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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who become bi when wanting to meet then straight again on a meet  "
I meet I couple ones with a interesting foolproof way off stoping that from happening
When I meet them for the first time
The female hafe instead that hubby fucks me first and she just sit and watch
Only afterwards did she join in
The second go around she joined in from the start
Then told me that I had passed they test to root out fake bi people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pet names like princess babe or anything along those lines comeing from a total stranger just no
I’d agree with this! "
Definitely nothing send a message to the bucket faster then pet names  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like what I see.. When are you available for me to fuck you"
Like I'm some sort of choice off a fast food menu.. Absolutely not sweet cheeks  get in the bin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women who say they are sapiosexual and then give one or two word replies. Every time. So if I go into great detail about me , what I do for a living and why I do what I do etc then when I ask 'how about you?' and all they say is
'I'm a ....'
That's it. 3 word reply. I'll continue abit , but If I reply with more than a sentence or two and continue to just get a couple words in a reply, I'll just not message them again.
I won't delete them, but It just doesn't sit right with me, so I respectfully just say they're not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pet names, being called daddy when I'm no soft Dom, crude first messages, lying about being into what we are, lying about being poly, 1 word answers. Plus more no doubt 
Max |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lazy, one line messages
Addressing Mrs but not Mr
Dick pics
“Meet now”
“Babe”
“Nice tits”
Need we go on? "
Oooooo I forgot the one about just addressing the Mrs in the couple!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?"
Can't say I can pick a particular thing that is wrong but there will be something in the message that just flags red to me... |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?"
I can see why that would be a big turn off for you
For me it would be getting too sexual too quick or trying to tell me what we'd do ,what to wear etc . |
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By *rg4Man
over a year ago
hunktown |
They wear trainers
They wear ankle socks or no socks at all
Short hair
Say hun
Thin lips
Wear 3/4s
Like weird sexual stuff
Don’t reply promptly
Think they’re better than everyone else
Skinny
Won’t peg me
Bite your lip while kissing
Doesn’t like kissing
Shit at handjobs/blowjobs
Lots more to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any references to them wanting to destroy me in the first message.
Asking if I squirt.
Assuming they're going to make me cum (sometimes apparently more than once!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One word messages, doesn't matter how good the profile I'm not replying.
Or messages aimed at just 1 of us."
I'm terrible at this as I love females more than men...  |
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By *rg4Man
over a year ago
hunktown |
"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?"
Lmfao that’s a very specific ick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?
Lmfao that’s a very specific ick "
Why’s it funny though? It’s something that’s said to her… |
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By *rg4Man
over a year ago
hunktown |
"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?
Lmfao that’s a very specific ick
Why’s it funny though? It’s something that’s said to her…"
It’s funny because it’s so specific. Not funny that it’s said to her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In a message!
So let’s assume they’ve got a great profile, great pics but then they say something in a message that makes you hit delete!
For me it’s being referred to as having a caramel, chocolate pussy etc etc
What’s yours?
Lmfao that’s a very specific ick "
Yeah race fetishisation terms aren’t funny to me! |
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Meet now
Fuck/lick and go
No strings
Here for a good time, not a long time
Anything that badmouths other women/women's bodies
Being overly crude
I'm in your area for the night/weekend
Balls needing draining
You probably won't be interested but...
Only talking about what they want from me not what I might want out of a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet now
Fuck/lick and go
No strings
Here for a good time, not a long time
Anything that badmouths other women/women's bodies
Being overly crude
I'm in your area for the night/weekend
Balls needing draining
You probably won't be interested but...
Only talking about what they want from me not what I might want out of a meet"
That’s every message I’ve sent to you right there. Should I take it as a maybe then?  |
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"I'm a prudish old cow, so any references to sex in the first few messages gets a delete. "
Would you talk about sex in the first chat in a bar? No, so it's not being prudish to not expect it here  x |
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I find it really irritating when they say ‘can I ask you a question?’ Or they pretend to know you and say ‘hey we spoke last year but…’
I also hate ‘how’s you?’ - it doesn’t even make sense! However the worst is has to be dirty talk in the first message…. Just why? I wonder if anyone responds positively to dirty talk from the off? I can’t imagine it would have a high response rate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a prudish old cow, so any references to sex in the first few messages gets a delete.
Would you talk about sex in the first chat in a bar? No, so it's not being prudish to not expect it here x"
My tongue was firmly in my cheek  |
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"I'm a prudish old cow, so any references to sex in the first few messages gets a delete.
Would you talk about sex in the first chat in a bar? No, so it's not being prudish to not expect it here x
My tongue was firmly in my cheek "
As long as that's all that was x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are obviously doing really well then. We don't get many messages and virtually all are courteous and nice. Get a few one liners mostly from guys which just get deleted in less time than it took to write it.
I think maybe our profile looks a bit like a faker so we don't get a hell of alot of traffic or the resounding complaints of hundreds of drivel mails from males to deal with
No that doesn't mean we suddenly want them either  |
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Beards
No pic on the first message
Poorly dressed
Can't chat to women
Doesn't give oral
Goes limp during sex
Bad hygiene
No sense of humour
Takes obsessive amout of selfies, leave that to the ladies
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Anything that's zero effort, dick pics, from someone who could not be bothered to read our profile or just the bizarre.
Had one message once asking to buy my wife's worn shoes (wtf?) And a great one today. A random picture of some guy playing a guitar and what I surmise was a woman's bottom with the message "would ypu meet us"?
Won't lie, read that last one like it had come from Buffalo Bill. It was just so odd. Instant "nope". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I don't reply then I get asked am I shy erm no definitely not shy, just don't want to talk to you  "
I wonder if people that do that would continue to try and converse with someone in public that blanked them as a totally unsuitable conversant?
I'm totally too polite but |
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People who don’t read the profile and think I’m going to call them mistress or be submissive to them. Or those who think I’ll betray my Dom and meet behind his back or try to push my boundaries. Not going to happen.
Submissive to only one. If you don’t understand or respect me or our dynamics, don’t message. I’m not naturally submissive sexually, so they’re wasting my (and their) time. Viv xx |
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For some reason being called young lady gets the bile raising.
Also, being over familiar and pretending we've spoken before, sending dick pics, and an erotic novel describing exactly what they want to do to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ‘nice guy’ line - either in username or in msg. If you need to tell me you’re the nice guy chances are you’re not! Nice guys don’t need to put down other males on here to see some action |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
So "hey hum, I'm in Tesco car park in my camper van with a tub of Ben and Jerry's that I want to smear all over you and lick off, 2nd parking space on the left by the main entrance, don't bother wearing any underwear as you won't have it on for long. Come now before it all melts." Wouldn't work, bugger I wondered why I couldn't get a meet |
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