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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
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Don't think you do. But paybacks a bitch so shag her sister best mate or a girl that you know she's hates 
And mind what goes around comes around. Better off without her I say.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
Don't think you do. But paybacks a bitch so shag her sister best mate or a girl that you know she's hates
And mind what goes around comes around. Better off without her I say.
If your needing pay back lol were here x
Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was gonna try murder but can't get a gun I'd shag her sister but she's a minger and I did her years ago
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Looks like _iews Karma has bitten you on the bum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is a revenge shag a good idea?
I always feel a bit sorry for the person on the receiving end of a revenge shag....they hav'nt done anything wrong and get all the frustration taken out on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"rise above it..... karma will go a knocking on their door.
be happy again"
dont go round shagging people just to 'get your own back' the chances are it will be you that ebds up feeling worse and its not nice to use people just to try and hurt someone else
rise above it and be the better man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Walk away with your dignity unless of course you've been cheating then I say you deserved what she gave you as for your brother however that's the one person who is out of order and you should just cut ties with him once is a mistake 6months pure deceit |
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By *landleeCouple
over a year ago
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you will always have that hanging over your shoulder you either tell her do it again your filing for divorce or kick her out i would kick her out personally good luck though which ever you choose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you had a missus why you on fab as a single guy for the past month yet have the audacity to moan she fucking you about? perhaps she knew you fucked her sister so thought keep it in the family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you wouldnt kick her out though if you thought maybe it was your fault she cheated on you though.
you cant blame your brother as he isnt the one who is married. |
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It will be difficult to get over it at all - one option is to tell EVERYONE and put them to shame.
BUT...... you are on here as a single man, does she know? If not, has Karma come knocking on your door? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you wouldnt kick her out though if you thought maybe it was your fault she cheated on you though.
you cant blame your brother as he isnt the one who is married."
i dont know i think i would be pretty upset with my sister of she shagged my fella, wether she was married or not, for most people blood is thicker and you dont do that to your family |
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Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
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If you're looking for advice try rhodrigiggs.co.uk - I hear he's set up a Wednesday evening support group.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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awww diddums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you shagged your wifes sister and joined a swingers site.
Now you complain because she has shagged your brother.
If you cant stand the heat mate .......... |
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"Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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How did he "take her off you"? She must have wanted to surely? You need to ask yourself and her, the reason why. |
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"Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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So.....you slept with your fiancee's sister, before or after you got with your fiancee?
You slept with your brother's partner before they were together but before or after you got with your fiancee?
Seems like a lot of messing about on all sides to be honest, will be tough to get any normality back now |
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
If you're looking for advice try rhodrigiggs.co.uk - I hear he's set up a Wednesday evening support group. "
Witty! |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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You've been with your brother's mrs albeit before he knew her?
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"I was gonna try murder but can't get a gun I'd shag her sister but she's a minger and I did her years ago"
You've been with her sister too albeit years ago?
and now
You're brother has been with your mrs?
You all keeping it in the family aint ya!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SO you shagged your brothers Mrs before he did, you shagged your Mrs sister before her, and your brother shagged your Mrs before you got married.... small village is it? |
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"SO you shagged your brothers Mrs before he did, you shagged your Mrs sister before her, and your brother shagged your Mrs before you got married.... small village is it? "
No, a game of some sort, one summers evening when everyone said "God, these bridge games are dull! What else could we do?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you shagged your wifes sister and joined a swingers site.
Now you complain because she has shagged your brother.
If you cant stand the heat mate .........."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SO you shagged your brothers Mrs before he did, you shagged your Mrs sister before her, and your brother shagged your Mrs before you got married.... small village is it? "
Can you explain please! I am getting confused as to who shagged who!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am now lost..... help me
the op shagged his ex g/f's sister before he knew his ex
then he got with his ex g/f
she then did the dirty with his brother 6 months ago and ever since
he joined here a month ago after trying to get over it for the last 5 month...
what's he done wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP, with the luck you have with women have you ever considered turning gay? Then you could shag two brothers and not really give a bollocks about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SO you shagged your brothers Mrs before he did, you shagged your Mrs sister before her, and your brother shagged your Mrs before you got married.... small village is it?
Can you explain please! I am getting confused as to who shagged who!!"
If you had this for the plot of a porn movie, it would be almost unbelievable!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am now lost..... help me
the op shagged his ex g/f's sister before he knew his ex
then he got with his ex g/f
she then did the dirty with his brother 6 months ago and ever since
he joined here a month ago after trying to get over it for the last 5 month...
what's he done wrong"
ooo I love guessing games..
Lemme see.. he... um... er.... boned his wife's mum? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I am now lost..... help me
the op shagged his ex g/f's sister before he knew his ex
then he got with his ex g/f
she then did the dirty with his brother 6 months ago and ever since
he joined here a month ago after trying to get over it for the last 5 month...
what's he done wrong
ooo I love guessing games..
Lemme see.. he... um... er.... boned his wife's mum? "
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"I am now lost..... help me
the op shagged his ex g/f's sister before he knew his ex
then he got with his ex g/f
she then did the dirty with his brother 6 months ago and ever since
he joined here a month ago after trying to get over it for the last 5 month...
what's he done wrong
ooo I love guessing games..
