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So I'm more than likely heading off to a friends villa in benetichell, near javea in September on my own.
I've been there a few time's some on my own some with friends many moons ago. It's about 90mins from alicante.
So randomly would any females be up for a holiday?
All you need to do is arrange your own flight's, have money for food and drinks as villa all paid for.
If you don't travel with me I'd be happy to collect you and drop off.
Sensibly we should meet a couple of times beforehand to see if we get along.
If your part of a couple as long as he doesn't mind your more than welcome.
Maybe a crazy idea to some but what the hell 
If your interested then send me a message
BTW if you like nudism it has it has a nudist beach |
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over a year ago
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Its not something I would ever do with someone I barely knew over the Internet. You could be an axe murderer!
Good luck OP I have a feeling you're going to need it.
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"So I'm more than likely heading off to a friends villa in benetichell, near javea in September on my own.
I've been there a few time's some on my own some with friends many moons ago. It's about 90mins from alicante.
So randomly would any females be up for a holiday?
All you need to do is arrange your own flight's, have money for food and drinks as villa all paid for.
If you don't travel with me I'd be happy to collect you and drop off.
Sensibly we should meet a couple of times beforehand to see if we get along.
If your part of a couple as long as he doesn't mind your more than welcome.
Maybe a crazy idea to some but what the hell
If your interested then send me a message
BTW if you like nudism it has it has a nudist beach "
Yeeeaaaahhhhhh nah!! Not something I'd let my other half do. You're not really being realistic. Who I'm their right mind would let their other half go with you??
Good luck, but I feel you'd be better offering to pay and then not going yourself
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"Its not something I would ever do with someone I barely knew over the Internet. You could be an axe murderer!
Good luck OP I have a feeling you're going to need it.
T"
Thank you... yep I could be an murderer but I'd struggle to get that through customs.
My personal opinion is its no different to going to a meet, doesn't matter if your male or female you have to trust the other person. Hence me saying I'd want a couple of meetings 1st.
I'm happy to go on my own... just thought I'd chuck the idea out there
BTW... I struggle cutting up my vegetables for dinner so I'd be hopeless with an axe |
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"Its not something I would ever do with someone I barely knew over the Internet. You could be an axe murderer!
Good luck OP I have a feeling you're going to need it.
T
Thank you... yep I could be an murderer but I'd struggle to get that through customs.
My personal opinion is its no different to going to a meet, doesn't matter if your male or female you have to trust the other person. Hence me saying I'd want a couple of meetings 1st.
I'm happy to go on my own... just thought I'd chuck the idea out there
BTW... I struggle cutting up my vegetables for dinner so I'd be hopeless with an axe "
I'm sure they sell axe's abroad too  |
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I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday. |
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"So it's women only...ok
Fraid so fella
Oh I wasn't interested!! And safe to say I doubt anyone else will be either."
If nobody is interested that's fine by me, it's a suggestion that's all, if all the comments are negative then so be it.
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"So I'm more than likely heading off to a friends villa in benetichell, near javea in September on my own.
I've been there a few time's some on my own some with friends many moons ago. It's about 90mins from alicante.
So randomly would any females be up for a holiday?
All you need to do is arrange your own flight's, have money for food and drinks as villa all paid for.
If you don't travel with me I'd be happy to collect you and drop off.
Sensibly we should meet a couple of times beforehand to see if we get along.
If your part of a couple as long as he doesn't mind your more than welcome.
Maybe a crazy idea to some but what the hell
If your interested then send me a message
BTW if you like nudism it has it has a nudist beach "
Are you expecting sex?? |
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Yes I would like sex, hence female's only, but I won't just have sex with anyone. There has to be a connection for both of us which is why I've suggested meetings beforehand.
I don't see there's much difference to arranging a meet at someone's house/hotel |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns "
Are knitting patterns available though? 
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially. |
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"Yes I would like sex, hence female's only, but I won't just have sex with anyone. There has to be a connection for both of us which is why I've suggested meetings beforehand.
I don't see there's much difference to arranging a meet at someone's house/hotel"
There's not.
I think people are wary because they'd be in a foreign country and its not as easy as getting a taxi home if things didn't work out. However you've clearly said you would meet beforehand and I guess you'd set boundaries between you. As far as I can see nobody is being forced to go on holiday against their will  . |
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns
Are knitting patterns available though?
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially."
I have a large supply of crochet patterns but not knitting I'm afraid  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns
Are knitting patterns available though?
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially.
