend requests to appear first in peoples updates and thus get more fabs on their pics. Entirely up to them what they do of course but it gets a bit boring when it’s the same few people at the top of the list constantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You post photos too? Does that mean you're desperate for attention?
It's not friends, it's getting added to hotlists. And that happens when you produce consistent, regular photos that appeal to your audience.
No it definitely is friends, I’ve seen a couple of them (although I think one of the serial ones has now left) actively seeking friend requests to appear first in peoples updates and thus get more fabs on their pics. Entirely up to them what they do of course but it gets a bit boring when it’s the same few people at the top of the list constantly"
I've never come across anyone who has done that but having people add you to your hotlist accomplishes the same thing and protects your friends list. If you find it boring - could just not look for a few weeks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people must have a ridiculous amount of 'friends' to constantly get themselves to the number 1 fab pics list. Just saying..."
It's one aspect of the site that is popular and some value, where as others don't particularly care for it.
Either is cool, we can all seek to hit page one or to avoid it.
Some do it for attention, others because they like to exhibit themselves.
Though we don't aim for page one, Mrs A enjoys the fabs because it gives her an idea on how many people have seen her exposed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares , let them do fab the way they want I haven't 100s of friends and have made Irish hot pics a few times.
I check hot pics daily and if I like a pic I fab it, not because of you the pic is off its because I like the pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fab photos of men and women either to simply show my admiration of their attractiveness, or because it was an inspiring photo. They are very rarely any of my 'few' fab friends, and even less likely that I know any of them. It's just a form of appreciation in my view |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people must have a ridiculous amount of 'friends' to constantly get themselves to the number 1 fab pics list. Just saying..."
You have some great pictures, you could make it to page one if you play the same game.
It might feel unfair, but it's an option open to all. |
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"You post photos too? Does that mean you're desperate for attention?
It's not friends, it's getting added to hotlists. And that happens when you produce consistent, regular photos that appeal to your audience.
No it definitely is friends, I’ve seen a couple of them (although I think one of the serial ones has now left) actively seeking friend requests to appear first in peoples updates and thus get more fabs on their pics. Entirely up to them what they do of course but it gets a bit boring when it’s the same few people at the top of the list constantly
I've never come across anyone who has done that but having people add you to your hotlist accomplishes the same thing and protects your friends list. If you find it boring - could just not look for a few weeks? "
I could, but it’ll be the same people at the top in a few weeks. Like I said, each to their own, I’m merely sharing that I have noticed what the OP is talking about and have seen these people actively encouraging friend requests from random to serve this very purpose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You post photos too? Does that mean you're desperate for attention?
It's not friends, it's getting added to hotlists. And that happens when you produce consistent, regular photos that appeal to your audience.
No it definitely is friends, I’ve seen a couple of them (although I think one of the serial ones has now left) actively seeking friend requests to appear first in peoples updates and thus get more fabs on their pics. Entirely up to them what they do of course but it gets a bit boring when it’s the same few people at the top of the list constantly
I've never come across anyone who has done that but having people add you to your hotlist accomplishes the same thing and protects your friends list. If you find it boring - could just not look for a few weeks?
I could, but it’ll be the same people at the top in a few weeks. Like I said, each to their own, I’m merely sharing that I have noticed what the OP is talking about and have seen these people actively encouraging friend requests from random to serve this very purpose "
I guess they're just playing the game. It's not for me. I know what I could do to ensure I get more fabs. I just can't be arsed. |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Some people must have a ridiculous amount of 'friends' to constantly get themselves to the number 1 fab pics list. Just saying...
You have some great pictures, you could make it to page one if you play the same game.
It might feel unfair, but it's an option open to all."
Thank you … it was simply an observation for discussion |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?"
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My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there |
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there "
Very few friends on most friends lists here are 'genuine' friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there
Very few friends on most friends lists here are 'genuine' friends. "
Pretty broad claim. I'm damn fussy about who is on my friends list. |
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there
Very few friends on most friends lists here are 'genuine' friends.
