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In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there  x |
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over a year ago
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Hugs op
Been on and off fab for just little over 10 year
I have posted this before but posting again is it’s so good
Yeah I've discussed it with myself
And I'm disgusted with the way
We're told to have a certain face
A certain weight, be flawless
We aren't pixels on a screen
No we're human, we breathe
Every single thing we see curated
It's overrated
These expectations, they keep weighing me down
My heart is begging me to get the hell out, of my head
I'm gonna live inside the upside down
For a minute and pretend
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahhh
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahhhh
And if I say it enough
It gets ingrained in my head
And I start to think
Honey I'm a perfect (Ten)
Honey I'm a perfect ten (Ten)
(Ten) (Ten)
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahh
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_k1STlEXCkc
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"Hugs op
Been on and off fab for just little over 10 year
I have posted this before but posting again is it’s so good
Yeah I've discussed it with myself
And I'm disgusted with the way
We're told to have a certain face
A certain weight, be flawless
We aren't pixels on a screen
No we're human, we breathe
Every single thing we see curated
It's overrated
These expectations, they keep weighing me down
My heart is begging me to get the hell out, of my head
I'm gonna live inside the upside down
For a minute and pretend
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahhh
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahhhh
And if I say it enough
It gets ingrained in my head
And I start to think
Honey I'm a perfect (Ten)
Honey I'm a perfect ten (Ten)
(Ten) (Ten)
Honey I'm a perfect ten
Woahh
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_k1STlEXCkc
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over a year ago
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over the years ive been on and off had some amazing meets, but for me i feel its changed none of the old faces on here ive met before gutted but hey things change. i first got introduced to fab 11 years ago |
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"over the years ive been on and off had some amazing meets, but for me i feel its changed none of the old faces on here ive met before gutted but hey things change. i first got introduced to fab 11 years ago "
Aww, I know what you mean, a lot of people don’t like K I K but I had an amazing group of friends and group chats on there, all sadly resigned to history now. It makes me sad too x |
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"Just be true to yourself and but what others think you should be, hang in there x
Thank you, sadly it’s myself that’s the problem!  I’ll keep chipping away though x"
Nothing up with you lovely. Just keep on being you......plus picture 1 is an instant fab   x |
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"Just be true to yourself and but what others think you should be, hang in there x
Thank you, sadly it’s myself that’s the problem! I’ll keep chipping away though x
Nothing up with you lovely. Just keep on being you......plus picture 1 is an instant fab x"
Ha! That’s kind, thank you! x |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x"
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have "
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all  I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x |
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Unfortunately it's human nature to compare ourselves with others
We are all beautiful to someone, sexy to someone!
You are gorgeous, enjoy the attention and let it inflate your ego but not too much |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x"
And this just goes to show how others never see us the way we do. I always imagined you as confident and a bit sassy, never for one minute did I think you are intimidated on the forums 
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x"
Oh no it doesn't read as a look at me or attention seeking post. I just like to try and show the positives of a lady. We all know you get such a rough time on here from the fools.
Max x |
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"Unfortunately it's human nature to compare ourselves with others
We are all beautiful to someone, sexy to someone!
You are gorgeous, enjoy the attention and let it inflate your ego but not too much "
Haha! There are plenty of people in my life that will make sure that could never happen! |
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Good positive post/thread op. 
It’s hard not to compare on here, as that’s simply what it makes you or I do. I can’t help it. As you’ve said and made clear, it is how we deal with it that matters.
We need to enjoy ourselves.
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
And this just goes to show how others never see us the way we do. I always imagined you as confident and a bit sassy, never for one minute did I think you are intimidated on the forums
Mr"
Really? That’s interesting!
I’m shy, passive and a chronic over-thinker - basically my own worst enemy! |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x
Oh no it doesn't read as a look at me or attention seeking post. I just like to try and show the positives of a lady. We all know you get such a rough time on here from the fools.
Max x"
Thank you Max, that’s reassuring xx |
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"Good positive post/thread op.
It’s hard not to compare on here, as that’s simply what it makes you or I do. I can’t help it. As you’ve said and made clear, it is how we deal with it that matters.
We need to enjoy ourselves.
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Absolutely! And thank you x |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x
Oh no it doesn't read as a look at me or attention seeking post. I just like to try and show the positives of a lady. We all know you get such a rough time on here from the fools.
Max x
Thank you Max, that’s reassuring xx"
Always happy to help inflate a lovely ladies ego xx |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x
Oh no it doesn't read as a look at me or attention seeking post. I just like to try and show the positives of a lady. We all know you get such a rough time on here from the fools.
Max x
Thank you Max, that’s reassuring xx
Always happy to help inflate a lovely ladies ego xx"
I’ve got images of a blow up doll now |
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"In the five years since I discovered Fab this is the longest I’ve stayed without deleting my account - in the past I only ever lasted a few months and never got anywhere near a year. I’d be comparing myself to others, be intimidated on the forums or feel rubbish about myself because I can’t squirt or have multiple orgasms, then I’d end up deleting my account.
I’m taking this current run as a positive sign that despite being my heaviest in five years and my anxiety being the worst it’s ever been, that actually there must be some parts of me that are improving! Still a long way to go (I still do way too much comparing!) but progress nonetheless.
Just a reminder to be kind to yourselves out there x
Your pics are great
Definitely don't need to compare yourself to anyone at all. Just be you and embrace all you have
Thank you!
I’m now embarrassed that this might appear as a ‘look at me’ or reassurance seeking post and that wasn’t my intention at all I intended it more as celebrating how far I’ve come x
Oh no it doesn't read as a look at me or attention seeking post. I just like to try and show the positives of a lady. We all know you get such a rough time on here from the fools.
Max x
Thank you Max, that’s reassuring xx
Always happy to help inflate a lovely ladies ego xx
I’ve got images of a blow up doll now "
Hahaha well im sure a blowup doll of you would still get compliments |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have had this profile for four years but covid has eaten into that. There have been ups and downs along the way and that is part and parcel of the fab life. It is sometimes degrading presenting yourself to others and being rejected. I can wish I had a big cock and smaller breasts, but I haven't lol. What I do have is a good imagination and a wonderful partner to share experiences with and I am thankful for it.
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