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By *W Chap OP Man
over a year ago
Swindon |
I was asked by a FWB last week whether I'd faked my orgasms that morning. I hadn't but she was unsure as I'd felt the need to masturbate while she was resting up.
Have you ever faked?
Would you in any circumstances? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
I can see why she asked if you're doing it straight after any sex but I don't see how the two are linked.
I can't say there's ever been a need personally ... realise you're not asking this but have you tried having longer sex where you have a deeper orgasm? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I didn't actually think it was possible for a man to fake an orgasm, I only ever met 1 guy who couldn't cum, and therefore didn't produce anything. That would be the only clue surely?"
You can absolutely. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
The belief that for sex to be enjoyable, it has to include an orgasm, can be quite a damaging thing at times.
I don’t always cum but some of my most explosive encounters haven’t included an orgasm for me.
I think we put too much pressure and expectation on partners to orgasm and base our sexual worth on whether they do or not. Bodies don’t work like that though.
I’d rather have the trust and openness to be able to say ‘this is great but I’m not going to cum’ and know that that’s ok on both sides.
The equation, orgasm = good sex is flawed at best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm yes, some years ago I ended up have incredible sex with a woman I'd known for years but we had done anything.
I was completely sober and she was abit tipsy
We ended having sex all night , she came 4 times but for the life of me I couldn't.
I loved every minute of it but held back from cuming so much I must have gone beyond it.
I think she knew I hadn't a when to the kitchen to grab us some water and came back with a raging hard on. Sadly couldn't do round 5 as I was due in work |
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By *afksedMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
As a man is it really the highest priority?
I make it a point of principle for whoever I am with to orgasm before me anyway. It just seems more natural to me to please before taking.
"I was asked by a FWB last week whether I'd faked my orgasms that morning. I hadn't but she was unsure as I'd felt the need to masturbate while she was resting up.
Have you ever faked?
Would you in any circumstances?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have. I’m normally a 2 minute wonder but for some reason couldn’t cum. I was absolutely shattered so just let out a slight moan and rolled over "
I knew it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have. I’m normally a 2 minute wonder but for some reason couldn’t cum. I was absolutely shattered so just let out a slight moan and rolled over
I knew it!!!"
Oops. I forgot you used the forums |
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