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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say young single men are unwelcome, just not what a lot of people are looking for.
I don't have a lot in common with men in their 20's and, ok, it's not a dating site but I have to be able to talk to someone to want to shag them.
Plus I find, physically, I just don't tend to be attracted to much younger men.
That doesn't mean I think young men shouldn't be here but personally, I'm not usually interested. |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
Why do you think people have to justify their age ranges to you? 
There is someone for everyone on here, concentrate on those looking for you and realise that you will not appeal to everyone. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
See you have 18 to 99 on your profile but would an 18 yr really meet someone in their 60's 70's or 80's for example... I doubt it, so at least people are being honest....
The truth is that some people are not going to want to meet people old enough to be mum or dad... And some people are not going to want to meet people young enough to be son or daughters... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range!
Why do you think people have to justify their age ranges to you?
I'm not asking people to justify their age ranges, I'm asking to start a conversation to hear peoples views, I completely understand that some people don't want to meet with young lads. But all this is, is starting a discussion about ages.
There is someone for everyone on here, concentrate on those looking for you and realise that you will not appeal to everyone."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, I'm still looking for my first meet! I'd love to join in with a couple, actually prefer it... Learn some new tricks!"
I have no problem with young men on site, but your last comment is exactly the reason I don't want to meet them. I want someone who already comes with the skills and doesn't have to be taught them. I am not saying that all young men don't know what they are doing and older men do but I tend to find that experience comes with age. |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
Believe me at 72 I am having as many problems with meets. So it is not just YOUNG men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range!
Why do you think people have to justify their age ranges to you?
There is someone for everyone on here, concentrate on those looking for you and realise that you will not appeal to everyone."
He didn't ask anyone to justify there preferences now did he 
He just wanted to see the general ranges without trawling every profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, I'm still looking for my first meet! I'd love to join in with a couple, actually prefer it... Learn some new tricks!"
Don't you mean enrich your experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just because I want to learn some new things doesn't mean I'm going to be useless. Experience does come with age, but youth comes with energy. "
I'm gerrin on a bit but energy packed.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, I'm still looking for my first meet! I'd love to join in with a couple, actually prefer it... Learn some new tricks!
Don't you mean enrich your experience "
Well I suppose that could work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have an age range of 20-40 and had some brill meets with younger men, in fact some of my best have been with younger men and tend not to get as pestered by them afterwards.
Bring on the sexy young fit ones i say..lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've put 30-50, just because it narrows down the amount of messages, but I'm not adverse to talking to anyone younger although they must come across mature enough for me to want to know more  |
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"It's only a number 
Message me if age is just a number? "
Age might only be a number but it isn't the only obstacle.
Some men think that if they are in your age range then they are shaggable.
Age range can be the perfect excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes wonder if specifically looking for ur age range thats as close to urs as possible isnt about the idea of nsa meetups and more to do with finding someone compatible for future meetups...just my opinion but I think some have such a contradictory outlook on why they use the site.I dont see any harm in shagging a 55yr old if I'm attracted..I might not see them as anything else other than that(theres levels to that...)-thats my opinion. |
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"I want this thread to keep going! I want to know more people opinions.
I want , I want , I want :P to breaknfreeeeeeeeeee - now where's me Hoover?"
Steady be_nice, now you really are showing your age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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36-50 on my profile but I generally stick with guys in their 40's
I met younger when I first joined but honestly I like to have a chat as well as shag and it's just tricky having nothing in common to talk about  |
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I absolutely understand that you want to know as much as possible about sex, women and everything that goes with it and it's very difficult to get that kind of interaction with people you meet day to day. Just interacting on here will give you an insight into how people get along sexually and what will get you a meet as well as what makes some women tick. If you truly want to learn sit back and read take it in ask questions (some people will answer directly without being sarcastic as long as you're not demanding)and who knows what might happen as a result.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want this thread to keep going! I want to know more people opinions.
I want , I want , I want :P to breaknfreeeeeeeeeee - now where's me Hoover?"
Noooooo... You'''ll have all the old queens out from their Sunday siestas.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here?? "
Nice bit of wingmanship right there!
