It has been in the past, which is why I tend not to give oral until I've had at least one good orgasm first.
Too many times I was left with a mouthful of cum while a bloke pulled his clothes back on and scarpered leaving me frustrated.
Much as I enjoy giving oral I want to make sure I get off too. |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that. |
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By *nlyfun3 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that. "
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that. "
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Yes I've had a few that are happy to be sucked until my jaws fell off but haven't used their mouth once throughout the entire sex session.
I'll let you guess if I saw them again |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.
Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick "
Ketchup? |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.
Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick
Ketchup?"
Depends what time of the month it is  |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.
Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick
Ketchup?
Depends what time of the month it is "
Be an added surprise |
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"Yes I've had a few that are happy to be sucked until my jaws fell off but haven't used their mouth once throughout the entire sex session.
I'll let you guess if I saw them again "
Yes I have had this not the norm but when it happens I’m just confused as to how they are on fab and why any woman would verify them |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned
Ah you see, I don't excite anyone enough to do that.
Put a pork pie down there and you’ll be fighting them off with a stick
Ketchup?
Depends what time of the month it is
Be an added surprise "
The bushtucker trials are getting out of hand this year. |
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"It has been in the past, which is why I tend not to give oral until I've had at least one good orgasm first.
Too many times I was left with a mouthful of cum while a bloke pulled his clothes back on and scarpered leaving me frustrated.
Much as I enjoy giving oral I want to make sure I get off too."
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"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people?  "
If someone is selfish in bed they are just wired that way - it should be on your mind throughout the meet that you need to make sure that your partner is having a good time xx Yes you can relax and enjoy what they do but your job is to leave them a quivering wreck as you put your clothes back on xxx |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
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Definitely feel like oral needs to be done one at a time.
I want to be able to give my full attention to the woman and in return let her know without distractions how she's making me feel.
69 feels like a gimmick really. Just something to do if you're passing that way but nothing to spend too much time on.
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I have to agree. Love to go down and spend some real quality time on a lady below.
But quite often after that they are so worked up they're more interested in getting me inside than any potential going down. |
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Yep I can agree that sometimes it’s forgotten but no shame in reminding the other person… hey get that mouth to work  it goes both ways.
I personally love giving oral and find it to be such a turn ON that I tend to give and make her orgasm with it before we head towards my department.
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I think I've got to the bottom (pun intended) to why I rarely cum orally it's because I think that mostly oral on me has in general been as a 69. Whilst I enjoy that I find I can't focus on me and so I don't climax. Next opportunity I'll have to try oral singular so to speak and see if that works |
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Best thing in the world is to give a girl oral and have her orgasm multiple times. Apart from passionate kissing I'm not sure there is a better way of showing how much you value her.
I often do this for my partner and it leaves me totally satisfied with nothing in return. |
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"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "
For me that was being married.
These days I always enjoy giving. 'Return pleasure' is never expected, when it happens it always leaves a warm glow |
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No. Only in a tantric massage do we take turns to make a oral scene
Foreplay is mutual and at the same time, I hunt pleasure not orgasms and there are plenty of places I can overstimulate without touching his cock  |
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I've gone down on women with no expectation for it to be returned -- but I like playing with power dynamics, so it's all good.
In a relationship, however, I think I'd be gone if they never wanted to reciprocate. |
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We want all parties involves to feel satisfied. We enjoy giving as well as receiving. We wouldn't dream of taking and then buggering off. Pleasure all round is part of what is so enjoyable about sex. Why leave out half of that? |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"
I think you are right. You cannot really focus on giving if you are distracted. But from my perspective a lady's pleasure cums first. |
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I loving giving oral.. There is nothing better than feeling her when she's really getting into and getting that taste of her, etc, and do enjoy it when I get oral from the girl in return. But I do find 69 to be a tad awkward.. I tried it ages ago and it just was awkward ??.. But I don't hink I've been left out after giving.. And visa versa.. Yet anyway.. |
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I love giving Lexi oral, I find it's a fantastic experience to listen to the sighs, moans and, when all goes well, the sight of her face upon heavy orgasm and the juice on my face. Not a fan of the 69 but love it when I can perform oral from underneath. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really agree with tit for tat - you should do something because you enjoy it if that makes sense. I'm not the biggest fan of oral, definitely not a prolonged, breathing through the ears session. So I'd be quite happy if they "forgot".
Speak up more, if you're comfortable enough to put their genitals in your mouth, you should be to say "hey, I'd really love to feel your mouth on my cunt, it would turn me on so much". If that doesn't work, maybe you're not that compatible and need to find people who meet your needs more. |
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"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "
Definitely, so many selfish folk out there and one sided meets. We get pleasure from giving pleasure yet often find we're alone in that. |
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"I'm not talking about 69s. I love to give and concentrate on giving oral as I love it. But I think I excite people and they forget I'd like it returned"
Then you should tell them. Communication = good sex |
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By *imson87Man
over a year ago
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"Do you find if you obviously love giving oral that the return pleasure us often forgotten by people? "
i would say so but it all depends on the person you are with I love giving and receiving but if I had too pick one if would defo be giving |
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Fab, seems to be full of guys, who love giving oral. Even meets to just give oral and get nothing in return. It seems to always be frowned upon.
I would love to find a Woman that loves to receive, but doesnt like to give. But thats me and were all different.
Most guys will lose interest of returning the favour, once theyve cum, so always make sure you are orally satisfied before the guy cums.
Oh and I agree 69s are boring, because your focussed on the pleasure your receiving and not the pleasure your giving. |
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