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Is the swinging lifestyle hindering my chances?
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By *rettyflamingo OP Woman
over a year ago
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I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.
Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more? |
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"I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.
Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more?"
Do you feel it might be? |
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I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say no not at all for me I find it makes it better
As when I am on a date I haven’t got sex on my mind so it allows me to look at the quality’s in someone’s without need to have sex with them
You can do both fronts
If you find someone to settle down with you can just leave fab and shut the door don’t need to tell them
As it shouldn’t hold any merriment against you for what you did before meeting the person
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By (user no longer on site)
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Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway 
How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?
Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens. |
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By *rettyflamingo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner. "
I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too |
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By *rettyflamingo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway
How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?
Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens. "
Thank you lovely |
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"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner.
I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too "
Then I would say being involved already is a positive. I've introduced partners to clubs and stuff before and it was useful we weren't both new to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too "
I think that’s the ultimate goal, but it’s a very hard thing to find someone for a LTR that is totally on the same page with regards to swinging and the inherent jealousy and trust issues that seems to come hand in hand with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don’t think it is
However, on here , as anywhere I guess - people are extremely fickle. They can tell you everything you want to hear !!!
I truly wish you all the luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway
How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?
Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens.
Thank you lovely "
You’re welcome.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on whether a potential partner appreciates and understands the lifestyle. If not, there may be an issue.
Some men do look at a woman's past when determining if there's a future. "
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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OP I've had LTRs from stumbling across a fellow minded soul on Fab and it's just happened... then you find the balance as a swinging couple if that's what you both want.
There's plenty of other couple examples here now too who met through Fab.
Hang in there, and just enjoy what you're enjoying |
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By *rettyflamingo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It depends on whether a potential partner appreciates and understands the lifestyle. If not, there may be an issue.
Some men do look at a woman's past when determining if there's a future.
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This very true I’d ideally like to find someone already in this lifestyle |
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By *rettyflamingo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"OP I've had LTRs from stumbling across a fellow minded soul on Fab and it's just happened... then you find the balance as a swinging couple if that's what you both want.
There's plenty of other couple examples here now too who met through Fab.
Hang in there, and just enjoy what you're enjoying "
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"I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.
Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more?"
Without knowing you personally, how could anyone besides you, objectively and accurately answer this question in the first place? |
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