See, I'm enjoying this thread for the simple fact I'm getting to have a conversation. Instead of reading someones profile, then typing out a long arse message to portray that I'm not just a little knobhead... To then just get ignored! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?' 
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here?? "
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx"
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
Nice bit of wingmanship right there!
See, I'm enjoying this thread for the simple fact I'm getting to have a conversation. Instead of reading someones profile, then typing out a long arse message to portray that I'm not just a little knobhead... To then just get ignored! "
You'll find talking in the forums will get you noticed a lot more.
Just join in with threads that take your interest and everyone will get to know your personality instead of just a profile and pic
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie"
Had many 'auld biddies' baby??? And be very careful how you answer that
Have vision of you hanging around outside the bingo picking up grannies haha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I respect everyones opinion entirely, but I like to think that I'm not like the stereotype of an 18 year old. Although every now and again, because apparently 'fancy a shag' works... I just be a total knob and send it! |
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie"
I detest the word keen I prefer desparate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well my age range for guys is 18-30 but have to agree that a lot of people stereotype young guys a lot
And we were all young once XD"
And the same can be said of older persons, and remember we WILL all get older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it"
No wonder my eyes were watering xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
Had many 'auld biddies' baby??? And be very careful how you answer that
Have vision of you hanging around outside the bingo picking up grannies haha x"
live right next to a bingo hall...I get wall to wall wally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx"
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
Had many 'auld biddies' baby??? And be very careful how you answer that
Have vision of you hanging around outside the bingo picking up grannies haha x
live right next to a bingo hall...I get wall to wall wally"
I know you do - bit worried now as J's mum and auntie maisie are never out of there pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
I detest the word keen I prefer desparate. "
i havent had a shag since wed...of course am fucking desperate...dont JUDGE me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I respect everyones opinion entirely, but I like to think that I'm not like the stereotype of an 18 year old. Although every now and again, because apparently 'fancy a shag' works... I just be a total knob and send it! "
We are all the same in as much as we are all different?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
Had many 'auld biddies' baby??? And be very careful how you answer that
Have vision of you hanging around outside the bingo picking up grannies haha x
live right next to a bingo hall...I get wall to wall wally
I know you do - bit worried now as J's mum and auntie maisie are never out of there pmsl "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx"
Shit - rumbled xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
I detest the word keen I prefer desparate.
i havent had a shag since wed...of course am fucking desperate...dont JUDGE me"
Only if you plead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx
Shit - rumbled xx"
it wasnt that bad a fart honey x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there's a mature older lady (or couple), willing to corrupt this young chap...somewhere on here??
I detest the word 'mature'...prefer auld biddie
I detest the word keen I prefer desparate.
i havent had a shag since wed...of course am fucking desperate...dont JUDGE me
Only if you plead. "
plead the 69th |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't like mature either - prefer ripe
fancy it up ur ripepipe?
U gettin fruity wi me?
depends...can u take a banana?
Depends. Where to?"
bananaland u idiot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx
Shit - rumbled xx
it wasnt that bad a fart honey x"
Hahaha - and i don't believe you haven't had a shag since wednesday - u have more shags than anyone else i know
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't like mature either - prefer ripe
fancy it up ur ripepipe?
U gettin fruity wi me?
depends...can u take a banana?
Depends. Where to?
bananaland u idiot!"
Contempt o court. Spanking fer you!  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx
Shit - rumbled xx
it wasnt that bad a fart honey x
Hahaha - and i don't believe you haven't had a shag since wednesday - u have more shags than anyone else i know
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i was vanilla'd this weekend...and my driver friend lacked organization skills last nite...i so wanted to expel ma load but it never happened...so yes...im gutted with a full sack full lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't like mature either - prefer ripe
fancy it up ur ripepipe?
U gettin fruity wi me?
depends...can u take a banana?
Depends. Where to?
bananaland u idiot!
Contempt o court. Spanking fer you! "
keep ur wig on while i ride ur mooth please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx
Shit - rumbled xx
it wasnt that bad a fart honey x
Hahaha - and i don't believe you haven't had a shag since wednesday - u have more shags than anyone else i know
i was vanilla'd this weekend...and my driver friend lacked organization skills last nite...i so wanted to expel ma load but it never happened...so yes...im gutted with a full sack full lol x"
Poor baby  need to make up for it today then xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have a age range of a couple of years younger to a little older than us but that's because I've never really been interested in younger guys even hubby is 9years older than me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff."
