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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of."

The block button does that for you.. a millisecond not going to intrude on your wasteful experience.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of."

What happened?

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

The block button does that for you.. a millisecond not going to intrude on your wasteful experience."

This.

Plus I'd have to ban myself.

I've probably wasted days of my life in the forums......

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

How would you prove it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next. "

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Everyone on the forums should be banned then because I waste hours of my life on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Message logs…… simple really


"How would you prove it?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Today iv seen more bloody moaning than an amsterdam brothel

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next. "

Who’s gonna do that?! Most of the mods are volunteers as far as I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?


"Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?"

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next. "

"But I did show up at the Wetherspoons in Chorley. I sat there for an hour. I never saw him. He's the time waster, ban him, not me!"

(Note: fictitious example for illustrative purposes)

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Today iv seen more bloody moaning than an amsterdam brothel "

I only popped on for 5 minutes today . Nowt but moaning and negativity! I’m going back to my cocktail

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?"

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Oh my mistake & that makes it ok. I clearly missed that in life’s lessons


"There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Who’s gonna do that?! Most of the mods are volunteers as far as I know "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread has wasted my time. OP should be banned!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?"

Did you do anything but swap messages on here?

Phone call?

Webcam?

Facetime?

Or did you just assume the other party was genuine?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a risk on here, OP. It just is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

The other party is verified on here.


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Did you do anything but swap messages on here?

Phone call?

Webcam?

Facetime?

Or did you just assume the other party was genuine?

A"

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh my mistake & that makes it ok. I clearly missed that in life’s lessons

There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Who’s gonna do that?! Most of the mods are volunteers as far as I know "

What’s the stupid roly eyes for?

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By *akie32Man  over a year ago

winchester


"Message logs…… simple really

How would you prove it?"

so people arent alowd to change thier minds then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’d be happy with that but nit arrange something and let them travel then ghost them


"Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable. "

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh my mistake & that makes it ok. I clearly missed that in life’s lessons

There’s ways of proving everything. Especially on here, message logs for example.

One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Who’s gonna do that?! Most of the mods are volunteers as far as I know

What’s the stupid roly eyes for?"

Oh were they not meant for me? Maybe not. Your comments are all over the shop!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting? "

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thing is you need to define what wasting someone's time is. I've had people message me And when I have politely declined have told me I'm wasting their time.

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By *akie32Man  over a year ago

winchester


"It's a risk on here, OP. It just is."

people get stood up all the time in real life too, get overr it and move on

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By *mp411Man  over a year ago

chester


"Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable. "

That's the point you would let them know if you change your mind but the op said he was ghosted and that's naughty

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's a risk on here, OP. It just is.

people get stood up all the time in real life too, get overr it and move on"

Or vet more carefully

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By *abasaurus RexMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It sucks, I’d be pissed too but it is what it is. As Nora said, no one to police it and no real way to prove it.

Block and move on is the only option really, but personally I do think you’re entitled to have a good vent about it. It’s pretty poor form on the other parties part!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's frustrating for sure, but how can it be moderated, really?

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d like to add that I do sympathise. I’ve never been stood up but I would not be happy! I imagine I would make it my life’s work to hunt the bastards down!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard


"Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable.

That's the point you would let them know if you change your mind but the op said he was ghosted and that's naughty "

True but he’s saying all “time wasters” should be banned. Lots would find the above to be time wasting in their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You're on Fab, these things happen unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Completely, yet the ones that are replying saying this is a waste of time have actually taken the time to reply? Rather than just move on and not waste their own time. Oh the irony


"Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable.

That's the point you would let them know if you change your mind but the op said he was ghosted and that's naughty

True but he’s saying all “time wasters” should be banned. Lots would find the above to be time wasting in their opinion. "

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan  over a year ago

Little clacton

Sometimes people have priorities outside of fab

People may cancel for numerous reason,don`t mean they`re a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Time is your choice no one can make the decisions besides you. No one twisting your arm now are they? Take accountability in your decisions and quit blaming everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I wouldn’t know? Just venting really


"It's frustrating for sure, but how can it be moderated, really?

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’d like to add that I do sympathise. I’ve never been stood up but I would not be happy! I imagine I would make it my life’s work to hunt the bastards down! "

I have. I had an angry wank, put up a meet request then remembered it takes me forever to fancy anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yeah, you clearly read none of the replies


"Sometimes people have priorities outside of fab

People may cancel for numerous reason,don`t mean they`re a time waster "

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?"

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

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By *abasaurus RexMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Who’s to say what is wasting time?

We could be chatting for ages, then I change my mind.

We could be arranging a meet but the week/days before, I change my mind. As long as I let you know and don’t just no-show, that’s acceptable.

That's the point you would let them know if you change your mind but the op said he was ghosted and that's naughty

True but he’s saying all “time wasters” should be banned. Lots would find the above to be time wasting in their opinion. "

I think most people would be pissed off about it and wish there were some repercussions and want to have a moan about it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d like to add that I do sympathise. I’ve never been stood up but I would not be happy! I imagine I would make it my life’s work to hunt the bastards down!

I have. I had an angry wank, put up a meet request then remembered it takes me forever to fancy anyone "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yeah…….. it’s my fault I was ghosted.


"Time is your choice no one can make the decisions besides you. No one twisting your arm now are they? Take accountability in your decisions and quit blaming everyone else. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn’t know? Just venting really

It's frustrating for sure, but how can it be moderated, really?

"

It's frustrating, people are frustrating, but come on, it's not worth getting so worked up.

Move on, is all that can be done

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.


