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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be more cheeky than to just say hello, as if he only says hello back then the conversation gets awkward as neither know what to say next....
I'd ask him when you were going to get some loyalty discount for the Costa Coffee as you're in the shop so often... can't give you a one word answer reply then!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write your number on a bit off paper
Go in say hello and hand him it and say if you like call or message me later and leave it in his hands "
Oooh might actually do that ! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Try and remember what you would do if the internet didn't exist. Like when we were young.
(In my case this means not actually doing anything more and being way too shy to say anything at all) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write your number on a bit off paper
Go in say hello and hand him it and say if you like call or message me later and leave it in his hands
Oooh might actually do that !"
it may work it may not but at least you tryed |
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By *rg4Man
over a year ago
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !"
Ask him for his number |
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice"
yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He’s probably thinking exactly the same, Just say a polite hello and I’m sure the rest will just happen naturally x
Good luck "
I think he possibly is thinking the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!! "
Hahaha  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!! "
Very subtle! I like it |
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!!
Very subtle! I like it "
Yup - play it cool…. Always works xxx |
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Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed. |
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"Let us know how it goes please
Will do ! "
To be serious for a sec as i never am normally - theres some good suggestions and its always best to open with something like - wow you again… lets him know you’ve noticed him - is it the coffee you come here for or just to see me? And see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed."
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in |
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed."
Or if he doesn’t work there, game on! |
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed."
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
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Sorry , my bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
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I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to |
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to "
If he licks his lips as he seductively slips the nozzle In and out if his van … you could be in!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to
If he licks his lips as he seductively slips the nozzle In and out if his van … you could be in!! "
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in "
Do you think he's stalking you cleverly from in front? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in
Do you think he's stalking you cleverly from in front? "
I honestly find it slightly odd that he is always there when I am |
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in
Do you think he's stalking you cleverly from in front?
I honestly find it slightly odd that he is always there when I am "
he has a routine - so do you xxx nothing odd xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you checked his ring finger yet? 
Of course hahaha "
Doesn't mean anything, a lot of Men don't wear a wedding ring for various reasons and also types of jobs they do. Could still be married |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to "
Maybe make ask a jokey question about how much petrol he gets through. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you checked his ring finger yet?
Of course hahaha
Doesn't mean anything, a lot of Men don't wear a wedding ring for various reasons and also types of jobs they do. Could still be married "
Don’t think I help in that respect , as I wear a Pandora ring on my third finger. I bought it for myself after I seperated as I felt so weird without a wedding ring on! So I probably look like I’m engaged  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to
Maybe make ask a jokey question about how much petrol he gets through."
That is actually a really good opener ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you. |
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"I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you. "
There's a pattern developing on the forum. Jesus, she's only looking for a date with a like minded individual |
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"I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you.
There's a pattern developing on the forum. Jesus, she's only looking for a date with a like minded individual "
Think that you are right, these forums bring the worst out in all of us, sometimes. |
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"I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you.
There's a pattern developing on the forum. Jesus, she's only looking for a date with a like minded individual
Think that you are right, these forums bring the worst out in all of us, sometimes."
typical sociopath comment!! |
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"I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you.
There's a pattern developing on the forum. Jesus, she's only looking for a date with a like minded individual
Think that you are right, these forums bring the worst out in all of us, sometimes. typical sociopath comment!! "
Typical spiteful comment. |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Yeh god forbid people meet away from the internet!
No where did she say he works there
I only nip in a couple of times a week and he is always filling his van up so god knows where he travels to
Maybe make ask a jokey question about how much petrol he gets through.
That is actually a really good opener !"
You sound surprised |
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"I’m wondering how long it’ll take the thread contributions to turn him into a married, stalking, psychopath axe murderer.
OP, next time you see him, say hi. He’ll feel you’ve noticed him noticing you.
There's a pattern developing on the forum. Jesus, she's only looking for a date with a like minded individual
Think that you are right, these forums bring the worst out in all of us, sometimes. typical sociopath comment!!
Typical spiteful comment."
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in
Do you think he's stalking you cleverly from in front?
I honestly find it slightly odd that he is always there when I am "
It's a sign! Ask him for the winning lottery numbers |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Just smile , say hi as passing and something along the lines of "we really need to stop meeting like this see how he responds  "
I like this , I might steal that one
I always work back from the one line that will change things, that line is something like ‘would you like to go for a coffee sometime?’ Once you’ve said that line it’s either or no or a yes , a yes doesn’t mean it will necessarily become anything but it’s still a yes.
So figure out how to get to that line, fairly quickly or it becomes weird and difficult. Often you can get to that line in a minute or two if there’s obviously Che is try and eye contact or sometimes it takes a couple of weeks of small talk |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Remember the good old days before internet , social media , dating apps ..when people first met by chance ..on the street in the shops at the pub or on a night out ahh the memories "
Crazy talk. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Remember the good old days before internet , social media , dating apps ..when people first met by chance ..on the street in the shops at the pub or on a night out ahh the memories
Crazy talk."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Remember the good old days before internet , social media , dating apps ..when people first met by chance ..on the street in the shops at the pub or on a night out ahh the memories
Crazy talk.
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Insane talk ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Have you not met him yet?? Its been hours "
Hahah no I’ll try in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x "
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask 
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x "
I have an idea - meet me and we can snog in front if him and get him jealous - or even better - bend you over the bonnet and spank you while you say oooh Id love a macchiato’s with this and see if he takes the hint |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 words the greatest chatting opener in the world
How are you doing (saying it the joey friends way is optional)
But its a none offenceive open question to start any conversation
And
The rest will take care of itself
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask
Mr"
Pmsl - wasn’t lost on me |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Remember the good old days before internet , social media , dating apps ..when people first met by chance ..on the street in the shops at the pub or on a night out ahh the memories
Crazy talk.