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp. |
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"I have a 19 yr old daughter so wouldn't want to meet anyone her age but would meet just older.
I can't remember what I set our age range to as I'm not really that bothered - for me it's more about maturity and respect. I find most younger guys who message us are disrespectful 'fancy a fuck', 'I wanna empty my load on your face' or one we got yesterday 'Oh eh i see you like the cock - when u free?'
If a guy of 21 (as an example) was messaging and I liked him then I'd meet him - it's as simple as that xxx
I'm 21...not exactly measured it in inches...but I'm close to it
No wonder my eyes were watering xx
thats just cos u cried as i said goodbye xxx
Shit - rumbled xx
it wasnt that bad a fart honey x
Hahaha - and i don't believe you haven't had a shag since wednesday - u have more shags than anyone else i know
i was vanilla'd this weekend...and my driver friend lacked organization skills last nite...i so wanted to expel ma load but it never happened...so yes...im gutted with a full sack full lol x
Poor baby need to make up for it today then xx"
I've came...cheers x |
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At the risk of repeating what a lot of people will say...not specifically age we look at, lots of other factors.
But in saying that unsure of guys much younger than me - and older guys are a real turn on for us (and I mean at least late 60's, 70+). Just our thing... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp."
Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well my age range for guys is 18-30 but have to agree that a lot of people stereotype young guys a lot
And we were all young once XD
And the same can be said of older persons, and remember we WILL all get older "
Hopefully we will all get older
But older people have experienced how to be young, but not old |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp."
Surely though if we are not attracted to someone half our age, there is no point in any exchange of messages surely so its not really about giving those outside our age range a chance, its more about what we are attracted to |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.
Surely though if we are not attracted to someone half our age, there is no point in any exchange of messages surely so its not really about giving those outside our age range a chance, its more about what we are attracted to"
and IF u are attracted to someone half ur age...and they appear decent and will mentally at least keep ur interest going..why not chance it is what I'm saying.Again I'm bringing it back to the idealistic NSA terminolgy...they might not be an ideal 'partner' but they could be a great fun partner.I'm not exactly saying lower standards whatever...but I see narrow age gaps on profiles..then see them complain about timewasters etc...and in all entirety, actually blame the site more than THEIR selection processes... |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people. "
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37! |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
Personally as long as over 18 we're fine, though we prefer mid 20's - late 40's. Recently had a meet with two guys, aged 19 and 22 and they were fine. It's all about personality and how one presents themselves I suppose. Pushy types, irrelevant of age never get anywhere with us personally |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!"
shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you |
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Our lower age range is there as some on here have said we have older children.
Saying that i don't ask ages if we are playing at parties.
I just don't set up and meet one on one |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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I find am usually attracted to single men that are around my own age. (30-35)
But our rough guideline is 25-45 which is 10 years either way. It's very rare for us to be interested in anyone outside of this age range. |
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I know 18 is legal, but to me i feel like its jailbait! Perhaps its because I have an 18 year old brother and a teenage son. Seems wrong for me.
29 has been my youngest meet on here, but I have a thing for older guys anyway.
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I really think its irrelevant as i don't think age always links with experience or maturity!! I've met guys in their 40's who have been nothing but a dissappointment but my regular fb is just 22 but is experienced beyond his year and is nature and articulate and feeds my mind as well as my body!! |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you "
its OK to say ur waiting...stop being so shy |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! "
I seek out younger men but your a bit too young. Prob 25-30 is my ideal. X |
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"I know 18 is legal, but to me i feel like its jailbait! Perhaps its because I have an 18 year old brother and a teenage son. Seems wrong for me.
29 has been my youngest meet on here, but I have a thing for older guys anyway.
