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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"
When I was on here before I tended to look at them once a year and then just delete the two or three that had built up  |
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When i get a wink i look. I use winks myself as away of showing interest, If i get one back I ALWAYS respond with a message. but winks are so far and few between that i dunno if they have a place on here anymore. |
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"We look and send but don't understand the etiquette behind winks.
Where you have mutual winks who should take up the baton and take the next step to messages? First winker or reciprocator?"
We don’t mind a wink, and will send one if there is some interest. First winker should message we think x |
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"What I most enjoy about winks is sending a message thanking person(s) for the wink and asking if they might want to find out about each other only to never hear from them again."
That happens to us too!   |
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"Does and look at there winks? Do they get your attention or do you just not bother looking?"
Can't be bothered with them. Have winked back and nothing happens 99% of.the time. Have messaged people back and just been blanked also 99% of time.
If youre interested, message. Winks mean nothing in the grand scheme of it. Being shy gets you nowhere.youre gonna have to talked eventually if you want to meet so why beat around the bush? |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
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"We look and send but don't understand the etiquette behind winks.
Where you have mutual winks who should take up the baton and take the next step to messages? First winker or reciprocator?"
We sometimes use a wink to gauge interest, if we get one back I will then take the time to message and send picks.
First to wink should message I think.
But also, it can be easy to miss a wink, especially on days where the profile is getting lots (after a new photo ect) so always safer to send a decent message if you want to stand out IMO  |
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