Pretty broad claim. I'm damn fussy about who is on my friends list."
Me too. I don’t add friends unless I’ve met them (apart from the odd one or two). As for pics I’ll send them privately if I want to send any. I don’t particularly want the whole of fab seeing me half naked. |
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there "
Current hot pic has over 3500 fabs. I'm sure if even just half of them at 1750, anyone would know nearly all arnt genuine.
You got into the hot pics? Was that mostly because you had lots of friends or because men went crazy for a good pic? Also don't have to be friends for your pics to show on someone's feed if your on their hot list. |
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there
Very few friends on most friends lists here are 'genuine' friends.
Pretty broad claim. I'm damn fussy about who is on my friends list."
That's why I said few and most....not all. It wasn't personal. |
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I was on page one once, had one boob out
- didn’t have vag showing or a yeast infection as someone said above
- don’t have a huge friends list
- didn’t beg for fabs
But who cares what people post and if it gets on page 1?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes. |
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes."
there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol "
I think if you have a wank over my photos the fab button magically appears! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol "
You, erm made me look too.
It seems the option to fab pictures is switched to off |
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol
I think if you have a wank over my photos the fab button magically appears! "
I'll have a go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol
I think if you have a wank over my photos the fab button magically appears! I'll have a go "
Don't believe it, it simply isn't true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol
I think if you have a wank over my photos the fab button magically appears! I'll have a go
Don't believe it, it simply isn't true "
It is true trust me I am an expert and in no way desperate for attention |
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"I have added 76029 people from Fab (all men with dicks) and I can't get a single Fab on any of my photos.
It's not about friends. It's about having sex appeal and pink holes.there's no fab button next to your pictures...I've erm ...looked lol
I think if you have a wank over my photos the fab button magically appears! I'll have a go
Don't believe it, it simply isn't true "
nggggg ..phew....you're right lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people must have a ridiculous amount of 'friends' to constantly get themselves to the number 1 fab pics list. Just saying..."
I dont bother looking anymore, same set of tits and badly packed kebabs every week |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Some people must have a ridiculous amount of 'friends' to constantly get themselves to the number 1 fab pics list. Just saying..."
If all people want is adoration and admiration for their photos then they'd get a much bigger audience on twatter!
And you don't have to add pretend friends either.
If they want to spend all their waking hours on here doing the same then let them. It doesn't affect the activities of anyone else.
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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"More sounds you desperate to be page 1 on hot pics? I can't think of any other reason to get this annoyed about it?.
My partner posted this … I’ve been number 1 very unexpectedly in pink pants .. merely a post for discussion … if you have lots of friends maybe discounts the genuine ones … no arguments intended just throwing a discussion out there
Current hot pic has over 3500 fabs. I'm sure if even just half of them at 1750, anyone would know nearly all arnt genuine.
You got into the hot pics? Was that mostly because you had lots of friends or because men went crazy for a good pic? Also don't have to be friends for your pics to show on someone's feed if your on their hot list. "
To this day I have no idea how I got there in honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be friends, could live in a densely populated area that hits more traffic on the local updates.
They could be more active on the forums, socials or scene and have more profile.
Might be they're just better looking or take better pictures.
Does any of it matter, nah, not really. It just comes across a little butt hurt it isn't you on the regular.
But hey, passive aggressive swiping under the guise of conversation right. Lulz. |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
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This is nothing about jealousy or having a go. Just seems to be an increasing number of people asking for fabs. Fab it to fuck it, fab it to lick it, fab it to be a friend etc. Just seems less spontaneous? Its nice when a picture is number one just because its a really hot picture and not because its been fabbed by thousands of 'friends' that the poster has no intention of ever chatting to or meeting.( Male half of couple here accepting all responsibility for resulting backlash!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is nothing about jealousy or having a go. Just seems to be an increasing number of people asking for fabs. Fab it to fuck it, fab it to lick it, fab it to be a friend etc. Just seems less spontaneous? Its nice when a picture is number one just because its a really hot picture and not because its been fabbed by thousands of 'friends' that the poster has no intention of ever chatting to or meeting.( Male half of couple here accepting all responsibility for resulting backlash!)"
