As someone who thinks they’re a pretty awesome cook/baker , is it weird to offer to cook for someone who you’re looking to be FWB with?
Would hearing the potential of that offer be odd in a first message?
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over a year ago
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Erm, as a opener, bit strong like?
But once you've got to know each other, why not?
I love to cook personally, and I know it's probably the thing to get me over the line or at least keep me in the running once they really get to know me lol. |
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"Erm, as a opener, bit strong like?
But once you've got to know each other, why not?
I love to cook personally, and I know it's probably the thing to get me over the line or at least keep me in the running once they really get to know me lol."
This  Too much for an opener. Save it for when you're actually getting into the "Friends" territory personally.
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In an opening message....'I would love to come and cook for you'.... wouldn't be what I would expect in a first message. First messages to me with a potential FWB intent would be more, I like you profile, it appears we both seek something similar.......
Others of course may like the individuality of that approach  |
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"As someone who thinks they’re a pretty awesome cook/baker , is it weird to offer to cook for someone who you’re looking to be FWB with?
Would hearing the potential of that offer be odd in a first message?
Thanks for reading! "
For a first message yes. Meet them, chat with them, then invite them round and say you’ll make something - don’t make a big deal of it - then wow them with your skills!  |
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"If I’m travelling with work I like to potentially mix a meeting with cooking in an air Bnb x good food good wine and great sex?"
But the OP is asking about FWB situation and first message approach. |
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"If I’m travelling with work I like to potentially mix a meeting with cooking in an air Bnb x good food good wine and great sex?
But the OP is asking about FWB situation and first message approach."
Apologies good point, I’m not sure I would open with an offer to cook! |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"In an opening message....'I would love to come and cook for you'.... wouldn't be what I would expect in a first message. First messages to me with a potential FWB intent would be more, I like you profile, it appears we both seek something similar.......
Others of course may like the individuality of that approach "
Even cake?  |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"As someone who thinks they’re a pretty awesome cook/baker , is it weird to offer to cook for someone who you’re looking to be FWB with?
Would hearing the potential of that offer be odd in a first message?
Thanks for reading! "
I'm assuming if you are looking for FWB then you already know them? If so then there is no issue really - apart from the fact that cooking for someone can be one of the most intimate things you can do while remaining dressed and may give an impression you want more perhaps? |
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