I have a large supply of crochet patterns but not knitting I'm afraid "
I absolutely need to learn both... I'll be messaging to ask for some patterns once I've managed to master the basics (the basics being how not to cut my circulation off by tying my fingers in knots. I may be some time) |
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns
Are knitting patterns available though?
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially.
I have a large supply of crochet patterns but not knitting I'm afraid
I absolutely need to learn both... I'll be messaging to ask for some patterns once I've managed to master the basics (the basics being how not to cut my circulation off by tying my fingers in knots. I may be some time)"
Lol. Crochet is easy but you need to relax |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns
Are knitting patterns available though?
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially.
I have a large supply of crochet patterns but not knitting I'm afraid
I absolutely need to learn both... I'll be messaging to ask for some patterns once I've managed to master the basics (the basics being how not to cut my circulation off by tying my fingers in knots. I may be some time)
Lol. Crochet is easy but you need to relax "
See... failed at the first hurdle!
Maybe a holiday could help  |
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns
Are knitting patterns available though?
I think it's a nice gesture, and the fact that the OP has acknowledged the need to meet up beforehand is good.
A holiday with a fellow fabber would be fun, potentially.
I have a large supply of crochet patterns but not knitting I'm afraid
I absolutely need to learn both... I'll be messaging to ask for some patterns once I've managed to master the basics (the basics being how not to cut my circulation off by tying my fingers in knots. I may be some time)
Lol. Crochet is easy but you need to relax
See... failed at the first hurdle!
Maybe a holiday could help "
That's because you bought knotting patterns. Easy mistake |
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"I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday. "
With a hotel meet, you can change your mind and go home, or call up friends for help.
Abroad, in a private villa, you are stuck. No easy way home, no friends to call upon, and potentially no one nearby who speaks the same language incase something goes astray.
It's 'much' riskier. |
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"I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday.
With a hotel meet, you can change your mind and go home, or call up friends for help.
Abroad, in a private villa, you are stuck. No easy way home, no friends to call upon, and potentially no one nearby who speaks the same language incase something goes astray.
It's 'much' riskier. "
Not saying you would do anything wrong OP, just saying why to me the risk would outweigh the benefits of a holiday.
Good luck with it, or finding someone on fab when you are over there (I'd actually like to hear how that goes if that's the way you go, as I've never looked at fab abroad) |
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"I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday.
With a hotel meet, you can change your mind and go home, or call up friends for help.
Abroad, in a private villa, you are stuck. No easy way home, no friends to call upon, and potentially no one nearby who speaks the same language incase something goes astray.
It's 'much' riskier. "
Then I'm sure any woman who was thinking of going would take that in to account. He's taking a risk too.
He's asked on a swingers site if a woman would like to go on holiday with him. Nobody has to take him up on the offer. |
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"I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday.
With a hotel meet, you can change your mind and go home, or call up friends for help.
Abroad, in a private villa, you are stuck. No easy way home, no friends to call upon, and potentially no one nearby who speaks the same language incase something goes astray.
It's 'much' riskier. "
THIS!! |
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"Does nobody give women credit for being able to consider the possible pitfalls of this before they get involved?
Not everyone does though do they?"
I think this thread is pretty much proof that most people go straight to the axe murder theory. As if everyone beith bad intent leaves a trail of evidence on s swingers site.
Nobody is particularly concerned about him waking up one morning to find his money and passport gone.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Damn, I could have done with a holiday, then saw it was only open to women.
Guess it's not 'just' a holiday. "
I was thinking the same, and I can’t get any time off work or afford flights or money for alcohol and food. Other than that it’s sounds great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many nasty comments on here!
I would be open to going on holiday with someone from here if I got on with them and trusted them
He has mentioned meeting a few times beforehand so it's not like he's expecting any women to just meet him at the airport for the first time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I got back from Crete last week, after going with someone from here. I'm still alive  .
I personally wouldn't do it again,but I hope you have a great holiday OP and good luck with your search |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well OP I’m not going to give you a negative reply I actually think it’s a nice thought, I think if possible you should of allowed more time to get to know somebody and build a trusting friendship, you are asking for a huge amount of trust from any potential interested lady. Good luck though. Have a great time either way |
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"What if the lady changes her mine when over there about having sex. Would you throw her out or continue as friends "
Exactly this. All this pretending to be friends is just ruse to get sex. If the women said she will come for company but no sex lets see if this generous offer would still be on the table. No offence OP but guys will say and do anything to get a shag. Not saying you are but the facts are it happens lots. |
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"What if the lady changes her mine when over there about having sex. Would you throw her out or continue as friends
Exactly this. All this pretending to be friends is just ruse to get sex. If the women said she will come for company but no sex lets see if this generous offer would still be on the table. No offence OP but guys will say and do anything to get a shag. Not saying you are but the facts are it happens lots."
