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"Who else sees a red flag when people have no profile pic? Its obvious why we are all here so why the secrecy?"
I'm going with, it's their profile, they can run it how they please as long as it complies with site rules.
Why people think this is an immediate red flag is beyond me.
*shrugs
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs 
I said what I said.  or we don’t want our other half to find out  "
It's amazing how many people I recognise from torsos and various other body parts. |
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out "
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys |
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys"
Ah I do loves a 'genuine' guy... |
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys
Ah I do loves a 'genuine' guy..."
For want of a better word, genuine is the go to |
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Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys
Ah I do loves a 'genuine' guy..."
I’m not like the other guys  |
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys
Ah I do loves a 'genuine' guy...
For want of a better word, genuine is the go to "
Tbf it's a lot easier to type than "guys who, despite the evidence, believe they're somehow unique and therefore better than a significant proportion of other men"
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
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I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it |
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys"
I’m genuine |
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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago
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It's upto the individual if they want to put pictures on or not, but I never answer anyone who hasn't got a picture.
I don't expect face pictures, I don't put them on here myself, but at least something.
Do find it annoying when people say "I can't put pictures on cause of my job".
If that's the case then don't put a picture of your face on here or someone from work sees your face picture then ask them why were they on here n do they want a meet. |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it"
Whilst I don't agree with your "it just shows" theory, I still see no need for blank profiles. We do not show faces, or backgrounds that are easily recognisable to others. We have reasons which, to us, are very valid for this. However, any photo of any part of your body is better than none at all.
We do tend to be wary of those with not only no profile pic, but more so, "will fill in later" bios. |
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"So us silhouettes are making it hard for “genuine guys”? Maybe look at yourselves before blaming us "
The hidden heroes are 99% of the crotch rot that causes women to be so standoff ish. If you cant see that then you are part of the problem. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
And thats the problem with 'men' online. Shit like that makes life difficult for genuine guys"
No it doesn't make it difficult for other men,what is more off putting is the self proclaimed genuine men putting others down in order to try and make themselves look better. |
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"So us silhouettes are making it hard for “genuine guys”? Maybe look at yourselves before blaming us
The hidden heroes are 99% of the crotch rot that causes women to be so standoff ish. If you cant see that then you are part of the problem. "
or maybe blokes that whinge about others because they aren’t successful on fab are part of the problem |
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"So us silhouettes are making it hard for “genuine guys”? Maybe look at yourselves before blaming us
The hidden heroes are 99% of the crotch rot that causes women to be so standoff ish. If you cant see that then you are part of the problem. or maybe blokes that whinge about others because they aren’t successful on fab are part of the problem "
Im doing just fine thanks, as i dont hide anything its there to see as plain as day |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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As for blank profiles being blank or a red flag. Nah I don't care what people put on their own profile the only thing a blank profile does is make it harder for them to get chatting to others or meets. I ignore messages that cheat through my filters if they have blank profile it doesn't mean I think they are fake or cheating I just think they couldn't be arsed making any effort. |
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Instant delete from me if they won’t share pics.
As has been said usually means :
Cheating
Fake
Fantasist with no intention of actually meeting
Unattractive (at least in their own opinion but often actually too)
If they’re only wanting to be in the forums fine hide the profile and don’t message people
Otherwise? You’re messing people about and that’s not on I think. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Utterly individual choice! But wink's and messages from profiles with absolutely none or indiscernible pics.. Our choice to ignore.. We have families, friends and colleagues that we'd prefer we're unaware, but we have pictures we feel are explicit enough whilst we feel not revealing our identity.. |
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"Who else sees a red flag when people have no profile pic? Its obvious why we are all here so why the secrecy?"
If you can't see why some people choose discretion/secrecy, or to run their profiles their way, that's down to you.
Personally, people who make snap judgements or are intolerant of others choices, people who want everyone else to run their profiles by their own rules are huge red flags for us.
