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Bad days suck, how do you cope with them.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Put on some upbeat music, watch Ron coms, go for a walk, talk to my dogs, talk to myself, have a hot bath, go on a cleaning frenzy.
Anything to take your mind off things for a bit.
Take things one step at a time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put on some upbeat music (always). Think positive.
Maybe play a little bit of guitar. Surf Fab
(Not necessarily in that order - fab is rather addictive). |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you
Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you
Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it"
I actually know where you're coming from, I would of put up with anything to still be with my kid everyday but thats not for the best for anyone. 2 happy parents that are apart is better for them than unhappy ones that stay together |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you
Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it
I actually know where you're coming from, I would of put up with anything to still be with my kid everyday but thats not for the best for anyone. 2 happy parents that are apart is better for them than unhappy ones that stay together "
Cheers, the problem is she refuses to sell the house, and I can’t afford to pay rent, mortgage, bills etc for two places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone, love to see support of strangers ???? Honestly thank you
Unfortunately not that easy, just working out that myself and my kids have been mentally abused for the last 5+ years. I am stunned that I let it happen., I saw it but didn’t see it
I actually know where you're coming from, I would of put up with anything to still be with my kid everyday but thats not for the best for anyone. 2 happy parents that are apart is better for them than unhappy ones that stay together
Cheers, the problem is she refuses to sell the house, and I can’t afford to pay rent, mortgage, bills etc for two places"
I feel your pain.. my husband was deployed she cheated . I was there for him. The courts chose her and we have both children from his previous marriage living with us. Yet he has to pay alimony. |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
"Speak to the citizens advice bureau, they'll point you in the right direction and tell you what you can do. "
Already have, and hired a lawyer as well, waste of money. Sorry, didn’t mean to bring tone down |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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I try to laugh or see the funny side or find something that amuses me. Turning awkward things into humour gets me through the day.
At the moment boy do I need to see the funny side of things...
Failing that listening to "The All American Rejects" track "Move Along." The lyrics really speak to you? Well, they do for me....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a day today, so I bought myself an entire cherry pie and a tin of custard which I will consume over the next 2-3 days because I do have 'some' self control.
Hot cherry pie and custard, a cup of tea and familiar nonsense on the TV while playing mindless games on my phone has improved my evening. |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
"My meds normally help but today’s been a bad day so probably won’t sleep tonight "
Me too, I take citalopram, but I have had a sudden realisation that I’m an arse, dunno if that’s would have made i difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.
Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.
Excercise too big help for me too.
Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past. |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
"Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.
Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.
Excercise too big help for me too.
Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past. "
My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering |
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By *otdave75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chandlers Ford |
"Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.
Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.
Excercise too big help for me too.
Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past.
My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering"
Mouse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a breakdown couple of years back found it very hard to get back to where I wanted to be. Better now and I can tell if I’m feeling low and keeping busy helps me. We have a dog now long walks and just being with him is fantastic coz dogs don’t dwell on anything.
Also recently got large shed which is my workshop and I can spend hours in there making bits.
Excercise too big help for me too.
Life can be hard try to look forward as no one can change the past.
My dog walks keep me sane, he is honestly my life line. I.m building onto my mouse at the moment, gonna take ages, but keeps me busy when my min goes wondering
Mouse "
I hear those mouse extensions can be a headache |
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