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A question for girls who like toPeg their guy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
A question
Do you as a female loose respect for a guy when you have pegged him?
Would you then be looking for someone to take his place as your lover
While staying with him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why? Do you lose respect and want to replace a woman once you've shagged her arse?
Thanks for the reply
No I wouldn't but it is different. "
Why is it different? It's a sexual act you both enjoy. Unless you are doing it based on a power dynamic then why would it change anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you referring to a view that the male has 'lost his masculinity' once he has been pegged?
Personally, I think this is an outdated view and I don't see this to be the case. It's an act someone enjoys and can be enjoyed mutually by the giver. Nothing demeaning about it.
If the giver has reservations about it it should be discussed before hand in an open conversation, such as any new experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anything it probably brought us closer together. I find it quite an intimate act and not something I'd do with a random meet. Just like I wouldn't let some random meet stick it up my arse either 
Also gave me respect for how much energy is expended thrusting and the workout on the thighs.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are you referring to a view that the male has 'lost his masculinity' once he has been pegged?
Personally, I think this is an outdated view and I don't see this to be the case. It's an act someone enjoys and can be enjoyed mutually by the giver. Nothing demeaning about it.
If the giver has reservations about it it should be discussed before hand in an open conversation, such as any new experience."
Thanks you have hit the nail on the head.
I havnt lost my masculinity but has she lost that respect for me?
I am switch so power dynamics are fluid.
I havnt lost respect for myself I am Bi I like getting fucked up the bum it's very nice and the orgasms when they happen are different and more full body.
So its not a question have I lost its has she.
And yes its a very old fashioned outlook but I am 61 and from a different era.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are you referring to a view that the male has 'lost his masculinity' once he has been pegged?
Personally, I think this is an outdated view and I don't see this to be the case. It's an act someone enjoys and can be enjoyed mutually by the giver. Nothing demeaning about it.
If the giver has reservations about it it should be discussed before hand in an open conversation, such as any new experience."
Thanks you have hit the nail on the head.
I havnt lost my masculinity but has she lost that respect for me?
I am switch so power dynamics are fluid.
I havnt lost respect for myself I am Bi I like getting fucked up the bum it's very nice and the orgasms when they happen are different and more full body.
So its not a question have I lost its has she.
And yes its a very old fashioned outlook but I am 61 and from a different era.
Thanks for the input ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If anything it probably brought us closer together. I find it quite an intimate act and not something I'd do with a random meet. Just like I wouldn't let some random meet stick it up my arse either
Also gave me respect for how much energy is expended thrusting and the workout on the thighs.
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Lol that's what she said about hard work.
And the sentiment is the same. No more ramming it straight up the bum, now I know how it feels lmao. Also it allows me to relax and enjoy, she was in the position of watching and listening and reacting to my pleasure as I would, when I was on the verge of orgasm although she was ficked she kept pounding to I blew, it is hard being a top.
When I am top its the same, I am quiet and attentive so not very vocal, she was surprised as I was how vocal I am as bottom (not a screamming howler) just expressing how nice it is and encouraging her to go hard etc.
It's a new world
She absolutely loved it,
But I had doubts about the impact on the relationship.
I hope it does continue to bring us closer
Great to hear your experience and thanks for your response x
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