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs "
Profile pic doesn't need to be face. It can be anything that says something about you. Also helps with messages and chats. Would be a right mess if nobody had a profile pic. |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
Whilst I don't agree with your "it just shows" theory, I still see no need for blank profiles. We do not show faces, or backgrounds that are easily recognisable to others. We have reasons which, to us, are very valid for this. However, any photo of any part of your body is better than none at all.
We do tend to be wary of those with not only no profile pic, but more so, "will fill in later" bios. "
"It just shows" is correct for us and what we are looking for on the site. We are into the social side of things, making friends for repeat meets and what have you. We prefer something regular. If someone is wary about showing us their faces then they're not serious about what we want from all of this.
You guys on the other hand are into different things so I can see why it wouldn't be applicable to you.
So not really a case of it being a right or wrong theory, it's just simply a case of reality for us. Different strokes for different folks kinda thing. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it"
You don't have to 'get it'.
You just have to respect people's choices. Bully for you that you're happy putting your face out there. Those that don't do so for many reasons. Work. Not wanting their kids teased at school because some teenage lad set up a profile for a giggle and recognised them. Not wanting their families to know because it's none of their business. Hundreds of reasons other than that they're cheating on a partner, a dreamer or a timewaster.
I'm often more worried about people happy to put their faces out there because if they have no concern for discretion in their own life how much will they have for others?
Having a face photo as your profile pic doesn't make you any more 'genuine' than anyone else.
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"Who else sees a red flag when people have no profile pic? Its obvious why we are all here so why the secrecy?
If you can't see why some people choose discretion/secrecy, or to run their profiles their way, that's down to you.
Personally, people who make snap judgements or are intolerant of others choices, people who want everyone else to run their profiles by their own rules are huge red flags for us.
Winston"
In our case it not a snap judgment but born of many years of experience. People with no profile pics (and don't mean a face pic) are generally not that serious about meeting anyone and will mess you around. In the sea of Fab opportunities need some filters to make judgements on as would be here all day every chatting otherwise. Ditto couples that are not Fab verified. If too lazy to do that (or unable because one partner is not willing) then chances of meeting and having a good time are much reduced. Had one this week been saying for days that they will do it today and never do. |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
You don't have to 'get it'.
You just have to respect people's choices. Bully for you that you're happy putting your face out there. Those that don't do so for many reasons. Work. Not wanting their kids teased at school because some teenage lad set up a profile for a giggle and recognised them. Not wanting their families to know because it's none of their business. Hundreds of reasons other than that they're cheating on a partner, a dreamer or a timewaster.
I'm often more worried about people happy to put their faces out there because if they have no concern for discretion in their own life how much will they have for others?
Having a face photo as your profile pic doesn't make you any more 'genuine' than anyone else.
A"
This. ^^^
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"People without profile pics are fakes usually. Or they’re ugly. or our jobs
I said what I said. or we don’t want our other half to find out
It's amazing how many people I recognise from torsos and various other body parts. "
I had a guy recognise me from my feet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as a reflection on things I normally comment on a certain gentleman thread who I won’t name who hasn’t got profile pic and really don’t care if he has or hasn’t same for lady it’s there choice whether they share a picture or not freedom of choice  |
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"Who else sees a red flag when people have no profile pic? Its obvious why we are all here so why the secrecy?"
It's easy do not interact with profiles with no pictures their profile let them run it how they wish. |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
You don't have to 'get it'.
You just have to respect people's choices. Bully for you that you're happy putting your face out there. Those that don't do so for many reasons. Work. Not wanting their kids teased at school because some teenage lad set up a profile for a giggle and recognised them. Not wanting their families to know because it's none of their business. Hundreds of reasons other than that they're cheating on a partner, a dreamer or a timewaster.
I'm often more worried about people happy to put their faces out there because if they have no concern for discretion in their own life how much will they have for others?
Having a face photo as your profile pic doesn't make you any more 'genuine' than anyone else.
