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over a year ago
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These threads show how much people know about the female anatomy
The vigina is elastic it’s stretch’s and snaps back
Also “tightness” all depends on how turned on they are
If they tight sorry to say but your not doing something right
Also a baby’s heads much bigger than a cock and they seems to be fine after birth so I don’t think a cock is going to change much
This kind off thinking is a outdated outlook on shameing woman who like to have sex with different people or the same person
Oooo she’s banged 20-30-40-500 guys she’s ruined there is no such thing |
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"Ruined: To have sex with another in such a manner so the partner is never quite the same.
Can anyone actually say they’ve done this to someone? "
Not me but have women friends who have been abused and that changed them psychologically ...not in a good way |
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I use to work with a guy who ruined women but his definition was that he was so good in bed that no other guy could compete, so she was ruined in the sense that she would never have great sex again unless she was blessed to be invited back a second time.
The amazing thing was he actually believed his own bs... |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
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Some beautifully heavy responses from the fun brigade here...
Think OP is talking of the saying in terms of great sex that leaves someone always wanting it and no one ever meeting that threshold again...
But the scorn and man hate in the answer above is quite comical.
Especially as you hear women the the phrase too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you mean to ruin as in to do physical harm or to mentally ruin by doing psychological harm or to ruin in the manner that it’s so good, the lady doesn’t want to ever go elsewhere?
Your OP isn’t clear in that way.
I do know that any messages with the word “ruin” in get deleted. |
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"Do you mean to ruin as in to do physical harm or to mentally ruin by doing psychological harm or to ruin in the manner that it’s so good, the lady doesn’t want to ever go elsewhere?
Your OP isn’t clear in that way.
I do know that any messages with the word “ruin” in get deleted. "
I’m guessing he means that the sex was so good and different that you couldn’t look at another in the same way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always looked at it as being left a sweating, quivering mess, hardly able to speak and in multi-orgasm heaven, but that might just be me "
That’s a lovely way of putting it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think there’s more too it! Both psychological and physical. I think you can be “ruined” (by the definition given) by the way kiss someone kisses you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a fine line between giving pleasure and abusing someone.... language like 'ruined' is typical male oriented machismo bullshit.
We have had a few comments from guys asking to meet, and us saying no and getting a response along the lines of .... "oh you don't know what you're missing - I'd ruin you !!".... er really? don't think so... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is a fine line between giving pleasure and abusing someone.... language like 'ruined' is typical male oriented machismo bullshit.
We have had a few comments from guys asking to meet, and us saying no and getting a response along the lines of .... "oh you don't know what you're missing - I'd ruin you !!".... er really? don't think so... "
Male or unrated? - I’ve heard loads of women use that term! Usually talking about Harry Styles! lol |
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"There is a fine line between giving pleasure and abusing someone.... language like 'ruined' is typical male oriented machismo bullshit.
We have had a few comments from guys asking to meet, and us saying no and getting a response along the lines of .... "oh you don't know what you're missing - I'd ruin you !!".... er really? don't think so... "
I'd say they'd well and truly ruined it....for themselves! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured 
You’re part of the random crew too then? "
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I "
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining "
My turn!! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know 
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo 
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!"
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining "
Said you …….never…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny! "
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!"
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never…. "
Erm, please refer to my previous comment….. |
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"Ruined: To have sex with another in such a manner so the partner is never quite the same.
Can anyone actually say they’ve done this to someone? "
Yeah. Did it to my wife and myself back in the day actually.
Most other people would say I got us pregnant but neither of us have been the same since |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment….."
Alright clunge clam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment…..
Alright clunge clam "
It’s gapping thank you VERY MUCH |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
I have had a couple of ex partners tell me that I have ruined them for others - inasmuch as the sex was incredible.
It could be taken as an ego boost but in reality I found it a little disturbing. I really don't want to be compared against anyone. I want them to find joy in intimate moments with others, not have it marred with a "but it's not..." sentiment, however fleeting. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment…..
Alright clunge clam
It’s gapping thank you VERY MUCH"
But is it a ruined gapping clunge clam? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam "
Except me.  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam
Except me. "
Challenege accepted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ruined: To have sex with another in such a manner so the partner is never quite the same.
Can anyone actually say they’ve done this to someone? "
Ridiculous term , we block anyone that asks if J wants to be " Ruined " pathetic. |
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"These threads show how much people know about the female anatomy
The vigina is elastic it’s stretch’s and snaps back
Also “tightness” all depends on how turned on they are
If they tight sorry to say but your not doing something right
Also a baby’s heads much bigger than a cock and they seems to be fine after birth so I don’t think a cock is going to change much
This kind off thinking is a outdated outlook on shameing woman who like to have sex with different people or the same person
Oooo she’s banged 20-30-40-500 guys she’s ruined there is no such thing "
Well said
To many know nothing pricks around |
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over a year ago
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"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam
Except me.
Challenege accepted "
Especially don't want my clunge gapped as a challenege. Yeesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment…..
Alright clunge clam
It’s gapping thank you VERY MUCH
But is it a ruined gapping clunge clam?"
Who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment…..
Alright clunge clam
It’s gapping thank you VERY MUCH
But is it a ruined gapping clunge clam?
Who knows "
Not yet… |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"From two particular people - hell yes, because they know what I want/like and I trust them.
