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Do people hide behind sex rather than life issue's
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Of course some people use sex as a temporary plaster. It releases endorphins, your mind is temporarily not on any issues. I get it. I think that the majority of those people have some self awareness as to why they're doing that. |
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"If your down or not happy male or female if uou have chats maybe meets or want contact are your problems deeper ..does it help..Sex won't solve somethings "
Might not solve the root cause, but it can alleviate symptoms. |
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"I'd quite happily hide behind sex in order to avoid all of my problems... The issue with this is not getting sex is my biggest problem  "
You risk disappearing up you own whatsit doing that. Be careful. Or at least tie some string to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I understand the question? I'm very happily single (have been for some time now), but yes I do on occasion seek sex, because its more fulfilling for me than using sex toys alone. Does that equal me seeking a partner longer term? No, no it doesn't. However, does it mean I'll shag any old randomer because I'm feeling horny? Also a no... |
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People have all sorts of reasons for being on fab.
Some have very busy careers, or family issues or health issues that mean that “normal” dating is somewhat tricky for them or simply not what they’re looking for.
Some like to genuinely participate in the scene, explore their kinks etc
Some like the honest human connection it can bring.
Some don’t want to date or have a relationships but, we all have needs.
Some like the social side
Some It’s a mix of all the above.
There’s nothing wrong with whatever your reasons are with the exception of cheating in my opinion, and even there fab works for some. Not something I will entertain but plenty do.
A recent chat on here about such things prompted me to quote this from charmed (it was in relation to online dating which was a fairly new thing then)
“It's a complicated world, Phoebe. People have a hard time finding each other in it. And even when they do, they sometimes don't act on their feelings because they're too afraid.”
It’s hard to be honest and it’s hard to find someone that is a good match be it sexually or for a relationship, so we need to go easy on each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean stating the idea that someone may have mental health issues due to not wanting an actual relationship is pretty messed up? Not everyone wants a full on dynamic, not everyone can offer this? Due to kids/work/just not wanting to? But harsh to say someone's practically crackers for being in Fab?... Especially when you are yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hadn't been for sex and prom Fab to an extent, I would pray be dead... Sounds a little dramatic but it's true
*probably... Not pray or prom ffs  "
Meh! I typo all over the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hadn't been for sex and prom Fab to an extent, I would pray be dead... Sounds a little dramatic but it's true
*probably... Not pray or prom ffs "
Meh! I typo all over the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hadn't been for sex and prom Fab to an extent, I would pray be dead... Sounds a little dramatic but it's true
*probably... Not pray or prom ffs
Meh! I typo all over the site "
Probably |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hadn't been for sex and prom Fab to an extent, I would pray be dead... Sounds a little dramatic but it's true
*probably... Not pray or prom ffs
Meh! I typo all over the site
Probably "
Probably what? Probably I'm agreeing with the poster I also frequently typo? Or probably... Just to make me look 'silly' within the reply?  |
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Joining fab unexpectedly made me healthier mentally and physically.
How? It inspired me to improve myself as I quickly realised competition is high for single men here due to the saturation... soooo I started excercising, eating good, stopped drugs and worked on my social side (anxiety makes it hard sometimes).
I have since met some lovely ladies, put on a stone, made some awesome friends and become more confident/social which is positively affecting other areas of life
Still early in my swing journey and I can't wait to see where it leads, clubs soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Joining fab unexpectedly made me healthier mentally and physically.
How? It inspired me to improve myself as I quickly realised competition is high for single men here due to the saturation... soooo I started excercising, eating good, stopped drugs and worked on my social side (anxiety makes it hard sometimes).
I have since met some lovely ladies, put on a stone, made some awesome friends and become more confident/social which is positively affecting other areas of life
Still early in my swing journey and I can't wait to see where it leads, clubs soon "
I literally did none of the above... However, I would say it probably changed my world 7yrs ago. I connected with other ladies and actually explored my bi side. Which in 'real life' is so so hard to do |
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"Joining fab unexpectedly made me healthier mentally and physically.
How? It inspired me to improve myself as I quickly realised competition is high for single men here due to the saturation... soooo I started excercising, eating good, stopped drugs and worked on my social side (anxiety makes it hard sometimes).
I have since met some lovely ladies, put on a stone, made some awesome friends and become more confident/social which is positively affecting other areas of life
Still early in my swing journey and I can't wait to see where it leads, clubs soon "
That’s amazing glad you’re healthier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your down or not happy male or female if uou have chats maybe meets or want contact are your problems deeper ..does it help..Sex won't solve somethings "
Sex will solve my sexual frustration. That is a fact  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for some it can be a healthy distraction and for others it can be an unhealthy and a way of avoiding deeper issues."
Your profile is a healthy distraction … |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for some it can be a healthy distraction and for others it can be an unhealthy and a way of avoiding deeper issues.
Your profile is a healthy distraction … "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hadn't been for sex and prom Fab to an extent, I would pray be dead... Sounds a little dramatic but it's true
*probably... Not pray or prom ffs "
I typo lilt it’s an Olympic sport and I’m aiming for a gold medal. Plus AutoCucumber is a child of Loki, especially when you’re dyslexic.
But I too shame your original sentiment. I’ve had some very lovely and dark times recently, people are less inclined to meet for a social, so meeting for sex is an alternative. One Fab user will never realise that when they agreed to meet they saved my life. |
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