Insane talk ! "
I dont think im making it up im sure i vaguely remember it ..it wasnt a dream ..i dont think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask
Mr"
Ahhh I didn’t see that thread x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is his van sign written? Maybe a number there!
“Hi, I’m the sexy lady that keeps seeing you in Asda. Can you come and fix my leak please!”
Only use that line if he’s a plumber!!  |
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask
Mr
Ahhh I didn’t see that thread x"
The originator of that thread has gone UNLOS x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask
Mr
Ahhh I didn’t see that thread x
The originator of that thread has gone UNLOS x"
She’ll be back. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"Let him make the 1st move...might be awkward if he's married etc....x"
What if he doesn't ? Some men feel uncomfortable making the first move in public (for whatever reason)...he might be someone who is shy in the beginning...and he also might not be married.
I personally (as a man) would never approach a woman in public...would that automatically make you think I'm married? |
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Ignore me. It was a very unfunny reference to an earlier thread where doing this was either an acceptable way to start a conversation or made the sender a creep, possibly a stalker and definitely in contravention of an unwritten code depending who you ask
Mr
Ahhh I didn’t see that thread x
The originator of that thread has gone UNLOS x
She’ll be back."
I'll be at Asda, waiting |
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"See if you can find him on here and send a message saying you saw him in the garage.
Mr
How could I do that ? A lot of men don’t have a face pic x
Have you not met him yet?? Its been hours
Hahah no I’ll try in the morning "
Let us know how it goes. |
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"Just smile , say hi as passing and something along the lines of "we really need to stop meeting like this see how he responds "
This…If he flirts back with a “I know but it’s nice” or along those lines just ask if he’d like your number
He might be shy too you know? Not all guys are like some of the monsters who bombard your mail boxes  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !"
Be brave Cat, don't rue missed opportunities. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So much wisdom shared. When's the next garage trip op so we can get a progress report? "
I’ll grab a Costa on the way in! Just need to time it right but I’ll sort that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !
Be brave Cat, don't rue missed opportunities. Good luck."
Thanks xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !
Be brave Cat, don't rue missed opportunities. Good luck.
Thanks xxx"
Why not empty your screen wash on the car and ask him to help you fill it up... |
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This is very exciting! I love it when you have that exciting spark with someone!
Next time you see him, I would just say something like ‘we seem to keep bumping into eachother and I wondered if you might like to go for a proper coffee or adrink sometime, rather than the ones from that takeaway Costa machine - here’s my number/ Instagram - drop me a message if you fancy it’
Good luck! xxx |
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"Maybe leave him alone so that he can do his job without you making him feel uncomfortable or worried he might lose his job if he is accused of being unprofessional towards a customer.
We have seen these threads light up with accusations of creepy and the like when the roles have been reversed.
Eh? He isn’t working there , he just always happens to be filling his van up at the petrol station if I go in
Do you think he's stalking you cleverly from in front?
I honestly find it slightly odd that he is always there when I am "
He might go there every day, twice a day... You just never know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn’t go in yesterday but I’ll call in for a Costa this morning, will update later !x
Good luck."
Got stuck in traffic and didn’t have time to call in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m too invested now OP, would it be too much to ask for you to just live in your car for a week or so parked up on the forecourt so that I can get a conclusion - I feel like it’s like when Netflix only release an episode a week n I can’t take the waiting  |
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!! "
Lmao |
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !"
He's a bloke. We all get stupidly excited when women try to chat us up lol  |
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"Smile and say hello and something like “we must stop meeting like this” to break the ice yes and add - id prefer to meet you handcuffed to my bed with me riding you like a rodeo star .. guys like a subtle hint!!
Lmao"
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"I’m too invested now OP, would it be too much to ask for you to just live in your car for a week or so parked up on the forecourt so that I can get a conclusion - I feel like it’s like when Netflix only release an episode a week n I can’t take the waiting "
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Did a drive by this morning but he was a no show |
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"I’m too invested now OP, would it be too much to ask for you to just live in your car for a week or so parked up on the forecourt so that I can get a conclusion - I feel like it’s like when Netflix only release an episode a week n I can’t take the waiting
Hahaha
Did a drive by this morning but he was a no show "
What's the latest, Willow? Still no progress? |
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1st, give him a compliment it will not only make his day but in years to come he'll think about it, and if he reciprocates then you've got a basis to start from, if he doesn't you're just complimenting him |
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"I’m too invested now OP, would it be too much to ask for you to just live in your car for a week or so parked up on the forecourt so that I can get a conclusion - I feel like it’s like when Netflix only release an episode a week n I can’t take the waiting
Hahaha
Did a drive by this morning but he was a no show
What's the latest, Willow? Still no progress? "
Still not seen him |
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !"
He's married |
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"See him a couple of times in the week in the garage near to work , if I’m picking up milk or getting a Costa etc.
We always look at each other for far longer than necessary, always smile . And that’s it! It’s been like this for about 3 weeks now .
I want to say something but I don’t have a clue how to approach it .
He’s probably just being nice but I’m not sure . I’d look a right dick if I’m reading too much into it .
Help !
He's married "
Ain’t they all |
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Probably been said already but you only live once so take a chance.
It's possible that into days world this guy is apprehensive about approaching a female stranger in a shop for fear of being labeled a creep or worse |
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