I put myself first. So no anal
Shit.
Pain.
Bacteria
Rips
Death .....
I know it works for many but as for using the arse hole for something other than shitting people should first work out if it's enjoyable and harmless for them.
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"Woman's Hour devoted a large section of today's show on the dangers for women of anal sex.
Do you worry about tears?
Does pleasure override any concerns?
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Like with anything you still have to be considerate as a man to make sure your partner is ready for you and you take it slowly to start with or as a woman if you’re using toys or a strap on with a partner. And lots of lube xx  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I put myself first. So no anal
Shit.
Pain.
Bacteria
Rips
Death .....
I know it works for many but as for using the arse hole for something other than shitting people should first work out if it's enjoyable and harmless for them.
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I found it painful and I fear feacal incontinence.
The report was interesting about the different anatomical risks for males and females.
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"I put myself first. So no anal
Shit.
Pain.
Bacteria
Rips
Death .....
I know it works for many but as for using the arse hole for something other than shitting people should first work out if it's enjoyable and harmless for them.
I found it painful and I fear feacal incontinence.
The report was interesting about the different anatomical risks for males and females.
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A piece in the Guardian recently about the very same thing. |
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"I put myself first. So no anal
Shit.
Pain.
Bacteria
Rips
Death .....
I know it works for many but as for using the arse hole for something other than shitting people should first work out if it's enjoyable and harmless for them.
I found it painful and I fear feacal incontinence.
The report was interesting about the different anatomical risks for males and females.
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Faecal incontinence was a factor in me avoiding anal.
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If you have to take things very slowly and use tons of lube and be careful not to hurt her on entry ......
Doesn't this tell you something ?"
It tells me i have a cock like a 2lts bottle ??  
Or there are risks - its the same with all sex though - vaginal, anal , oral , masturbation - if its done too roughly or without consideration then it can cause damage. Done correctly there is no more risk than any other I would think. As ever - communication is key and stop means stop xx |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I put myself first. So no anal
Shit.
Pain.
Bacteria
Rips
Death .....
I know it works for many but as for using the arse hole for something other than shitting people should first work out if it's enjoyable and harmless for them.
I found it painful and I fear feacal incontinence.
The report was interesting about the different anatomical risks for males and females.
A piece in the Guardian recently about the very same thing. "
The report has been doing the rounds for a couple of days. I didn't have time post here then. 
I thought the Woman's Hour discussion was informative, accessible and non-judgemental. |
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"As a man ........
If you have to take things very slowly and use tons of lube and be careful not to hurt her on entry ......
Doesn't this tell you something ?
It tells me i have a cock like a 2lts bottle ??
Or there are risks - its the same with all sex though - vaginal, anal , oral , masturbation - if its done too roughly or without consideration then it can cause damage. Done correctly there is no more risk than any other I would think. As ever - communication is key and stop means stop xx"
No Todge....
There are risks with all forms of sex agreed.
That the risks of vaginal and anal sex be compared and found equal .... nope.
That's like saying the risks of swallowing food are just the same as shoving your roast dinner up your japs eye. |
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I enjoy it. It's never hurt nor have I had concerns about tears because I make sure I'm with someone who's careful. I do know the damage it could do and I've never let anyone push me past what's comfortable. |
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"As a man ........
If you have to take things very slowly and use tons of lube and be careful not to hurt her on entry ......
Doesn't this tell you something ?
It tells me i have a cock like a 2lts bottle ??
Or there are risks - its the same with all sex though - vaginal, anal , oral , masturbation - if its done too roughly or without consideration then it can cause damage. Done correctly there is no more risk than any other I would think. As ever - communication is key and stop means stop xx
No Todge....
There are risks with all forms of sex agreed.
That the risks of vaginal and anal sex be compared and found equal .... nope.
That's like saying the risks of swallowing food are just the same as shoving your roast dinner up your japs eye. "
Well now you got me curious….. |
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"As a man ........
If you have to take things very slowly and use tons of lube and be careful not to hurt her on entry ......
Doesn't this tell you something ?
It tells me i have a cock like a 2lts bottle ??
Or there are risks - its the same with all sex though - vaginal, anal , oral , masturbation - if its done too roughly or without consideration then it can cause damage. Done correctly there is no more risk than any other I would think. As ever - communication is key and stop means stop xx
No Todge....
There are risks with all forms of sex agreed.
That the risks of vaginal and anal sex be compared and found equal .... nope.
That's like saying the risks of swallowing food are just the same as shoving your roast dinner up your japs eye. "
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That's like saying the risks of swallowing food are just the same as shoving your roast dinner up your japs eye. "
Wouldn't surprise me if someone's already tried that and filmed it. Bound to be online somewhere. |
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"Woman's Hour devoted a large section of today's show on the dangers for women of anal sex.
Do you worry about tears?
Does pleasure override any concerns?
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Tried anal a few times and hated it every time, it’s too painful for me, zero pleasure. Don’t plan on trying it again with anyone. I see videos of women who make it look so easy and pain free! I do wonder if they really enjoy it or not. I guess some women do! I’ve seen some horror stories aswell though. |
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I would worry about tears and fissures if I did it. The 2 times I tried, many years ago, were painful and there's no way I'm going to try and "push through the pain" in order to see if there's any pleasure on the other side. And yes, it was with lube, a gentle person and lots of patience. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve never found it painful and not pleasurable at all, and as Nell said, I’ve used lube and they’ve been slow and gentle too, made no difference.
I therefore concluded it was not for me and to enjoy other sexual experiences instead. |
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I don't worry about any consequences as there are, consequences in doing anything, like drink a glass of wine or eating bread. To be honest it's down to person choice, of course beware of any consequences and then make your own choice.
I enjoy anal sex and for me the pleasure of having it out way any factors to me. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't worry about any consequences as there are, consequences in doing anything, like drink a glass of wine or eating bread. To be honest it's down to person choice, of course beware of any consequences and then make your own choice.
I enjoy anal sex and for me the pleasure of having it out way any factors to me. "
Of course it is down to personal choice, and I never rule out experimentation.
I committed to a period of anal training with someone I trusted. However, even a well-lubed finger feels uncomfortable and unpleasant to me. Everything else bordered on pain.
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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I absolutely adore anal. I've done it regularly for years. Absolutely no tears and no issues so far touch wood. Just watch my videos. All anal sex. Just take it easy and use plenty of decent lube x
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