Is anybody else on here fed up with the small-minded people who send you endless messages, saying they won't let you down, then they don't turn up. The only course of action you have is the block button then they just move on to someone else and do it again, we have had so many in the last few weeks that we are seriously considering just meeting others in clubs. |
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There is definitely a direct link between the length of time you chat to people and them turning up or not.
I don't believe for a second that's it's just me but I've never had a no show in 5½ years here and never been one.
Clubs aren't the only answer because we don't have a club scene over here so that removes that option but the way I see it is that if something is happening over and over with the same outcome it's maybe time for a different approach even if that is to look at how you vet those you chat to. |
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We only meet for a drink and chat in a halfway pub initially if it's a 121 meet.
If no show, we've had a nice evening in the pub together.
If folks want to have lots of messaging and chat before meet we generally swerve.
We have only ever had one no show, find a very early telephone chat sorts things out.
Parties, clubs, swingers holidays and organised socials generally sorts out the chatters from meeters.
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We tend to find the ones who we message with over a few weeks are the most reliable. Virtually everybody who we have agreed to meet after two or three messages in a week have been total flakes. Virtually everybody who invests in a conversation over a longer time has been very reliable. |
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"There is definitely a direct link between the length of time you chat to people and them turning up or not.
I don't believe for a second that's it's just me but I've never had a no show in 5½ years here and never been one.
Clubs aren't the only answer because we don't have a club scene over here so that removes that option but the way I see it is that if something is happening over and over with the same outcome it's maybe time for a different approach even if that is to look at how you vet those you chat to. "
I agree with this. I also have not had a no show. |
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"There is definitely a direct link between the length of time you chat to people and them turning up or not.
I don't believe for a second that's it's just me but I've never had a no show in 5½ years here and never been one.
Clubs aren't the only answer because we don't have a club scene over here so that removes that option but the way I see it is that if something is happening over and over with the same outcome it's maybe time for a different approach even if that is to look at how you vet those you chat to.
I agree with this. I also have not had a no show."
Me and My Girl rarely meet off the back of an Internet arrangement. Pretty much everyone we know and meet up with we've met in clubs or who we've seduced on a vanilla night out in town. Setting up dates online has too much chance of failure and/or awkwardness vs the effort. Clubs are effortless, work to your time frame and your not tied down to one person or couple if the chemistry isn't working.
As a single don't really have the time for arrangements. So generally just go to clubs at my convenience and find the mischief and people I find. |
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
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"Had loads of time wasters. Even worse when only get limited times to meet and get let down at last minute. 
Know what you mean. "
I never let anyone down if ive arrange a meet, it kills the meaning of a site like this, i mean maybe there will be times where things just might pop up out of the blue but not to call or message is just bad manners and very disrespectful in my opinion
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"We tend to find the ones who we message with over a few weeks are the most reliable. Virtually everybody who we have agreed to meet after two or three messages in a week have been total flakes. Virtually everybody who invests in a conversation over a longer time has been very reliable. "
So I thought had three over the weekend and have chatted for a good while, one I've met a few times. |
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