A"
Thats rather judgemental, condescending and hypocritical of you.
Just because we show our faces you think we don't respect others right to privacy?
You cant sit there and say others have to respect your choices whilst you clearly have no respect for theirs if your making those baseless assumptions.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
You don't have to 'get it'.
You just have to respect people's choices. Bully for you that you're happy putting your face out there. Those that don't do so for many reasons. Work. Not wanting their kids teased at school because some teenage lad set up a profile for a giggle and recognised them. Not wanting their families to know because it's none of their business. Hundreds of reasons other than that they're cheating on a partner, a dreamer or a timewaster.
I'm often more worried about people happy to put their faces out there because if they have no concern for discretion in their own life how much will they have for others?
Having a face photo as your profile pic doesn't make you any more 'genuine' than anyone else.
A
Thats rather judgemental, condescending and hypocritical of you.
Just because we show our faces you think we don't respect others right to privacy?
You cant sit there and say others have to respect your choices whilst you clearly have no respect for theirs if your making those baseless assumptions.
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I didn't aim that at you. I aimed it at the guy that clearly stated he didn't 'get it' and went on to make all kinds of assumptions about people who choose not to have identifying photos online.
Sorry not sorry if that offends. I stand by my comments. I've met too many so called 'genuine swingers' over the years who don't understand that some prefer a little more discretion and personal privacy and who feel superior to them for some stra ge reason.
If that cap doesn't fit you then that's great. But it does others. I was outed to my previous employer and had I not maintained plausible deniability and a discreet profile I'd have been out of a job. There have been plenty of stories of people finding themselves being talked about on vanilla social media because someone on Fab decides to stir the pot and cause them trouble for whatever reason.
I suggest you re-read the comment I was referring to and then come back to me if you still believe I was being unfair or hypocritical in any way.
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
You don't have to 'get it'.
You just have to respect people's choices. Bully for you that you're happy putting your face out there. Those that don't do so for many reasons. Work. Not wanting their kids teased at school because some teenage lad set up a profile for a giggle and recognised them. Not wanting their families to know because it's none of their business. Hundreds of reasons other than that they're cheating on a partner, a dreamer or a timewaster.
I'm often more worried about people happy to put their faces out there because if they have no concern for discretion in their own life how much will they have for others?
Having a face photo as your profile pic doesn't make you any more 'genuine' than anyone else.
A
Thats rather judgemental, condescending and hypocritical of you.
Just because we show our faces you think we don't respect others right to privacy?
You cant sit there and say others have to respect your choices whilst you clearly have no respect for theirs if your making those baseless assumptions.
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it"
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here. |
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I don't see red flags, or imagine pic-less profiles are fake. Everyone can run their profile how they wish.
I've seen many a pic-filled profile, where it's a guy rather than a couple, or a woman, as portrayed.
Pics don't mean anything, other than someone is choosing to display some. How real they are will come out in conversation and meeting.
We tend not to engage with blank profiles, unless they choose to send some pics in a message. After all, this isn't blind date, or a one-sided show.
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here."
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping"
It doesn't though... I chat with lots of "genuine" guys. Hence why I'm still here and having fun. Equally there are time wasting couples and women.
I'm in control of who I talk to, so it's not really an issue.
You're attitude is incredibly argumentative and negative, so is your bio. Putting others down doesn't make you look better |
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping"
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?"
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?
You can meet me in the shadow. "
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?
You can meet me in the shadow. is that a lyric from a song ? "
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?
You can meet me in the shadow. is that a lyric from a song ?
To be honest you Could reply any threads with some song lyrics or movie quotes "
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?
You can meet me in the shadow. is that a lyric from a song ?
To be honest you Could reply any threads with some song lyrics or movie quotes I’m on to you mate "
Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that.
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping what about people like me who aren’t willing to meet people from fab who don’t have pictures are we anonymous aggressive time wasting morons ?
