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By MysteryMan22PR OP Find posts by MysteryMan22PR Man
5 minutes ago
Preston
So I have recently been meeting with a lovely woman, not through fab, we get a long so well, the sexual chemistry is mind blowing, my predicament is the fact I still love to swing and have adventures, how do I addres this with my new partner without her running a mile and more importantly how do I ask her to come and explore with me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She'll do one of two things either run or stay
Question is could you give up swinging for her.  "
Thats the other question you need to be able to answer when talking to a non swinger about the lifestyle |
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"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"
Has she said she’s bi and could you ask her about fantasies etc to see how open she is or where her mind goes when she fantasises. |
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"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"
Test the waters by asking her what her fantasies are. Then when she's told you maybe tell her you've thought about her with another woman. However if she's receptive to that you may have to be receptive to her wanting another cock. Also it maybe she's not into ladies but does want other guys.
Hope this helps op
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"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"
So it’s all about what you want? I’d tread very carefully otherwise you might loose her |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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If you didn’t / haven’t had sec yet yet then I’d just go slowly and get to know and let her get to know your preference for non monogamy but definitely don’t have sex under a false pretence , not a good way to start a relationship.
In my experience some women are open to the idea but feel it’s wrong and so just needed to
meet the right man to lead them astray , some are just voyeristic and like being introduced to clubs but not swinging, but most are not happy sharing their man for a long time
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