Lemme see.. he... um... er.... boned his wife's mum? "
Give him time, she is next on his list...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - when did you find out she shagged your brother, was it before or after you joined here? A bit confused.... If that bit is clear then maybe we can help... or at least it will help us! |
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"Just to clear up confusion I am not married to her was engaged I went with his mrs before he knew her and he knew how much I loved my mrs and tOok her off me so I don't deserve karma I just wanted my brother to respect me
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Why doesn't he respect you? And why haven't you the self confidence not to need his respect? Karma is there whether you like it or not. Two wrongs don't make a right and two shags doth not a party make- I made that bit up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SO you shagged your brothers Mrs before he did, you shagged your Mrs sister before her, and your brother shagged your Mrs before you got married.... small village is it? "
nah its just jeremy kyle fodder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
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By the sounds of it you won't get over it as its a raw open wound right now. It will fade in time but I doubt its something you will ever forget and it will make you feel less trusting of people. Good luck though do what you can to move on and hope things improve. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Write both a letter calmly outlining exactly what they have done and how it has made you feel.
Try to play on any sense of guilt and crank it up. Then allow their consciences to do all the dirty work.
Make sure you leave it a time so that your anger at them can get to a nice 'cold' heat.
Revenge, as they say, is a dish best served cold.
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
who are you more pissed off with your brother or said lovely gf? "
Surely it has to be the gf.
Received wisdom suggests most men will shag just about anyone/ anything which will allow them to do so.
If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Write both a letter calmly outlining exactly what they have done and how it has made you feel.
Try to play on any sense of guilt and crank it up. Then allow their consciences to do all the dirty work.
Make sure you leave it a time so that your anger at them can get to a nice 'cold' heat.
Revenge, as they say, is a dish best served cold.
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Never EVER commit your thoughts on such matters to paper (or voicemail or .......)
These things have a nasty way of becoming evidence. |
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
who are you more pissed off with your brother or said lovely gf?
Surely it has to be the gf.
Received wisdom suggests most men will shag just about anyone/ anything which will allow them to do so.
If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will."
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought! |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!"
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice. |
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice."
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
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Walk away and leave if you cant move on or forgive and forget are you're only options really  |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months."
I've read no evidence of coercion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread reminds me of the chant aimed at Norwich fans, 'The Norwich Family' (or in this case, 'The Redditch Family') to the tune of 'The Addams' Family' theme |
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months.
I've read no evidence of coercion."
Nor I that's why I wondered how it was the womans decision. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months.
I've read no evidence of coercion.
Nor I that's why I wondered how it was the womans decision."
I explained this in my first sentence; but aparently I'm a moron - so what do I know. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"How do I get over my mrs shaggin my brother for the last six months there's a line u don't cross
By the sounds of it you won't get over it as its a raw open wound right now. It will fade in time but I doubt its something you will ever forget and it will make you feel less trusting of people. Good luck though do what you can to move on and hope things improve. "
Thanks for restoring my faith and great advice |
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months.
I've read no evidence of coercion.
Nor I that's why I wondered how it was the womans decision.
I explained this in my first sentence; but aparently I'm a moron - so what do I know."
Are you? Who told you that?
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months.
I've read no evidence of coercion.
Nor I that's why I wondered how it was the womans decision.
I explained this in my first sentence; but aparently I'm a moron - so what do I know. Are you? Who told you that?
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Someone on another thread but I've been called much worse in many languages on a number on continents so I won't be losing _nny sleep about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You cannot, ditch her as that really is not right, don't go shagging her sister, that is just tit for tat and really, you cannot have a go at your wife then can you, and besides, if you have been on here without her knowledge, you cannot say a thing whether she has crossed the line or not, perhaps by being here you have made her feel neglected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if it was me i would say nothing.
do nothing and wait.
they do not care about you and nor should you them.
but never speak to or have anything to do with them again.
make them suffer with silence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is fab really the answer to make you feel better ? If by all accounts you've slept with the sister and the brothers missus all before you and your fiancé got together then I have every sympathy for you as our past should remain as such but as for what you do now then honestly walking away with your pride is all you can do
If your brother has done this before he will just keep doing so sounds like you and he have deep rooted grievances
Keep going over it in your head will only make things worse start afresh take time out away from it all and don't be going for revenge fucks their not fair on the other person
I'd say happy swinging but again I think your on here for all the wrong reasons |
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If it actually happens, it's because the female has decided it will.
Blimey women are more powerful than I thought!
Have a scour through posts on Fab. Without exception it's all about the woman's choice.
Yes but I didn't know they could force an unwilling man to have an affair for six months.
I've read no evidence of coercion.
Nor I that's why I wondered how it was the womans decision.
I explained this in my first sentence; but aparently I'm a moron - so what do I know. Are you? Who told you that?
Someone on another thread but I've been called much worse in many languages on a number on continents so I won't be losing _nny sleep about it."
Me too lol! I don't lose sleep over it either |
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