You can meet me in the shadow. is that a lyric from a song ?
To be honest you Could reply any threads with some song lyrics or movie quotes "
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping"
I was a single guy here for years. There were just as many faceless profiles back then. I've been in a couple for years. We met many a single guy and not once did we make a judgement just because there was a face photo or not on their profile.
We have a meet post up now looking for a couple of single guys.
We have a post up looking to meet single guys at the moment. Some of the most aggressive, pushy, 'want to fuck now?' style messages we've had have come from guys with a face shot as their profile pic. We've had some great messages from guys showing a torso or anything other than a face.
None of the shitty messages have put us off meeting guys - they've just put us off the guys that sent them.
Much of the 'herd mentality' stereotyping actually comes from those blaming others for their experience on Fab, particularly single guys, although couples are often just as guilty. If they aren't getting what they want (or expect) from the site then they aim their frustration at their peers and blame them instead of anything else. If you really believe that faceless, one line profiles are the cause of anyone else's failure or unhappiness then that's insane. Any guy keen to succeed on here should be eternally grateful that so many choose to put zero effort in to their photos (or lack of) and profile text because doing that makes it easy for them to stand out simply by putting in a little extra effort.
More shit profiles should equate to more success for those that put the effort in - it's not rocket science.
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"I agree with what he said ^^^
NO WAY AM I SENDING A FAKE PIC!!! "
You don't need to send face pics Steve.
The bonus of being joint third in 'Sexiest Male' in the forum awards all those years back.
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Find them annoying! Especially if I decide to chat! And as I chat to lots they then get annoyed at me if I ask for pic! And say I sent u one last week! By then it's gone and I've not a clue who I'm talking to! So tend not to Interact with silhouette profiles x |
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"Find them annoying! Especially if I decide to chat! And as I chat to lots they then get annoyed at me if I ask for pic! And say I sent u one last week! By then it's gone and I've not a clue who I'm talking to! So tend not to Interact with silhouette profiles x"
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping"
I'm at a loss on this one.
How does "the amount of anomymous profiles blah blah blah make life hard for single blokes"?
Given the amount of people on this very thread who've said they ignore anonymous profiles, I can't see how an anonymous profile makes it hard for one that has full disclosure.
Doesn't make sense.
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"Find them annoying! Especially if I decide to chat! And as I chat to lots they then get annoyed at me if I ask for pic! And say I sent u one last week! By then it's gone and I've not a clue who I'm talking to! So tend not to Interact with silhouette profiles x
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping
I was a single guy here for years. There were just as many faceless profiles back then. I've been in a couple for years. We met many a single guy and not once did we make a judgement just because there was a face photo or not on their profile.
We have a meet post up now looking for a couple of single guys.
We have a post up looking to meet single guys at the moment. Some of the most aggressive, pushy, 'want to fuck now?' style messages we've had have come from guys with a face shot as their profile pic. We've had some great messages from guys showing a torso or anything other than a face.
None of the shitty messages have put us off meeting guys - they've just put us off the guys that sent them.
Much of the 'herd mentality' stereotyping actually comes from those blaming others for their experience on Fab, particularly single guys, although couples are often just as guilty. If they aren't getting what they want (or expect) from the site then they aim their frustration at their peers and blame them instead of anything else. If you really believe that faceless, one line profiles are the cause of anyone else's failure or unhappiness then that's insane. Any guy keen to succeed on here should be eternally grateful that so many choose to put zero effort in to their photos (or lack of) and profile text because doing that makes it easy for them to stand out simply by putting in a little extra effort.
More shit profiles should equate to more success for those that put the effort in - it's not rocket science.
A"
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping
I was a single guy here for years. There were just as many faceless profiles back then. I've been in a couple for years. We met many a single guy and not once did we make a judgement just because there was a face photo or not on their profile.
We have a meet post up now looking for a couple of single guys.