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and thats when u differentiate ur sex life to ur real life...like I've said...rtheres NSA meetups...I dunno why I'd think of my family when shagging someone outwith the 'normal' parameters of relationships |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you
its OK to say ur waiting...stop being so shy"
I ll be 78 by the time I get my turn |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you
its OK to say ur waiting...stop being so shyI ll be 78 by the time I get my turn"
perfect bj material...get ur falsies roon me |
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It's hard enough as a single guy as it is but think a lot of the early 20s lot are gonna have a real hard time from a maturity point of view.
In general the swinging scene seems to be a majority of people 30+ and with a lot(not all) women seeming to prefer older guys it can be difficult.
Most of my luck has been finding people in my own age range. As for the early 20s bunch. Most girls that age seem to have a swinging partner/boyfriend or whatever who's like 10-15 years older. |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.
Surely though if we are not attracted to someone half our age, there is no point in any exchange of messages surely so its not really about giving those outside our age range a chance, its more about what we are attracted to
and IF u are attracted to someone half ur age...and they appear decent and will mentally at least keep ur interest going..why not chance it is what I'm saying.Again I'm bringing it back to the idealistic NSA terminolgy...they might not be an ideal 'partner' but they could be a great fun partner.I'm not exactly saying lower standards whatever...but I see narrow age gaps on profiles..then see them complain about timewasters etc...and in all entirety, actually blame the site more than THEIR selection processes..."
No thanks I would rather stick with my own age range; I did try it once, met a 25 yr old, nice lad but I just couldn't get the thought out of my head that I was twice his age and therefore meeting again would never happen. Having friends of his laugh as they walked past didn't help either |
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Think also the biggest killer on the age thing can be people not wanting to sleep with someone young enough to be their child...or in the opposite direction....old enough to be their parent. |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.
Surely though if we are not attracted to someone half our age, there is no point in any exchange of messages surely so its not really about giving those outside our age range a chance, its more about what we are attracted to
and IF u are attracted to someone half ur age...and they appear decent and will mentally at least keep ur interest going..why not chance it is what I'm saying.Again I'm bringing it back to the idealistic NSA terminolgy...they might not be an ideal 'partner' but they could be a great fun partner.I'm not exactly saying lower standards whatever...but I see narrow age gaps on profiles..then see them complain about timewasters etc...and in all entirety, actually blame the site more than THEIR selection processes...
No thanks I would rather stick with my own age range; I did try it once, met a 25 yr old, nice lad but I just couldn't get the thought out of my head that I was twice his age and therefore meeting again would never happen. Having friends of his laugh as they walked past didn't help either "
hey kinky i get it...i had one of my first meets..we sat having dinner..and some guys passed comments on the age difference..
I know it isnt nice but I have to say...my meets consist of mainly parties or home meets.
it can be age,sex,race that stop many people meeting up...all I'm saying is there is exceptions to the rule , if they are carefully worked out to cause non-embarrassment to either party...I wouldnt take a meet to somewhere unsuitable in the same way I wouldnt take a vanilla date to a swinggers party ffs lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you
its OK to say ur waiting...stop being so shyI ll be 78 by the time I get my turn
perfect bj material...get ur falsies roon me"
Lashes or nails? |
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"Is it just me that realises that single men, especially young are just not welcome on this site? I want to hear from some women, give me your age range! I am (very slowly) coming round to the idea of lowering my age range to include 30 as I have recently spoken to a few very mature and genuine guys. For me it is not that I dont like young people, on the contrary. I just cannot quite go to an age range that is close to that of my own children. It really is not a prejudice against an individual, it is more my own stuff.
I've met young guys(that sounds wrong)..more equipped in life than many twice the age...if u have a problem with ages..but are actually interested, a few mails back and forth are whats needed....I just thionk too many push those outwith their age category just for the simple fact they might not have much in common...to me...the only people losing out are those who wont accept trying a chance of luck...and at the end of it..if no connection...there was never ahn obligation was there...some find this a difficult prospect to grasp.Agreed and my original stance of not meeting anybody below 40 has already changed significantly and more sore recently after speaking to some very mature young people.
u said ud shag me ffs..and im only 21 going on 37!shhhh keep it quiet or you ll face a queue of ladies wanting you
its OK to say ur waiting...stop being so shyI ll be 78 by the time I get my turn
perfect bj material...get ur falsies roon meLashes or nails? "
eithers getting spunkfucked so shutthefuckup x |
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