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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Not the ones on photos or messages but the process that you use to find those that you want to meet, ensure that they’re real, your type of person and get face to face.
What are yours?
Do you have them?
What was the process that you went through to develop them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can they make me laugh filter
Does she give me the urge to adjust my life to go say hello and/or rub my winky between her norks or on her anus
Can she make me stiffen up without touching me
You know the basics  |
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The process we went through was learning on the job so to speak. We made a lot of mistakes initially. I know now never to ignore the tiny tells that people give, the old saying 'when people show you who they are, believe them' is very true.
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Go to a club
Give them a poke
Which club?
Asking for a friend…
Townhouse?
Why does your friend really enjoy pokes?
Most of my friends enjoy being poked, it’s a mutual thing
Poking parties? "
Those are the kind of parties that my friend would love. I wonder if they have them |
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"Go to a club
Give them a poke
Which club?
Asking for a friend…
Townhouse?
Why does your friend really enjoy pokes?
Most of my friends enjoy being poked, it’s a mutual thing
Poking parties?
Those are the kind of parties that my friend would love. I wonder if they have them"
Maybe your friend should organise one  . Don't forget the finger condoms. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Go to a club
Give them a poke
Which club?
Asking for a friend…
Townhouse?
Why does your friend really enjoy pokes?
Most of my friends enjoy being poked, it’s a mutual thing
Poking parties?
Those are the kind of parties that my friend would love. I wonder if they have them
Maybe your friend should organise one . Don't forget the finger condoms. "
Latex gloves? Sounds kinky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verified is a good start…. But then message interaction helps build up the ‘carry on or fold’ … then you can go from there….
Age range … distance …. These are the types of things that can change so often depending on mood … but also if you ‘click’ you may be willing to travel further for someone older than expected …. |
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Age first and foremost. If they're below my filter it's a no.
Location. I don't have the time or inclination to travel long distances in the hope of getting my leg over.
Nice person filter. Not the shallow "I've got an amazing profile with stunning pics so I must be worth shagging" type of person but those who can genuinely hold a conversation that isn't all about themselves.
Forum filter. One of the best ways of seeing true personalities. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I go on my instinct and gut feeling. I’m pretty good at that, only got it wrong twice. Live and learn though.
When you got it wrong, did that change how you approach things? "
Not specifically I guess, as there was nothing I could have done differently (other than to not meet them) as they presented themselves differently to me, despite chatting for ages, beforehand.
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Biggest filter for me is my instinct even in written word I'm good at picking a goodun! Obvs pics and the social meet decides got a new one tomoz! Am forever hopefull! Tea and cake! What could go wrong?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse - check
Gentians - check
 good to go.
Love me some gentians! "
Fuck sake. I’ve only just spotted that. And now it’s immortalised in Fab Folklore forever more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse - check
Gentians - check
good to go.
Love me some gentians!
Fuck sake. I’ve only just spotted that. And now it’s immortalised in Fab Folklore forever more. "
Soz soze |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse - check
Gentians - check
good to go.
Love me some gentians!
Fuck sake. I’ve only just spotted that. And now it’s immortalised in Fab Folklore forever more.
Soz soze"
I’ll let you off if we can bump gentians sometime.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse - check
Gentians - check
good to go.
Love me some gentians!
Fuck sake. I’ve only just spotted that. And now it’s immortalised in Fab Folklore forever more.
Soz soze
I’ll let you off if we can bump gentians sometime. "
Bumping gentians with a gentleman - oh my! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not the ones on photos or messages but the process that you use to find those that you want to meet, ensure that they’re real, your type of person and get face to face.
What are yours?
Do you have them?
What was the process that you went through to develop them? "
We are still quite new to all this, so it’s a learning curve…our profile is set so that people can only message or wink if they are verified, photo verified and a site supporter. Purely to help ensure only genuine people can connect with us - it’s not fool proof, obviously. Our age range isn’t too strict, and we’ve filtered out single guys - which is a bit of a pity but it’s more to do with the fact that too many people can’t read our bio….
There are things that turn us right off a couple - being pushy the number one thing. Generally we are really open minded and laid back, and will chat to anyone, but if we don’t get a good vibe, it’s a polite no thank you. |
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"Pulse and a penis
Also, I like to complete a fridge and toilet inspection. If they're not up to standard, I probably won't return. "
Said toilet inspection could very well be done via some of the photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse - check
Gentians - check
good to go.
Love me some gentians!
Fuck sake. I’ve only just spotted that. And now it’s immortalised in Fab Folklore forever more. "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Are they good with/prone to waffling?
Do I get a general good vibe from the person?
Can we talk about a range of topics?
I don't know how I came up with them. Don't think I did really. It's more basic things that suggest compatibility for friendship. |
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"I don’t even know how I did it……it’s not as if GENITALS can be auto-carrot’d to gentians by a phone.
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Course it was a mistake. Nothing to do with the urban dictionary definition of gentian as a big dicked, amazing man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t even know how I did it……it’s not as if GENITALS can be auto-carrot’d to gentians by a phone.
Course it was a mistake. Nothing to do with the urban dictionary definition of gentian as a big dicked, amazing man "
Get outta town! So it does. What a happy coincidence that is. |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
They need to be submissive, that's a given as I'm not here for anything other than D/s meets. And out kinks need to align
Before that, I need to connect mentally with them. They need to be on a similar page to me with their beliefs, the play I like, I'm not goung to consider that with someone that I can't chat comfortably too about any number of topics |
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Age range has been altered over time based on experience and my own age. Newbies are blocked but actually I’d prefer if this was possible to include everyone who’s joined in last 3 - 6 months.
I’m debating blocking unverified.
Personally as I look at profiles and messages I’m not interested in “meet now” types, and there’s a long list by now (I’ve been on anc off fab a long time by now) of the things that put me off based on profile and 1st message.
I’ve only had a few let downs and most of them have been in very early days when I didn’t know how to make fab work for me, I sometimes get caught out when I come back after some time away when I’ve forgotten the signals that someone isn’t for me. I quickly relearn.
In terms of nasty messages I’ve no hesitation in reporting. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Can they hold a conversation without it always being about sex. Do they have a good sense of humour and we can have a laugh together.Have they lied about their age or anything else when chatting to me.
I go mostly by my gut instinct on here and only a handful of times have I been wrong about someone. But I learnt by my mistakes along the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What day of the week we’re they born?
Do they have 3 cute girlfriends?
And do they have a sense of humour?
and do they want to snog me. *not related to the sense of humour filter. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Yep I have them for age ,newbies and no public pics
Age is because I don't want people too much older or younger .Newbies is due to a pest I had who I blocked ,but he kept rejoining and messaging.Also because I don't want to invest in chat with someone who then just ups and leaves ,so making people wait and be on a for a few days before they can message helps.
The no pics is pretty self explanatory although people do cheat this one and the age one .
The filters help keep my mail at the level I like and give me more chance of striking up a chat with someone I'd want to . |
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"Can they hold a conversation without it always being about sex. Do they have a good sense of humour and we can have a laugh together.Have they lied about their age or anything else when chatting to me.
I go mostly by my gut instinct on here and only a handful of times have I been wrong about someone. But I learnt by my mistakes along the way. "
Absolutely this!
Need to be able to have a fun chat with them about other topics and also not take themselves too seriously. We’re all a bit ridiculous and sex is often ridiculous too. Need to be able to have a laugh. |
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