"All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not..."

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?"

I'm would not meet anyone who only supplied a postcode, that sort of smacks of a lack of commitment from the get go. Maybe this is a valuable lesson and not a waste of your time??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn’t know? Just venting really

It's frustrating for sure, but how can it be moderated, really?

It's frustrating, people are frustrating, but come on, it's not worth getting so worked up.

Move on, is all that can be done "

Very true!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not..."

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next. "

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of."

Should you ban yourself for wasting your own time?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Today iv seen more bloody moaning than an amsterdam brothel "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty "

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline."

Thank you! Someone with some common sense

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

Thank you! Someone with some common sense "

I have plenty of common sense. That’s not an issue. Who’s going to monitor all this then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is an option to report for not turning up to a meet.

Have you utilised this OP? Might be a better use of your time than this post?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

Thank you! Someone with some common sense "

It's not common sense though because can you imagine how many reports like that and seen shots admin would have to get through.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

Thank you! Someone with some common sense "

Though, if they were secretly hidden away, saw you and thought you were not like your pictures and so changed their mind.

That's a change of mind, not a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

Thank you! Someone with some common sense

I have plenty of common sense. That’s not an issue. Who’s going to monitor all this then?"

We agree Nora!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There is an option to report for not turning up to a meet.

Have you utilised this OP? Might be a better use of your time than this post? "

I didn’t know about this! I’ll go do that now! Thank you fir the helpful comment

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones. "

If you assume it hasn't been tampered with.

If you assume examination of it is free.

If you assume it's worth the time or hassle

If you assume that your site supporter fee would pay for it.

I wouldn't assume

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One person’s word against another’s. will never work. Next.

Actually really easy to prove with screen shots of the chat and of their profile going offline.

Thank you! Someone with some common sense

I have plenty of common sense. That’s not an issue. Who’s going to monitor all this then?

We agree Nora! "

Hahaha bloody hell! We never agree!

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones. "

You know what's also free?

Making a phone call to check Martha isn't Arthur.

Popping on a video chat to check that the woman you're messaging isn't a 64 year old retired welder from scunthorpe.

All manner of checks in addition to the profile being verified.

But if you're happy to travel without doing any due diligence then thems the risks........

A

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones.

You know what's also free?

Making a phone call to check Martha isn't Arthur.

Popping on a video chat to check that the woman you're messaging isn't a 64 year old retired welder from scunthorpe.

All manner of checks in addition to the profile being verified.

But if you're happy to travel without doing any due diligence then thems the risks........

A"

Indeed. This is personal responsibility stuff

If I get a funny feeling about a meet, I check further. Or meet in the middle on neutral ground. Or get on a video call on Telegram. Etc

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones.

You know what's also free?

Making a phone call to check Martha isn't Arthur.

Popping on a video chat to check that the woman you're messaging isn't a 64 year old retired welder from scunthorpe.

All manner of checks in addition to the profile being verified.

But if you're happy to travel without doing any due diligence then thems the risks........

A

Indeed. This is personal responsibility stuff

If I get a funny feeling about a meet, I check further. Or meet in the middle on neutral ground. Or get on a video call on Telegram. Etc "

That's common sense.....

Surely?

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"And again, the data you speak off is on most current smartphones. The data as soon as modified leaves a trace in the data. It’s all accessible on the smartphone.

All of that data is on most smartphones as standard

Yes, I have a pic of exactly where I was waiting & it can be uploaded to fab too. What’s your point?

I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you have CCTV of you waiting?

Can you prove via metadata that it was taken with your device at the allocated time, cross referenced against this person's records, and the image unedited?

Who's going to pay for this kind of analysis, and wouldn't that be a waste of time?

And it can be manipulated, and would need to be uploaded appropriately and examined by appropriate analysts.

I thought I'd gone absurd to make a point, but apparently not...

If you think that kind of data would be examined for the purposes of validating meeting for casual sex, I don't know what to tell you. That's nutty

My point to you is you’re incorrect at it costing a fortune. It’s all available for free on most current smartphones.

You know what's also free?

Making a phone call to check Martha isn't Arthur.

Popping on a video chat to check that the woman you're messaging isn't a 64 year old retired welder from scunthorpe.

All manner of checks in addition to the profile being verified.

But if you're happy to travel without doing any due diligence then thems the risks........

A

Indeed. This is personal responsibility stuff

If I get a funny feeling about a meet, I check further. Or meet in the middle on neutral ground. Or get on a video call on Telegram. Etc "

And if you don’t get a funny feeling? Which I didn’t???????

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?"

Do you look like your pics?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You drive distance to meet a stranger on the internet with only a postcode?

Did alarm bells not ring? I wouldn’t have left the house without an address or a venue to be meeting at,

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yes! They are current pictures


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?

Do you look like your pics? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You drive distance to meet a stranger on the internet with only a postcode?

Did alarm bells not ring? I wouldn’t have left the house without an address or a venue to be meeting at, "

Did he say he drove a distance? Even down the road needs a postcode and if you're meeting in a pub or similar, that's all you need. You can look up where it is before you leave the house.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"I was invited for a meet. We chatted, postcode was given. I arrived, asked to wait for a few minutes then ghosted……. WTF is that about?

Just my opinion; Anyone that waste’s another members time should be banned. Time is the only thing we can’t get more of.

What happened?"

There is an option to report for the likes of this, you can do it from the profile or the message exchange

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

This thread is sad really, if what the man says is true it is something that none of the posters would want to happen to them so the replies are not helpful at all

To the OP, don't forget to report please

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