"They are probably just not interested in it with you and being polite. "
^^^This. We have anal ticked, but I'm not doing that with just anyone. I'd have to have some level of trust before doing that (for example). |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"They are probably just not interested in it with you and being polite. "
This! 
There's no end of stuff I'd gladly do with Fox but never in a million years do with anyone else. There's also stuff we'll happily do with some people but not everyone.
Just because something is an interest it doesn't guarantee that...
a.) It'll ever happen
b.) It'll happen with you
c.) It's something done all the time
I'm interested in many things that I've no doubt I'll not get to do in this lifetime. People use lists for different reasons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have only ticked one box and thats cuckolding could tick a lot more but that just attracts those we really are not interested with ...
take anal for instance i love anal but it has to be with the right guy 80% of men or more think its a shove it in hole bang bang job done no no no lol anal is with people i know and trust with the right guy i could have anal all night but that right guy is rare ...
as soon as you tick a box guys hold you to it we are as kinky as the come but we will keep our cards close to our chest until the right guys .,. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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OP let me put it this way.
If you had gangbangs listed people might see it and think you want to be gangbanged. You might want to be in the queue, not the target of attention.
If you had fishing listed people might think you want to be fisted. But you might want to do the fisting.
If you had watersports listed people might think you'd be willing to be pissed on by a dozen incontinent OAPs. Or you may just like kayaking.
The point is, never assume. It's why people chat. If you go in all guns blazing with something along the lines of "I see you have anal listed - can I smash your back doors in?" you'll rarely get a warm welcome.
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