This guy has been perfectly clear in his intention. Nearly all of us are on here to get sex, why should he be any different? |
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"Getting fed up of seeing men labelled creepy. "
I am!
Man on swingers site wants sex = creepy
Woman on swingers site wants sex = empowered
I also get fed up of the assumption that women are naive and can't think things through. |
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"What if the lady changes her mine when over there about having sex. Would you throw her out or continue as friends
Exactly this. All this pretending to be friends is just ruse to get sex. If the women said she will come for company but no sex lets see if this generous offer would still be on the table. No offence OP but guys will say and do anything to get a shag. Not saying you are but the facts are it happens lots."
Why are you digging at the op? It's hard enough for guys on here without guys making it even harder for other guys by casting unfounded aspersions. |
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"Does nobody give women credit for being able to consider the possible pitfalls of this before they get involved?
Not everyone does though do they?
I think this thread is pretty much proof that most people go straight to the axe murder theory. As if everyone beith bad intent leaves a trail of evidence on s swingers site.
Nobody is particularly concerned about him waking up one morning to find his money and passport gone.
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I think that's because the holiday is his idea, not theirs.
Personally I wouldn't want to take a stranger on holiday for exactly the same reason I wouldn't want to go on one with them.
It has nothing to do with him being a man or a women, and it has nothing to do with not trusting others to make up their own mind. They can do as they want. No one is stopping them, but simply raising their concerns and surely everyone is entitled to air those on an open forum as long as they aren't offesive or abusive? |
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"Its not something I would ever do with someone I barely knew over the Internet. You could be an axe murderer!
Good luck OP I have a feeling you're going to need it.
T
Thank you... yep I could be an murderer but I'd struggle to get that through customs.
My personal opinion is its no different to going to a meet, doesn't matter if your male or female you have to trust the other person. Hence me saying I'd want a couple of meetings 1st.
I'm happy to go on my own... just thought I'd chuck the idea out there
BTW... I struggle cutting up my vegetables for dinner so I'd be hopeless with an axe "
Ha ha this reminds me of my recent meet! We were going to a t room but to far out for me to cycle and i don't drive! So he said he pick me up I said u might b an axe murderer! But anyway he picked me up at end of road and when I got in I looked over the back seats and said just looking for the axe! He said it's in the boot lol ! But good luck with the holiday planes u never know u might get lucky x |
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"Does nobody give women credit for being able to consider the possible pitfalls of this before they get involved?
Not everyone does though do they?
I think this thread is pretty much proof that most people go straight to the axe murder theory. As if everyone beith bad intent leaves a trail of evidence on s swingers site.
Nobody is particularly concerned about him waking up one morning to find his money and passport gone.
I think that's because the holiday is his idea, not theirs.
Personally I wouldn't want to take a stranger on holiday for exactly the same reason I wouldn't want to go on one with them.
It has nothing to do with him being a man or a women, and it has nothing to do with not trusting others to make up their own mind. They can do as they want. No one is stopping them, but simply raising their concerns and surely everyone is entitled to air those on an open forum as long as they aren't offesive or abusive? "
Yes everyone is entitled to their opinion but they aren't entitled to express it unchallenged |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Does nobody give women credit for being able to consider the possible pitfalls of this before they get involved?
Not everyone does though do they?
I think this thread is pretty much proof that most people go straight to the axe murder theory. As if everyone beith bad intent leaves a trail of evidence on s swingers site.
Nobody is particularly concerned about him waking up one morning to find his money and passport gone.
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My logic about this is that I'll probably be safe. There isn't that high a number of axe murderers in the world, let alone the UK. Very slim chance of me hooking up with another one |
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"Does nobody give women credit for being able to consider the possible pitfalls of this before they get involved?
Not everyone does though do they?
I think this thread is pretty much proof that most people go straight to the axe murder theory. As if everyone beith bad intent leaves a trail of evidence on s swingers site.
Nobody is particularly concerned about him waking up one morning to find his money and passport gone.
My logic about this is that I'll probably be safe. There isn't that high a number of axe murderers in the world, let alone the UK. Very slim chance of me hooking up with another one "
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Wow! So much negativity on here.
I think it's a great idea!