Why do you presume everyone that's fabbed it is a friend?
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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There was a beautiful picture posted not long ago of a woman that had had a mastectomy, it reached the top spot and she never asked for it to be fabbed. Sometimes a great picture is given the recognition it deserves |
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"There was a beautiful picture posted not long ago of a woman that had had a mastectomy, it reached the top spot and she never asked for it to be fabbed. Sometimes a great picture is given the recognition it deserves"
That was an amazing picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hot pics we all know it's fixed seen some amazing sexy pics on here but they don't get anywhere  "
That doesn’t mean it’s fixed just that others have different tastes to you! |
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"This is nothing about jealousy or having a go. Just seems to be an increasing number of people asking for fabs. Fab it to fuck it, fab it to lick it, fab it to be a friend etc. Just seems less spontaneous? Its nice when a picture is number one just because its a really hot picture and not because its been fabbed by thousands of 'friends' that the poster has no intention of ever chatting to or meeting.( Male half of couple here accepting all responsibility for resulting backlash!)"
It's probably the OP title, saying they're desperate for attention. It sounds like you're making assumptions or that it is a bad thing. The majority of us attention seek in one way or another, else we'd switch off the fab button on our photos or not post stuff on the forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does it matter? It's not doing anyone any harm. Hopefully, they're not needing to be high up on the fabs to feel good about themselves, but if they are, that's for them to deal with.
Live and let live |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And……aren’t we all attention seekers here?
Otherwise, how would you meet people?
Exactly. This is supposed to be non judgemental…. Save that crap for the Muggle World.
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And yet here you are judging non swingers and calling them names..... |
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"And……aren’t we all attention seekers here?
Otherwise, how would you meet people?
Exactly. This is supposed to be non judgemental…. Save that crap for the Muggle World.
And yet here you are judging non swingers and calling them names..... "
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Yep…. You have got me there… guilty.
What I should probably have said that this is no arena for judgement….. just for lovely kinky fuckery ……….whatever form it may take |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hot pics we all know it's fixed seen some amazing sexy pics on here but they don't get anywhere "
It's not fixed.
Some play the game well.
Add many friends, maybe post a 'fab if' picture to make it on page one the first time, post statuses, pictures and videos regularly.
Join in the forums and/or chat rooms.
And if that's for them, that's cool, we all can play the game if it matters though to us.
Of course there are other aspects to this, great pictures/videos for an example. |
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"Hot pics we all know it's fixed seen some amazing sexy pics on here but they don't get anywhere
It's not fixed.
Some play the game well.
Add many friends, maybe post a 'fab if' picture to make it on page one the first time, post statuses, pictures and videos regularly.
Join in the forums and/or chat rooms.
And if that's for them, that's cool, we all can play the game if it matters though to us.
Of course there are other aspects to this, great pictures/videos for an example."
ok if you say so but we are entitled to our own opinion and that's mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hot pics we all know it's fixed seen some amazing sexy pics on here but they don't get anywhere
It's not fixed.
Some play the game well.
Add many friends, maybe post a 'fab if' picture to make it on page one the first time, post statuses, pictures and videos regularly.
Join in the forums and/or chat rooms.
And if that's for them, that's cool, we all can play the game if it matters though to us.
Of course there are other aspects to this, great pictures/videos for an example. ok if you say so but we are entitled to our own opinion and that's mine"
How is it fixed? |
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"I’m more disappointed that my depth gauge has never made page 1"
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That's because it's in monotonous monochrome. Glorious technicolour is now back en vogue to make photographs to hit No¹.
Personally, I prefer monochrome. You and I have clåss.  |
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