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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a sense of disappointment from such requests so early into a chat and I step back from those conversations with a respectful message setting my communication boundaries out clearly.
NBVN x |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
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"I get a sense of disappointment from such requests so early into a chat and I step back from those conversations with a respectful message setting my communication boundaries out clearly.
NBVN x" I am on the same page here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would someone you don't really know ask for your phone number on the 3rd message"
Because they want to hunt you down & find you on any social media sites |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
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"Here’s one, perhaps they actually want to arrange too meet you? It does happen on a swingers sire crazy hey J x " up till now, the norm for me anyway has been to take the conversation to Kik or telegram.
I made the mistake of giving someone my number a several months ago and got spammed for porn vids and pictures.
Someone would normally get my number if there was a firm arrangement to meet |
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"Here’s one, perhaps they actually want to arrange too meet you? It does happen on a swingers sire crazy hey J x up till now, the norm for me anyway has been to take the conversation to Kik or telegram.
I made the mistake of giving someone my number a several months ago and got spammed for porn vids and pictures.
Someone would normally get my number if there was a firm arrangement to meet"
Just tell them that then? I don’t think them asking for it is a big deal J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am mixed on this.
I want a phone call pretty early on especially if it’s another female or a couple to prove everyone is genuine.
That said I’ve been caught out and had to block numbers as well from people who aren’t who they say they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never give out phone number for any reason, WhatsApp if knowing going to meet so can account for any last minute changes and then its they give us their number. "
How do you WhatsApp without a phone number?
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
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"Never give out phone number for any reason, WhatsApp if knowing going to meet so can account for any last minute changes and then its they give us their number.
How do you WhatsApp without a phone number?
Mr" you get there number first, but if it has got to the stage of meeting, you are probably pretty sure they are who they say they are |
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They want a wank. They always want a wank. The more insistent they are that they don't want a wank, the more certain you can be that they want a wank.
That and they want to bombard you with dick pics.
While wanking. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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At which point Can you say don't really know,because social media is only one part and even if you've met them in person doesn't mean that you know them. It can take forever to actually know someone but never enough,every day a person learns more good bad and unsure |
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"Never give out phone number for any reason, WhatsApp if knowing going to meet so can account for any last minute changes and then its they give us their number.
How do you WhatsApp without a phone number?
Mr you get there number first, but if it has got to the stage of meeting, you are probably pretty sure they are who they say they are "
So you can send initiate a WhatsApp convo without them seeing your number?
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