We have a post up looking to meet single guys at the moment. Some of the most aggressive, pushy, 'want to fuck now?' style messages we've had have come from guys with a face shot as their profile pic. We've had some great messages from guys showing a torso or anything other than a face.
None of the shitty messages have put us off meeting guys - they've just put us off the guys that sent them.
Much of the 'herd mentality' stereotyping actually comes from those blaming others for their experience on Fab, particularly single guys, although couples are often just as guilty. If they aren't getting what they want (or expect) from the site then they aim their frustration at their peers and blame them instead of anything else. If you really believe that faceless, one line profiles are the cause of anyone else's failure or unhappiness then that's insane. Any guy keen to succeed on here should be eternally grateful that so many choose to put zero effort in to their photos (or lack of) and profile text because doing that makes it easy for them to stand out simply by putting in a little extra effort.
More shit profiles should equate to more success for those that put the effort in - it's not rocket science.
A
You said it much more eloquently than I did.
Winston "
Nothing in the fridge Winston and takeaways don't deliver to butt fuck nowhere. 
Had to eat a thesaurus this evening so I'm spouting all manner of defecation, dung, excrement and poop tonight.
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"Our face pic is clear as day. Nothing to hide.
Easy way to spot the fakes is those who go radio silent as soon as you ask for one.
I've seen all sorts of excuses about "trust" or "miss use of photos" or whatever but not a chance in hell would we meet anyone without knowing what they look like.
Send it or.dont send it. Won't assume you are fake just because there's no profile pic but we will if we just get nonsense about why you can't or won't. Just shows you're not serious about meeting.
I dont get the secrecy. If you dont want people to know then you shouldnt be doing it. We are all here for the same reasons so why be so secretive? It just shows you are either cheating in your other half, a total waster and dreamer or getting kicks out if dragging yourself around your mums house by the mushroom. Too many guys get tarred with the same brush because if it
That's really not true. I completely respect men wanting their privacy, and I judge on a case by case basis. If you, the OP, are having trouble getting meets, it's not all the other guys faults. If that was the case there would be no women left on here.
Right, another one who cant see wood for the trees. As i previously pointed out im not having problems, i was just asking a consensus. Now if you think that the amount of anomymous, aggressive time wasting morons that frequent this site isnt making life hard for single blokes then you need to pull your head out of the clouds a bit. With herd mentality comes stereotyping
I was a single guy here for years. There were just as many faceless profiles back then. I've been in a couple for years. We met many a single guy and not once did we make a judgement just because there was a face photo or not on their profile.
We have a meet post up now looking for a couple of single guys.
We have a post up looking to meet single guys at the moment. Some of the most aggressive, pushy, 'want to fuck now?' style messages we've had have come from guys with a face shot as their profile pic. We've had some great messages from guys showing a torso or anything other than a face.
None of the shitty messages have put us off meeting guys - they've just put us off the guys that sent them.
Much of the 'herd mentality' stereotyping actually comes from those blaming others for their experience on Fab, particularly single guys, although couples are often just as guilty. If they aren't getting what they want (or expect) from the site then they aim their frustration at their peers and blame them instead of anything else. If you really believe that faceless, one line profiles are the cause of anyone else's failure or unhappiness then that's insane. Any guy keen to succeed on here should be eternally grateful that so many choose to put zero effort in to their photos (or lack of) and profile text because doing that makes it easy for them to stand out simply by putting in a little extra effort.
More shit profiles should equate to more success for those that put the effort in - it's not rocket science.
A
You said it much more eloquently than I did.
Winston
Nothing in the fridge Winston and takeaways don't deliver to butt fuck nowhere.
Had to eat a thesaurus this evening so I'm spouting all manner of defecation, dung, excrement and poop tonight.
A"
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I have friends here who have no profile pictures and even no pictures to show only because they don't due the fact they can be reconized but in other hand yes they do have verifications. I'm sure i been recognised here , that don't bother me as long they respect my privacy or play fair  |
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