From a random, no - fuck off
I'm honoured
You’re part of the random crew too then?
Oh. Hang on.
Crap. I totally assumed wrong there, didn't I
Alright randomers, one at a time, I can only take so much ruining
Said you …….never….
Erm, please refer to my previous comment…..
Alright clunge clam
It’s gapping thank you VERY MUCH
But is it a ruined gapping clunge clam?
Who knows "
See if you can fit a sky remote in sideways and come back to us |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam
Except me.
Challenege accepted
Especially don't want my clunge gapped as a challenege. Yeesh."
But what about your clunge clam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate sayings such as "ruined", "wrecked" etc, in terms of describing sex. They are brutal, totally misogynistic, and display a complete lack of respect for women."
I get ya, although I’ve been with women who prefer misogyny, brutalism and disrespect in bed |
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"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam
Except me.
Challenege accepted
Especially don't want my clunge gapped as a challenege. Yeesh.
But what about your clunge clam "
It's staying clammed shut at present |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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So from someone I don't know at all? It wouldn't work. In the slightest. And yep, I really do get the problematic language. Completely. It's awful isn't it? A systematic representation of the misogynistic, porn obsessed zeitgeist.
But... there's a small part of me that actually quite likes the idea of being ruined. Shocker. Where I'm almost cockdr*nk and not able to think of anything really, barely able to walk after many, many orgasms and slightly dazed in the very best of ways. Where my body physically aches in the days after and I can press certain points and relive things. An intoxicating, primal fuck where I feel every sensation keenly. That's what ruined conjures in my mind. Not ruining my sexual experiences with others but ruining my rather prim and proper facade, my desire to be in control constantly.
So... I don't hate the word.
I'll go and hand in my feminist card. Rad fem me of a decade ago would be shaking her head in disapproval, feel free to join in. |
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"So from someone I don't know at all? It wouldn't work. In the slightest. And yep, I really do get the problematic language. Completely. It's awful isn't it? A systematic representation of the misogynistic, porn obsessed zeitgeist.
But... there's a small part of me that actually quite likes the idea of being ruined. Shocker. Where I'm almost cockdr*nk and not able to think of anything really, barely able to walk after many, many orgasms and slightly dazed in the very best of ways. Where my body physically aches in the days after and I can press certain points and relive things. An intoxicating, primal fuck where I feel every sensation keenly. That's what ruined conjures in my mind. Not ruining my sexual experiences with others but ruining my rather prim and proper facade, my desire to be in control constantly.
So... I don't hate the word.
I'll go and hand in my feminist card. Rad fem me of a decade ago would be shaking her head in disapproval, feel free to join in."
I'll join the club for liking being ruined too thanks Meli |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"So from someone I don't know at all? It wouldn't work. In the slightest. And yep, I really do get the problematic language. Completely. It's awful isn't it? A systematic representation of the misogynistic, porn obsessed zeitgeist.
But... there's a small part of me that actually quite likes the idea of being ruined. Shocker. Where I'm almost cockdr*nk and not able to think of anything really, barely able to walk after many, many orgasms and slightly dazed in the very best of ways. Where my body physically aches in the days after and I can press certain points and relive things. An intoxicating, primal fuck where I feel every sensation keenly. That's what ruined conjures in my mind. Not ruining my sexual experiences with others but ruining my rather prim and proper facade, my desire to be in control constantly.
So... I don't hate the word.
I'll go and hand in my feminist card. Rad fem me of a decade ago would be shaking her head in disapproval, feel free to join in.
I'll join the club for liking being ruined too thanks Meli "
Oh phew, so glad you're on board! Thought you might be. You get it. |
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"So from someone I don't know at all? It wouldn't work. In the slightest. And yep, I really do get the problematic language. Completely. It's awful isn't it? A systematic representation of the misogynistic, porn obsessed zeitgeist.
But... there's a small part of me that actually quite likes the idea of being ruined. Shocker. Where I'm almost cockdr*nk and not able to think of anything really, barely able to walk after many, many orgasms and slightly dazed in the very best of ways. Where my body physically aches in the days after and I can press certain points and relive things. An intoxicating, primal fuck where I feel every sensation keenly. That's what ruined conjures in my mind. Not ruining my sexual experiences with others but ruining my rather prim and proper facade, my desire to be in control constantly.
So... I don't hate the word.
I'll go and hand in my feminist card. Rad fem me of a decade ago would be shaking her head in disapproval, feel free to join in.
I'll join the club for liking being ruined too thanks Meli
Oh phew, so glad you're on board! Thought you might be. You get it. "
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Yes.
They don’t call me the fanny gapper for nothing you know
I can't tell you how disappointed I am in this typo
Which one?
It's GAPE argh!
No one wants a gaping fanny. But everyone wants a gapping fanny!
Not me. Seeing the word gapping makes my clunge clam shut!
I like that! I’m going to steal it.
Everyone wants a gapping Clunge clam
Except me.
Challenege accepted
Especially don't want my clunge gapped as a challenege. Yeesh.
But what about your clunge clam
It's staying clammed shut at present "
At present….
Doesn’t mean forever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not sure if I’ve ever done this to another but have most certainly been the person who is ruined, I think of it as more having the greatest sex of your life to date and being ruined for all others until someone manages to top it!! It can actually be life changing and scary to think you may never have sex that great again (unless you travel 2000k to get it lol) |
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