Having been a woman who's travelled alone many times I understand the concerns felt by many here, but some women can actually assess risk and make informed decisions if they are in receipt of all the facts.
Sadly the logistics don't work for me, but if they did I'd give it serious consideration! |
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"People in Spain use Fab too, so you'd be better off finding someone for a 'meet' once you're out there."
Forgive me for being controversial, by why would that carry any less risk for either party ? Meeting anyone new must carry a risk.
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"I don't think it's much different to a hotel meet really just longer.
I honestly don't know why on a swingers site where people regularly ask to meet for sex people wonder why a guy wants to take a woman on holiday. "
I have to agree |
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"People in Spain use Fab too, so you'd be better off finding someone for a 'meet' once you're out there.Forgive me for being controversial, by why would that carry any less risk for either party ? Meeting anyone new must carry a risk. "
Yes exactly! My friends and family know I'm on here and meet peeps they say don't u think its dangerous meeting strangers of Internet? I say no more dangerous than meeting strangers in a supermarket/pub etc., after all a stranger is just that wherever they from lol x |
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why.
What's wrong with that? Not many of us are here for knitting patterns "
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"Basically wants someone to shag. If genuine want company why not ask a bloke? Creepy written all over it thats why."
Isn't that the main reason for being on a swingers site ?
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Seems like a lot of people on here find it odd and/or creepy that the guy would like sex with his lady companion. Does this mean most people are only here for the stimulating conversation. I understand the need for caution, as in most aspects of life, but I feel this guy is being unfairly labelled creepy ? Why ? Swingers site/ nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that ! |
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"Seems like a lot of people on here find it odd and/or creepy that the guy would like sex with his lady companion. Does this mean most people are only here for the stimulating conversation. I understand the need for caution, as in most aspects of life, but I feel this guy is being unfairly labelled creepy ? Why ? Swingers site/ nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that !"
Absofuckinlutly agree! X |
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"Seems like a lot of people on here find it odd and/or creepy that the guy would like sex with his lady companion. Does this mean most people are only here for the stimulating conversation. I understand the need for caution, as in most aspects of life, but I feel this guy is being unfairly labelled creepy ? Why ? Swingers site/ nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that !"
For me it's because the initial post didn't mention that, just mentioned going on holiday. This made it seem more shady.
If he'd been clear of what he was after initially, then fine, everyone would have been on the same page.
As it was, it reminds me of when people invite you for a social, but are actually expecting sex and get pissed off when they don't.
In the OP's defence he does make it clear in a later post, so it's all good. |
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"What if the lady changes her mine when over there about having sex. Would you throw her out or continue as friends
Exactly this. All this pretending to be friends is just ruse to get sex. If the women said she will come for company but no sex lets see if this generous offer would still be on the table. No offence OP but guys will say and do anything to get a shag. Not saying you are but the facts are it happens lots."
One reply I thought I had better reply to.
I'm not a sexual monster or anything like that. Id not throw my toys out the pram or get angry.I don't want to spend my holiday with someone who feels uncomfortable around me. Who's to say I may not want sex with her???
If she didn't want sex I'd reassure her it's fine and let's just enjoy the sun etc etc |
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Hi my name is Ricardo Iglesias. I own a chain of hardware stores across Spain and Catalonia. Someone tells me you want to buy an axe.
I also sell cable ties |
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"Hi my name is Ricardo Iglesias. I own a chain of hardware stores across Spain and Catalonia. Someone tells me you want to buy an axe.
I also sell cable ties "
Yes it seems that I maybe an axe murderer so I had best place an order.
Also are you the same Ricardo that someone has asked me to meet with. As I got a message asking if I'd take over a suitcase for them for £300 |
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"Getting fed up of seeing men labelled creepy.
I am!
Man on swingers site wants sex = creepy
Woman on swingers site wants sex = empowered
I also get fed up of the assumption that women are naive and can't think things through. "
Yep, agreed. One would think if a lady was interested these communication methods like conversations would happen and God forbid a lady is intelligent enough to use her own common sense and judgements in making her own decisions.
Good luck OP, a nice offer for someone |
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"Hi my name is Ricardo Iglesias. I own a chain of hardware stores across Spain and Catalonia. Someone tells me you want to buy an axe.
I also sell cable ties
Yes it seems that I maybe an axe murderer so I had best place an order.
Also are you the same Ricardo that someone has asked me to meet with. As I got a message asking if I'd take over a suitcase for them for £300 "
Buy 2 and I’ll throw in a free tarp.
Did you look inside the suitcase? |
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